Feeling not attractive enough to hire

[Awksjoe]

Thanks again everyone I'll let you know how I get on in January. I'll be going to Berlin and Alicante and somewhere in-between. It's gonna be a trip alone for my 40th birthday to kind of find myself lol cheesy I know xxx

[TBD]

On 11/22/2025 at 7:58 PM, SecretProvider said:

No provider will care about your scars. 

I would encourage you to be as transparent as you can. Don't just say 'I am fat', be honest with your size. I never reject a client based on looks, but I do like to be mentally prepared with what I am dealing with. There is such a big range of 'fat' - it can be a little overweight, it can be morbidly obese or even extreme obesity, and we may need to plan for some logistic (are there stairs? is the bed big enough? will you be able to use the shower at my place?) 

One thing that I would also be mindful of is if you are of a size that causes difficulty with being able to reach every where in order to wash yourself fully - please ensure you take extra special care and time to do so before your meeting. (that includes all skin folds and so on, a full deep clean - not just a quick rinse off) 

 

@PhileasFogg  these are not troll like/negative comments. I feel it's unfair to say he is only negative. I want more providers to post here, not less. I wish they were more active on these forums. 

[thruster]

I have been hiring for 13 years, and have the same issues as the OP. I am always well groomed, well dressed, polite, and friendly. I never disclose my age or weight, and neither do I disclose my profession, or domestic situation prior to meeting, nor have I ever provided a photograph or deposit. I have always hired young, attractive guys, and I have never been declined.  My sincere delight in my hire's youth and beauty becomes evident in our playtime, and memories of the experiences bolster my self-image.

My thoughts: be confident, and have the requested payment on hand. I think very few guys will refuse you. And have fun!

Edited 14 hours ago by thruster
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On 11/24/2025 at 6:15 PM, Awksjoe said:

Thanks again everyone I'll let you know how I get on in January. I'll be going to Berlin and Alicante and somewhere in-between. It's gonna be a trip alone for my 40th birthday to kind of find myself lol cheesy I know xxx

Still lost?