RM Reviews

[RayK]

I think we can all agree that provider reviews on RM aren't necessarily the gold standard for having a great time, but what about the absence of any reviews?   Its understandable on new guys, but is it a worry if there are no reviews even after a guy has been around for a while ?

[savantsav]

RM makes it very hard to give any review from 1 star to 3 stars. They'll go through your RM Messenger chat logs, ask for screenshots of conversations and even then will remove negative reviews. I do NOT trust RM reviews at all only the ones here.

[RayK]

I agree with you about the value of RM reviews.   But what about a total lack of reviews for a provider who's been on the page for over a year?   

[+ Gar1eth]

5 minutes ago, RayK said:

I agree with you about the value of RM reviews.   But what about a total lack of reviews for a provider who's been on the page for over a year?   

It's definitely suspicious. But there are obviously a lot of factors. It might be one thing for what ostensibly looks like a desirable guy in a big city like NYC vs say Columbus, OH. And then is the escort mainstream desirable or possibly has more niche appeal? Plus I think I've been told that only paid memberships can review people these days. 
 

So lots of factors. 

[+ glutes]

Anyone look at the reviews on Rentmasseur? All are 5 star, even if there are negative comments in the comments.

And the favorable ones look like they are AI written.

Edited October 15, 2025 by glutes

[TJMS]

With RM, it's trust but verify. I have never engaged an escort that was not recommended by someone here. I have never been steered wrong by a member here. 

I just tried to engage a very attractive guy on RM who has great reviews. But after settling on a date, he all of a sudden had a prior engagement but said he's loved to meet still, but when pressed for a new time, ghosted me. 

 

[+ Pensant]

Sometimes one simply has to take one for the team.

[RayK]

2 hours ago, Gar1eth said:

It's definitely suspicious. But there are obviously a lot of factors. It might be one thing for what ostensibly looks like a desirable guy in a big city like NYC vs say Columbus, OH. And then is the escort mainstream desirable or possibly has more niche appeal? Plus I think I've been told that only paid memberships can review people these days. 
 

So lots of factors. 

This is definitely an insightful response.   And, yes, only paid memberships qualify a client to review a provider.

[56harrisond]

 

[Walt]

The absence of evidence is not evidence of anything.

[+ Gar1eth]

10 hours ago, TJMS said:

I just tried to engage a very attractive guy on RM who has great reviews. But after settling on a date, he all of a sudden had a prior engagement but said he's loved to meet still, but when pressed for a new time, ghosted me. 

 

Had he been recommended by anyone on here? Or was this your first attempt at seeing a totally "unknown quantity". 

[TJMS]

One person who posted here up until August saw him but never returned my message.  That should have been a warning sign. I am seeing someone today who has gotten rave reviews from a few different regulars here, so I am hoping my record remains intact of great meetings with guys recommended by folks here!