Guest Posted February 12 Posted February 12 Some encounters that didn’t deliver for me. To preface, I understand the the common element of all of these experiences is me and it’s likely others would have very different experiences. I’m new here - Hi all!! - and will do my best to communicate without being explicit as per the rules. https://rent.men/younglatinomale I saw him twice. Very good looking. However, the first time he kept all his clothes on (because he said he was cold) and he didn’t provide the full service he said he would. The second time I made sure my apartment was hot, but he wasn’t unable to perform his job. Watching videos on his cell phone didn’t help him. https://rent.men/TattooAsian Hired him for a massage which turned into more. At one point he went into the bathroom for a long time which was odd. And then when he came out he acted very strange. It almost seemed like he had Tourette syndrome. He had strange ticks. Rapidly shaking his head and contorting his neck in strange positions and blurting out words that didn’t make sense. Very bizarre encounter. https://rent.men/Emilianox Very handsome, nice, cool guy. But he had very very bad breath which made it difficult to be near him. And his profile measurements were inaccurate which lessened my experience. https://rent.men/TopNotchLatin This guy really was able to turn on the fire, be aggressive and make you feel like he was interested, which is a skill many don’t have, but again his profile measurements were inaccurate which lessened my experience. https://rent.men/carloshernandezz I contacted him and he asked what I was looking for. I said full service. He asked for me to send him a photo of myself, which I did. Then he said it would be $600 for him to be in the dominant position. So that was the end of that. https://rent.men/BigDig_Yoan I saw positive comments about him here - like good hygiene, nice guy, good at what he does - so I gave him a shot. Sure enough he was all of those things. My only issue was he was a very big man, too big for me. https://rent.men/MILDtooWILD I was intrigued by his interview and description. He really seemed confident in his skills and that he could deliver an incredible experience. Again, his profile measurements were inaccurate and he wasn’t unable to perform his job. To top it off he stole something from my home. https://rent.men/AsianHealingTop I met him twice. Once just for a massage, the other for “more”. The massage was relaxing but not a great hard massage like I get from my local Chinese massage parlor for $60. And although I would say his measurements were not accurate which affected the “more” encounter, he is one of the most handsome guys I’ve spent time with. I guess he’s just really my type in that way. Very sweet and beautiful man. Would see again, although with expectations in check. https://rent.men/XYEIHOTBOYX I’ve tried to meet up with this guy several times. He’s not very communicative even when I send messages in Spanish. I’ll text him in the afternoon to see if he’s available. He’ll say “yes”. And then, like clockwork, he texts me at 2am to see if I’m ready. He must be trolling. This has happened three times.
Aceface Posted February 12 Posted February 12 Same thoughts on tattooAsian. He kept saying weird things during our session. Like he would say big money a lot. Thought it was very odd. pubic_assistance 1
Spikeguy Posted February 12 Posted February 12 7 minutes ago, Aceface said: Same thoughts on tattooAsian. He kept saying weird things during our session. Like he would say big money a lot. Thought it was very odd. Maybe a fan of Rush.
