Would escorts be ok with your sex toy?

[KAKYDZA]

As someone who gets very anxious about bottoming and being clean enough for my top, would this toy be a turnoff or turn on (or neutral) If someone showed up at an appointment with it and wanted to use it?

[+ Just Chuck]

6 hours ago, KAKYDZA said:

As someone who gets very anxious about bottoming and being clean enough for my top, would this toy be a turnoff or turn on (or neutral) If someone showed up at an appointment with it and wanted to use it?

Did you mean to include a photo or link to the toy?

[+ Pensant]

I don’t think any provider would be averse to using your toy on you. It’s the ultimate “safe sex”. I’ve done it numberless times.

[Thomas_Belgium]

8 hours ago, KAKYDZA said:

As someone who gets very anxious about bottoming and being clean enough for my top, would this toy be a turnoff or turn on (or neutral) If someone showed up at an appointment with it and wanted to use it?

 

Maybe you could try these:

https://www.cdc.gov/condom-use/resources/internal.html

these can also be used for anal sex.

[Oakman]

I am perplexed by this approach of asking third parties (this forum) what a second party (providers) might do in a given scenario. For this question specifically, the answer seems somewhat obvious. Some providers won’t be into your toy but will pretend to enjoy it. Some providers won’t do it all. Other providers will love it. The best way to find out is to ask the provider you are considering. This group can only speculate (and the conversation spins out to discuss favorite sex toys).
 

Follow up question: are some of you embarrassed to ask providers questions about your sexual desires? 

[DznNYC]

I’ve had truly amazing experiences with clients bringing toys.  But only as a bottom so far.  I love an aggressive toy moment.   😈

If a bottom client brought toys and wanted me to use on him?  Zero issue.  For sure into it!   I’d just rather not provide the toys.  
 

But most importantly: this is 100% in bounds for a beforehand conversation with a provider.  Don’t worry so much.  Ask for what you want. 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

I have had escorts use their toys on/in me, without asking me first.  While I usually fight it at first because I prefer the feel of the real thing, I eventually relax enough and give in and then we both enjoy the fun ☺️ 

[marylander1940]

On 1/29/2025 at 2:03 AM, KAKYDZA said:

As someone who gets very anxious about bottoming and being clean enough for my top, would this toy be a turnoff or turn on (or neutral) If someone showed up at an appointment with it and wanted to use it?

Although uncommon I'm sure it has happened before to many providers.

You can always tell him up front that you would like to start that way.

I have an escort friend and he told me every now and then a guy shows up with a butt plug inserted ready to take him.

Edited February 1 by marylander1940