Has a provider ever shown up unannounced at your door step?

[+ glutes]

Ding dong, " I saw you a couple of weeks ago, would you let me in? "

And if you do, it always leads to hold w you can 'help' them.

How have you handled a situation like this?

[Ali Gator]

3 hours ago, glutes said:

Ding dong, " I saw you a couple of weeks ago, would you let me in? "

And if you do, it always leads to hold w you can 'help' them.

How have you handled a situation like this?

 

Huh ? 

[+ DrownedBoy]

That would be freaky, borderline stalking.

I have a regular who texts when he's near me and offers me a deal if I agree to meet him "right away," but that's the closest. If he came to the door, I'd say he was trying to intimidate me into hiring him.

[spidir]

7 hours ago, glutes said:

Ding dong, " I saw you a couple of weeks ago, would you let me in? "

And if you do, it always leads to hold w you can 'help' them.

How have you handled a situation like this?

Imagine how a provider would respond if a client showed up unannounced and uninvited. My guard would be up and I would attempt to quickly end communication without escalating the situation. There would be no repeat meetings. 

[nate_sf]

2 hours ago, spidir said:

Imagine how a provider would respond if a client showed up unannounced and uninvited. 

This has happened to me. I received a text “hey guess what, I’m right across the street!”  And when I looked out the window there he was waving. 

I chalked it up less to stalking, and more to just not respecting boundaries. 

[BuffaloKyle]

I had a stalker once who gave out my address to a random guy online who showed up at my house.

[Scott Carroll]

Not a provider but a man with whom I met through the old CL showed up at my door unannounced on a Saturday after I blew him earlier in the week.  My husband answered the door and asked him what he wanted and he said he was looking for "Scott."  My husband told him that I wasn't home and he was not amused for several days afterwards.  I continued to service "Bill" for quite a few years after that!!!  He loved getting his hot love hole ate out!  He was a sweetheart and I really liked him too!