BuffaloKyle Posted February 12 Posted February 12 1 hour ago, omen4477 said: https://rent.men/younglatinomale I saw him twice. Very good looking. However, the first time he kept all his clothes on (because he said he was cold) and he didn’t provide the full service he said he would. The second time I made sure my apartment was hot, but he wasn’t unable to perform his job. Watching videos on his cell phone didn’t help him. Why would you even meet up a second time with this guy? Sort of fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. Asterisk, Act25, + JamesB and 6 others 1 8
Guest Posted February 12 Posted February 12 9 minutes ago, Aceface said: Same thoughts on tattooAsian. He kept saying weird things during our session. Like he would say big money a lot. Thought it was very odd. All I could do was try not to laugh, but it certainly killed any mood
Guest Posted February 12 Posted February 12 2 minutes ago, BuffaloKyle said: Why would you even meet up a second time with this guy? Sort of fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. Agreed. I mean he was fully clothed in my bed under the covers and refused to do anything. Why would anyone choose to go through that again? 😂
+ Axiom2001 Posted February 12 Posted February 12 (edited) I haven't been asked to send a photo, for I don't have any anyway, but a month or so ago, I sought recommendations for some torrid TOPS who'll be involved in a three way. I received some recommendations, but when I contacted one of the two who was recommended, I sent him a brief message. He, in turn, requested that I forward a photo of myself: I fired back that I had none; he blocked me from accessing his ad site. ...too bad because he was a hot number who looked as if he'd really "have me on fire with the guy who would partner with him. ...sorry I can't remember his name; thus I can't allow any interested parties to peruse his ad. I had a strange encounter with a porn star some years back. To date I can't remember his name, but he came to my hotel room in San Francisco and treated me in the rudest of ways. I should have been aggressive and stood up to his ass, but for some reason I timidly accepted his shit. At one point he asked if I had a disease. I answered honestly: NO! At this writing I wish I'd talked back to him since he was completely out of line. No one disrespects me. ...was in Barcelona a few years back and hired a guy from either Rentmen or from Romeo. He was one hell of a hottie. That Sunday I was in my toney Airbnb apartment and rang him. He came over and wasted my time as well as my money, for he did NOT do anything but treat me badly. To date I don't know why I did NOT show him the door when he began to act and speak rudely. In looking back I think he had a drug problem, for he failed to get hard and his actions were beyond normal. Lastly, about six years ago, I met SanFrancisco Steve at his house. ...arrived. He invited me into his living room and asked me to chill until he'd showered. He went into the bathroom and remained there for about 10 minutes and found himself back in the living room a short while afterwards where he offered me a joint. I took two puffs, and damn--what hit me? I was immediately stoned as well as disoriented and frightened. He and I messed around a bit until I stopped and dressed and meandered down his flight of six or seven wooden steps. I almost fell at one point because I was quite unsteady. When I got tot he sidewalk, I freaked, for I did NOT know what direction I should walk to get back to my hotel that was in the Union Square area. While I walked back, I felt as if I were in a dream. Thankfully I made it back and went immediately to my room and to bed. That experience was NOT one that I relish to repeat. ...can't write anything positive in this spot because for the last six or seven years I only saw the same hottie, a hot n virile Puerto Rican who for most of those years classified himself as Bi. After COVID subsided, he changed his classification from bi to Straight. To date he no longer has an ad in the San Francisco section of RentMen, so I will not state his name. ALL of our play times together were memorable except for his last two where he had to view "Straight porn" via his cell phone in order to get hard. One time he went into the bathroom and masturbated in order to obtain an erection. (I admired his short jack off session while lying on the bed and awaiting for him to return.). And the 3rd from the last time that we were together, the man was "on fire"--the time that I regret stopping him when he plowed me while I lay on my back. He had me feeling so super-great which frightened me, for I thought he'd bring on a heart attack because the sensations were phenomenal. If he puts up his ad again, I'm going to send him a message where I'll revisit that time, for I think he should know that he had some exquisite expertise during that particular session. Sorry for the missing names/ads, but if the individual who's in charge of this forum desires, he can delete it if he thinks it does not meet the criteria. Edited February 13 by Axiom2001 Hen, DavidNY and domonkasshu160 2 1
