Musings on Twinks

[Constantine]

 I have to admit, I'm kinda jealous of twinks. They have the best lifestyle of any human subgroup. It's any man's dream to be able to devote your youth to nothing but sex and partying with seemingly no consequences.

They're the ultimate sex objects and are the physical embodiment of male desire. All they have to do is be hot and then they get so much money and attention showered on them. I've fucked a lot of twinks in several different countries and I've never met who wasn't perfectly happy with a great life. In addition to being super hot, they're also genuinely nice people, like there's nothing bad about them it's crazy. 

[+ Pensant]

I know plenty and I don’t agree that they’re all happy and carefree. Several that I see don’t party at all, since they’ve lost parents to drugs. They’re part of the cohort of Gen Zers who don’t drink at all, which is an emerging trend. Of course, I’m not in LA or NYC, where the party life may be more common.

[+ jessmapex]

I just got stiffed by a twink. He promised he would help with my fantasies. Doled out 2.5 k for an all paid weekend. He acted all reserved and gave me looks like i was a creep when everything was clearly spelled out in our pre-meeting conversations. Although i had met him for brief appointments before, his narcissism was on full display in the longer meeting. Look at me, i am so pretty, but dont touch.

As i drove home i almost wanted to cry like i used to in my 20s when nobody would give me a second look at the bars.

Worse, we went to a bar. We were having a drink and he chatted another guy up. Later he told me he was going to the bathroom. I said ok. Then i realized the other guy also disappeared. It took me a moment to realize they were making out and sucking in the bathroom while i sat all alone. 

I have decided to stop being a nice client from now on. I now realize why some clients are rude and hard on their hires.

 

Edited March 11 by jessmapex

[Guest]

Unfortunately, twinkdom is fleeting.

I struggled with my post-twink years (early to mid 30's). The culture builds you up only to tear you down. One of the reasons I got into this hobby was to rebuild my self-esteem.

It definitely pays to be kinder when we're younger.

[Constantine]

14 hours ago, jessmapex said:

I just got stiffed by a twink. He promised he would help with my fantasies. Doled out 2.5 k for an all paid weekend. He acted all reserved and gave me looks like i was a creep when everything was clearly spelled out in our pre-meeting conversations. Although i had met him for brief appointments before, his narcissism was on full display in the longer meeting. Look at me, i am so pretty, but dont touch.

As i drove home i almost wanted to cry like i used to in my 20s when nobody would give me a second look at the bars.

Worse, we went to a bar. We were having a drink and he chatted another guy up. Later he told me he was going to the bathroom. I said ok. Then i realized the other guy also disappeared. It took me a moment to realize they were making out and sucking in the bathroom while i sat all alone. 

I have decided to stop being a nice client from now on. I now realize why some clients are rude and hard on their hires.

 

I'm sorry you went through that but it's a reminder that we hire escorts for sex and not general companionship. I hire boys to come to my hotel room when I'm on vacation, I have no desire to go to a bar with them publicly. 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

On 3/9/2025 at 5:28 PM, Quincy_7 said:

 I have to admit, I'm kinda jealous of twinks. They have the best lifestyle of any human subgroup. It's any man's dream to be able to devote your youth to nothing but sex and partying with seemingly no consequences.

They're the ultimate sex objects and are the physical embodiment of male desire. All they have to do is be hot and then they get so much money and attention showered on them. I've fucked a lot of twinks in several different countries and I've never met who wasn't perfectly happy with a great life. In addition to being super hot, they're also genuinely nice people, like there's nothing bad about them it's crazy. 

On the contrary, I think Bears have it better.  They not only can have sex as often as they want; but, they can enjoy a hearty meal without worrying about losing their figure!  And, staying super hot as a hairy bear can last for decades!

I'm so glad I wasn't a Twink.  I would have missed out on all the great encounters I have with men who are attracted to my rug of chest hair 🐻 

[Nightowl]

I’m happy everyone gravitates to twinks so that I have less competition for the guys with hairy chests.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

You're waxing poetic about them because they're your type.

Step back from the ledge.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

On 3/10/2025 at 9:46 PM, jessmapex said:

I have decided to stop being a nice client from now on. I now realize why some clients are rude and hard on their hires.

Don't an asshole. 

You made the wrong decision.  Lesson learned.  

That gives you zero right to be 'hard' on your 'hires' in the future.

[+ jessmapex]

1 hour ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

That gives you zero right to be 'hard' on your 'hires' in the future.

Why? Asking that the provider get into what was discussed is hardly 'being hard'. Just being nice and hoping they would deliver what was agreed to is no longer cutting it.

Edited March 12 by jessmapex

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

33 minutes ago, jessmapex said:

Why? Asking that the provider get into what was discussed is hardly 'being hard'. Just being nice and hoping they would deliver what was agreed to is no longer cutting it.

But that's not what you said.  You said...

'I have decided to stop being a nice client from now on. I now realize why some clients are rude and hard on their hires.'

Translation:  You had a shitty experience with one escort so now you think that gives you carte blanche to be an asshole. 

It doesn't

A lot of escorts deliver on what they promise.  You didn't find that guy.  Did you do your homework?  Is he reviewed?  Did you do any due diligence?

Also, did you pay him up-front for the weekend?  If not, why would you give him a full-fee for such an awful experience?

Bottom line is that, yes, he was a dud, but also take some blame where it's due. 

Live and learn, but don't treat the next escort like shit.

[+ Pensant]

7 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

A lot of escorts deliver on what they promise. 

That’s been my experience over the past 20 years.

[+ jessmapex]

20 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

Bottom line is that, yes, he was a dud, but also take some blame where it's due.

Not taking any blame. I had met him for short (1-2 hr) appts before. I knew what he was into and had clearly spelled out what I wanted get into in textual communication. It was not outside his wheelhouse and actually a very common and safe act.

Edited March 13 by jessmapex

[+ PhileasFogg]

I know two kinds:

1) narcissists who believe they are there to be served

2) nice guys with a goal and an awareness that they have a limited time to get there

[Constantine]

15 hours ago, PhileasFogg said:

I know two kinds:

1) narcissists who believe they are there to be served

2) nice guys with a goal and an awareness that they have a limited time to get there

In my experience twinks are the ones doing the serving.