Clients hiring a masseur expecting anal and oral sex

[LaSanta]

On 12/24/2025 at 10:59 AM, TantricMD said:

My expectations are directly correlated to the rate the masseur is offering. There was a time not too long ago when the differences in masseur and escort rates were 100-200 or more. These pre covid rates (150-200) made it easy to limit my expectation to a therapeutic, sensual, or sometimes erotic massage in eager anticipation that there COULD (not guaranteed) be a connection to take things further if the chemistry was there for both.

These days, I am considered cheap for wanting a massage (nude, MT, HE, no sex) for 150. 

A lot of escorts have duplicated their ads on RMasseur but have not adjusted their rates to reflect a difference in services. If the same rates (250-500) apply to both massage and full service they can't be upset when I'm expecting all the extras. Isn't this why they put themselves on multiple ads at the full service rate?  They expect that the client will pay the higher rate, and the client should expect to get the full services even if responding to a massage ad. 

There are still several pros that have different competitive and affordable rates for massage vs. full service. It's all about communication to be sure all expectations are clear and met. I ask lots of questions and sometimes get labeled as a time waster. I don't agree when I haven't altered anyone's schedule just to get clarity on what the session includes. Some of the newer pros are coming out the gate with escort rates and get really upset that clients aren't lining up around the block to book an implied rub and tug if they think I'm attractive just because they posted on a massage site.

Make your rates make sense and the clients expectations will probably follow. 

I've done both and massaging requires more work than actual escorting. 

Masseurs have to sweat their asses massaging the client during the entire session and it always also requires concentration. On top, you need to have skills to work on. 

Escorts many of the times are just laid on their backs getting an oral.

During the time I escorted, I never provided anal. My clients often seeked for company or whorshipping (in ocassions, they were even done in less than 30 minutes). So yes, escorting is definitely an easier job. The thing is that having sex with strangers is not for everyone. At the end, I think being a masseur is better.