Guest Posted February 12 Posted February 12 12 minutes ago, Axiom2001 said: I haven't been asked to send a photo, for I don't have any anyway, but a month or so ago, I sought recommendations for some torrid TOPS who'll be involved in a three way. I received some recommendations, but when I contacted one of the two who was recommended, I sent him a brief message. He, in turn, requested that I forward a photo of myself: I fired back that I had none; he blocked me from accessing his ad site. ...too bad because he was a hot number who looked as if he'd really "have me on fire with the guy who would partner with him. ...sorry I can't remember his name; thus I can't allow any interested parties to peruse his ad. I had a strange encounter with a porn star some years back. To date I can't remember his name, but he came to my hotel room in San Francisco and treated me in the rudest of ways. I should have been aggressive and stood up to his ass, but for some reason I timidly accepted his shit. At one point he asked if I had a disease. I answered honestly: NO! At this writing I wish I'd talked back to him since he was completely out of line. No one disrespects me. ...was in Barcelona a few years back and hired a guy from either Rentmen or from Romeo. He was one hell of a hottie. That Sunday I was in my toney Airbnb apartment and rang him. He came over and wasted my time as well as my money, for he did NOT do anything but treat me badly. To date I don't know why I did NOT show him the door when he began to act and speak rudely. In looking back I think he had a drug problem, for he failed to get hard and his actions were beyond normal. Lastly, about six years ago, I met SanFrancisco Steve at his house. ...arrived. He invited me into his living room and asked me to chill until he'd showered. He went into the bathroom and remained there for about 10 minutes and found himself back in the living room a short while afterwards where he offered me a joint. I took two puffs, and damn--what hit me? I was immediately stoned as well as disoriented and frightened. He and I messed around a bit until I stopped and dressed and meandered down his flight of six or seven wooden steps. I almost fell at one point because I was quite unsteady. When I got tot he sidewalk, I freaked, for I did NOT know what direction I should walk to get back to my hotel that was in the Union Square area. While I walked back, I felt as if I were in a dream. Thankfully I made it back and went immediately to my room and to bed. That experience was NOT one that I relish to repeat. ...can't write anything positive in this spot because for the last six or seven years I only saw the same hottie, a hot n virile Puerto Rican who for most of those years classified himself as Bi. After COVID subsided, he changed his classification from bi to straight. To date his no longer has an ad in the San Francisco section of RentMen, so I will not state his name. ALL of our play times together were memorable except for his last two where he had to view "straight porn" via his cell phone in order to get hard. One time he went into the bathroom and masturbated in order to obtain an erection. (I admired his short jack off session while lying on the bed and awaiting for him to return.). And the 3rd from the last time that we were together, the man was "on fire"--the time that I regret stopping him when he plowed me while I lay on my back. He had me feeling so super-great which frightened me. I thought he'd bring on a heart attack because the sensations were phenomenal. If he puts up his again, I'm going to send him a message where I'll revisit that time, for I think he should know that he had some exquisite expertise during that particular session. Sorry for the missing names/ads, but if the individual who's in charge of this forum desires, he can delete it if he thinks it does not meet the criteria. Thanks for sharing your experiences. Sorry you were treated poorly in many instances. Luckily, we can search provider's names here and get 411
+ ApexNomad Posted February 12 Posted February 12 2 hours ago, omen4477 said: Some encounters that didn’t deliver for me. To preface, I understand the the common element of all of these experiences is me and it’s likely others would have very different experiences. I’m new here - Hi all!! - and will do my best to communicate without being explicit as per the rules. https://rent.men/younglatinomale I saw him twice. Very good looking. However, the first time he kept all his clothes on (because he said he was cold) and he didn’t provide the full service he said he would. The second time I made sure my apartment was hot, but he wasn’t unable to perform his job. Watching videos on his cell phone didn’t help him. https://rent.men/TattooAsian Hired him for a massage which turned into more. At one point he went into the bathroom for a long time which was odd. And then when he came out he acted very strange. It almost seemed like he had Tourette syndrome. He had