Group Scenes

[Boaxxx]

I'm planning for a small group experience, me and three other providers, and would appreciate some provider feedback.  I have already had one-on-one sessions with two of the providers and those two providers also know one another and are fine with working with one another. The third guy has been recommended by one of the two, someone that he has worked with before. Two hours are being set aside for the session.  I will be the center of attention, a small gangbang/cumdump.

I have several different scenarios/roleplay ideas. Question, should I offer up the different scenarios and let the providers choose one or should I simply let things simply evolve organically (greet one another, exchange pleasantries and   My preference is to provide different scenarios and let them choose one and surprise me (anticipating what I am going to walk into would be very exciting) but I also don't want to complicate things for the guys. Thoughts?

[+ JamesB]

I don’t have much experience setting up group sessions, but one thing I’ve learned is that it’s crucial to lay out clear ground rules for both, what you want to happen and what you don’t. At the end of the day, you’re the client, so it’s in your best interest to make your expectations crystal clear from the start.

[+ KensingtonHomo]

It depends on how specific these scenarios are. If it’s simple mechanics: you want to get DP’d while getting face fucked, that’s simple enough. If you’re looking for more of a role play situation, you probably need to articulate them fairly well. 

[CuriousByNature]

Too bad DW Griffith isn't alive to chime in - he knew how to pull off group scenes like nobody else.  LOL

[Boaxxx]

3 hours ago, CuriousByNature said:

Too bad DW Griffith isn't alive to chime in - he knew how to pull off group scenes like nobody else.  LOL

LOL, too bad indeed.

[+ Jamie21]

Make sure the 3 guys can work well together, sounds like you’ve done that. Then let them know what you definitely don’t want (hate your toes being sucked? Tell them about it). Avoid setting out too prescriptive a list of what you do want because that can make it too choreographed. Tell them how you want to feel rather than what you want done. As in I want to feel like I’m your plaything, I want to feel slutty or whatever. They know how to make that happen because it’s their job. If you say I want to be DP’d while having my throat used then that becomes the fixation and it’s likely to make your session too focused on that activity. Let it happen naturally, it’s so much better. 

[GentJ]

Can I volunteer? 😁 I love groups.

In my experience with groups it does matter if you have the right ratio of tops to bottoms. 3:2 tops to bottoms is optimal, in my opinion, so the tops get to take a rest every now and then! But in your case, maybe you'd like to be the only top or the only bottom? I don't think you'll have much of an issue with the providers being able to work together--as professionals, they should be able to make it work. And they should make sure you get plenty of attention as patron.

I do think making the rules clear in advance is a must, but it's probably fun if there aren't too many so you can see what possibilities arise naturally. There are so many fun combinations of dicks and holes!

[Boaxxx]

Thanks guys for your feedback.  I definitely like the idea of letting them know how I want to feel rather than spelling out specifics (unless there is really something specific that I want).