*tantric massage and bondage

[Ander]

Looking for any fellows out there that are tantric providers who enjoy tying guys up as well.

[AshburyGuy]

This guy meets your requirements. I have not personally met him (yet).

https://rentmasseur.com/EroticDominance

 

[+ poolboy48220]

2 hours ago, AshburyGuy said:

This guy meets your requirements. I have not personally met him (yet).

https://rentmasseur.com/EroticDominance

 

I'm really intrigued, but man, he's expensive. 

[xax]

He doesn’t advertise this on his website but halfway through sessions (I went maybe twice a few years ago) he’d ask if I wanted a blindfold put on and be tied up and I am pretty sure things would’ve gone further, but I’m too vanilla and only opted for the blindfold 😅. Also there isn’t a specific tantric massage advertised, and I didn’t specifically ask for it, but I thought it was quite tantric. Worth reaching out and asking! Paul's a really nice man.

 

Massage Therapy - Introduction

MINDFULLBODY.COM

 

Edited October 7, 2025 by xax

[ArmyHands]

Small sample of my service....

[musclvr]

On 10/7/2025 at 7:16 AM, xax said:

He doesn’t advertise this on his website but halfway through sessions (I went maybe twice a few years ago) he’d ask if I wanted a blindfold put on and be tied up and I am pretty sure things would’ve gone further, but I’m too vanilla and only opted for the blindfold 😅. Also there isn’t a specific tantric massage advertised, and I didn’t specifically ask for it, but I thought it was quite tantric. Worth reaching out and asking! Paul's a really nice man.

 

Massage Therapy - Introduction

MINDFULLBODY.COM

 

I haven't seen Paul in well over a decade. Back in the day when I would see him, his Tao massage was fantastic. He's also really skilled at therapeutic massage. He's probably in his mid-50s now.

You'll get extra bonus points with him if you're younger and in shape.

[DunwoodyGuy]

I would check out the Body Electric Workshop. They have a separate program from their erotic tantric massage classes for people to explore what they call "Conscious Kink":
 

Power, Surrender, & Intimacy - Body Electric School

BODYELECTRIC.ORG

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Ready to explore the depths of your erotic self? The "Power, Surrender, & Intimacy (PSI)" workshop offers a safe and expertly guided space to delve into

 

[la_connor]

Try keyword search on rentmasseur.   https://rentmasseur.com/gay-massage/?keyword=bondage

 

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[Simon Suraci]

I offer this range of services.

Where it gets tricky for me is when clients want everything, all in one short session, for a therapeutic fee. I really can’t do it all. It’s not fair to me, and it shortchanges you. It’s possible to combine some light bdsm style elements pretty easily like add a blindfold, or use a spanking paddle, or wear a leather jock, etc. Or incorporate a tantric edging training after the massage is concluded and the client is face up. The client needs to book a long enough session for this, such as 90 mins or more. 

Generally, I like to break out bdsm from massage. It can be relaxing but also exciting and intensely stimulating. It’s wonky transitioning from a relaxing massage experience, washing up, doing the binding work, and resetting the mood. Unless you’re booking a very long session, you end up pulling time away from both aspects to get into the zone for each. Same concerns with Tantra style massage and tantric edging training. Trying to do this with bdsm in the same session block can be cumbersome.

I highly recommend breaking all of these services out into separate sessions, all of which are minimum 60 mins each (preferably 90 mins or more each) so you can get the full benefit, focus, and atmosphere just right for each one. You get the benefit of familiarity and trust using the same provider for each service, and the benefit of maximizing your time for each service, not feeling rushed, overwhelmed, overstimulated, like you’re getting whiplash, wasting time on transitions, or having to book half a day or more to give all the services their proper time, with breaks scheduled in.

Here are a few of the services I offer:

- tantric edging training

- tantric style massages

- bdsm using my table

- blindfolds, gags, rope

- toy play, sensory experiences

- pleasure torture, withholding

- dom/sub dynamics, cum control

- vanilla full service

- combo massage / full service

- traditional western massage

- elements of eastern massage

- hot stone massage

- gua sha using jade tools

- 4-hand, couples, outcalls, groups

- companionship

 

[MassageCommunityMember]

Simon is great at edging

[mtaabq]

If I am permitted, and if this comment is within guidelines, I  would like to say that @Simon Suraci (see his post above) is an outstanding provider. I’ve seen him twice and, truthfully, I did not fully realize the breadth of services he offers. I am now highly anticipating our next session, whether I’m in his location or he’s in mine. 

[Phx5231Crazy]

Simon is GREAT - look forward to his return to Phoenix