strange ticks. Rapidly shaking his head and contorting his neck in strange positions and blurting out words that didn’t make sense. Very bizarre encounter. https://rent.men/Emilianox Very handsome, nice, cool guy. But he had very very bad breath which made it difficult to be near him. And his profile measurements were inaccurate which lessened my experience. https://rent.men/TopNotchLatin This guy really was able to turn on the fire, be aggressive and make you feel like he was interested, which is a skill many don’t have, but again his profile measurements were inaccurate which lessened my experience. https://rent.men/carloshernandezz I contacted him and he asked what I was looking for. I said full service. He asked for me to send him a photo of myself, which I did. Then he said it would be $600 for him to be in the dominant position. So that was the end of that. https://rent.men/BigDig_Yoan I saw positive comments about him here - like good hygiene, nice guy, good at what he does - so I gave him a shot. Sure enough he was all of those things. My only issue was he was a very big man, too big for me. https://rent.men/MILDtooWILD I was intrigued by his interview and description. He really seemed confident in his skills and that he could deliver an incredible experience. Again, his profile measurements were inaccurate and he wasn’t unable to perform his job. To top it off he stole something from my home. https://rent.men/AsianHealingTop I met him twice. Once just for a massage, the other for “more”. The massage was relaxing but not a great hard massage like I get from my local Chinese massage parlor for $60. And although I would say his measurements were not accurate which affected the “more” encounter, he is one of the most handsome guys I’ve spent time with. I guess he’s just really my type in that way. Very sweet and beautiful man. Would see again, although with expectations in check. https://rent.men/XYEIHOTBOYX I’ve tried to meet up with this guy several times. He’s not very communicative even when I send messages in Spanish. I’ll text him in the afternoon to see if he’s available. He’ll say “yes”. And then, like clockwork, he texts me at 2am to see if I’m ready. He must be trolling. This has happened three times. When you say his profile measurements are inaccurate, which you mention often, are you referring to dick size?
Guest Posted February 12 Posted February 12 1 hour ago, ApexNomad said: When you say his profile measurements are inaccurate, which you mention often, are you referring to dick size? The rules say "nothing explicit" so I’m not sure what that includes. In those circumstances they were at least 1.5-2.5 inches less than they said in their profiles, which I guess could mean height, hair length, shoe size…and if you really aren’t sure you can PM me.
Yukon21 Posted February 12 Posted February 12 Hes had four names changes in approximately 18 months so Im guessing the service he provides is not meeting others expectations. In less than one hour I learned so much from him on what not to do and that is the only thing I should thank him for.
+ Pensant Posted February 12 Posted February 12 None of these would have merited my attention in the first place. Fortunately about 80% of my hires have been good to great, the other 20% were mediocre. I’ve become far more discerning in the past five years, though, to my benefit. I’m sorry your experiences were so mediocre to bizarre. bretts2002 1
BaronArtz Posted February 12 Posted February 12 @omen4477 I am sorry to read that you experienced a high number of poor and disappointing encounters. Did you have any positive hiring experiences at all during this time period? Most of the guys you hired are indeed problematic. I wonder why anyone would hire them. Bur you DID. My advice is - spend more time researching your providers. Look for clues about them on this forum. Also, how do you approach them? Do you appear friendly and cordial? Do you ask the right questions? It does set a tone before the meeting even starts. Cliff 1
Asterisk Posted February 12 Posted February 12 8 hours ago, Axiom2001 said: I haven't been asked to send a photo, for I don't have any anyway, but a month or so ago, I sought recommendations for some torrid TOPS... I contacted one [and] sent a brief message. He, in turn, requested that I forward a photo of myself: I fired back that I had none; he blocked me from accessing his ad. FWIW, he probably thought you were a "time waster." Everyone's phone has a camera, so claiming to not have a photo is implausible. If you're uncomfortable sending a photo, perhaps just say that -- if he insists, you're at an impasse. If he doesn't, you may have a "go," (but prepare yourself for "YMMV"!). maninsoma 1
DavidNY Posted February 12 Posted February 12 I’ve had excellent and terrible providers. I have learned some red flags and how to be more cautious, but I do still sometimes make a mistake….usually with being too trusting or not walking away when I should have. I have learned to stand up for myself though, no matter how cute they are. Absolutely do not tolerate rudeness, dishonesty, or being taken advantage of. sometimes I’ll tip a provider just for being honest. If they turn down the job because they don’t think they can deliver a good experience, I respect that. Thanks for the stories and the thread. I always learn a lot from others’ experiences. BIG MONEY!!💴 💰 + m_writer and Yukon21 1 1
+ ApexNomad Posted February 13 Posted February 13 14 hours ago, BaronArtz said: Also, how do you approach them? Do you appear friendly and cordial? Do you ask the right questions? It does set a tone before the meeting even starts. Tone is definitely important, and being friendly and cordial is always a must. But even if you do all the “right” things, a lot of this is still subjective and depends on the individuals involved. Tone can sometimes be hard to read in text when there’s no voice or facial expression to accompany it. As for the “right questions,” it really varies. Someone completely new to this might unintentionally raise red flags for a provider, whereas someone experienced knows what to ask out of the gate and how to navigate the conversation smoothly. Finding that balance is key, but it’s not always a guarantee. Nowadays, a provider’s ad copy, the language they use, whether they receive an automated message when they text them, and how that message is worded—all of these things create a initial impression in the absence of face-to-face interaction. That really sets the initial tone. How the prospective client receives it can shape their approach in return. If the message feels warm and welcoming, they may respond with the same energy. If it’s more transactional or direct, they might adjust accordingly. That initial exchange lays the groundwork for the interaction, influencing expectations on both sides. But not always a guarantee. BaronArtz 1
viewing ownly Posted February 13 Posted February 13 While I was highly appreciative of the OP to mix in encounters that did deliver with those that didn't - I've been a fan of TopNotchLatin for some time, and glad to read that he's still a good guy - I'm wondering if the original poster left on his own, or violated the rules of this forum and was excused?
BaronArtz Posted February 13 Posted February 13 (edited) 7 hours ago, viewing ownly said: I'm wondering if the original poster left on his own, or violated the rules of this forum and was excused? If the rules of the forum were violated, the moderators would have edited parts or deleted entirely his post. Which they did not. Edited February 13 by BaronArtz MscleLovr and viewing ownly 1 1
LaffingBear Posted February 13 Posted February 13 I had many one-time encounters that didn't deliver, but many that did. What made me sad was reflecting on my active years, thinking back on great first encounters, guys who i still recall as favorites, arranging to see those guys multiple times, having great times, but eventual slides into disappointing 1-2 final encounters. Or, other factors that deterred me from contacting them again.
hopeman Posted February 14 Posted February 14 Do not waste your time on Latinotopvers. He's scrawny and has toe nail fungus. Gross.
Yukon21 Posted February 14 Posted February 14 (edited) LATINOTOPVERS - Male Escort, Gay massage - Monterey Bay | Rent.Men RENT.MEN LATINOTOPVERS Gay Escort in Monterey Bay, California, available for Gay... If this is the latinotopvers youre speaking about I totally disagree with you. His pics are current enough, accurate and hes anything but scrawny. Hes got a cool, chill vibe and is great to converse with. No Im not him or even a friend. Im a long time, contributing member on this site and a one time client of his who hopes to repeat when he returns to my area. Edited February 14 by Yukon21
CuriousByNature Posted February 14 Posted February 14 6 hours ago, Yukon21 said: LATINOTOPVERS - Male Escort, Gay massage - Monterey Bay | Rent.Men RENT.MEN LATINOTOPVERS Gay Escort in Monterey Bay, California, available for Gay... If this is the latinotopvers youre speaking about I totally disagree with you. His pics are current enough, accurate and hes anything but scrawny. Hes got a cool, chill vibe and is great to converse with. No Im not him or even a friend. Im a long time, contributing member on this site and a one time client of his who hopes to repeat when he returns to my area. But the question everyone wants an answer for is, 'How are those toenails of his?' 🤣
OceanTraveller Posted February 14 Posted February 14 I've had a few regrettable encouraging others . Two of them were misunderstandings at my home and I asked them to leave early . Did not want to hire for a while as I always try my best to see that the provider is comfortable and has a good time too
Yukon21 Posted February 14 Posted February 14 1 hour ago, CuriousByNature said: But the question everyone wants an answer for is, 'How are those toenails of his?' 🤣 LOL. Honestly I didnt notice. He has too many other quality attributes and appendage that I was focused on. CuriousByNature 1
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