411 HERRMES (aka StudFr) NYC

[Callas]

On 3/29/2025 at 8:11 PM, CaliMuscle said:

Says "Ask Me" in orientation and yeah... no. Not playing a guessing game and theres several other better providers out there.

He is gay 100% imo. 

[GeoMitch]

7 hours ago, mystery_man said:

I'm really curious about this guy - very sexy - but sounds like maybe not worth the effort? 

He checks all the boxes for me... EXCEPT friendliness.  I expect a degree of warmth that from what I've gathered, is missing in his sessions.  

[Chelo]

He is also in grindr. I find it weird he is out there in the app for free sex. 😅

 

[DMICS]

1 hour ago, Chelo said:

He is also in grindr. I find it weird he is out there in the app for free sex. 😅

 

How's that weird? It's totally normal for providers to be on Grindr and other hookup apps.

1. They have lives that includes casual sex too

2. A lot of providers use Grindr to promote other types of work (Rentmen, OnlyFans)

3. Tying in with the previous points, some providers use Grindr directly to find clients. Even when they're on there for personal fun, many get $ offers for hookups anyways. 

[pubic_assistance]

5 hours ago, DMICS said:

some providers use Grindr directly to find clients. Even when they're on there for personal fun, many get $ offers for hookups anyways. 

Bumped into him on Grindr once. He immediately starting asking if I was generous. 

[kyleham]

21 hours ago, Chelo said:

He is also in grindr. I find it weird he is out there in the app for free sex. 😅

 

I've seen many providers on grinder. He is one of many

[mystery_man]

Punchline:  Would repeat, but know the guardrails.

Details:  So, I had the same experience with how sharp-tempered he can be when messaging.  One of the rudest guys i've ever messaged with, was instantly aggravated when I was asking some basic but fair questions (imho) for a first hire. I gave up a few times trying to schedule because of the attitude.

But I persevered (he was just too hot for me to ignore). As has been written here, and he says in his profile, you better get straight to the point or he will become unduly annoyed in a matter of seconds. His fuse for what he considers "time wasters" is incredibly short, so beware.  Be prepared to text: i'd like an appointment on this day, time, etc.  And also be prepared to pay a downpayment (which I usually don't do, but made an exception). 

After going back and forth on wondering if he is worth it or not, I finally took the plunge. In person, he is friendlier and more service-oriented, but definitely not into banter and is quite "flat", which is fine, but don't expect some bubbly charmer. It's not his personality, and given his other attributes, he doesn't need to be particularly warm or friendly. His body is just as in the pics. Incredible!  Probably the hottest body I've witnessed on a masseur. He was never at full mast, but well endowed as well. 

I often enjoy chatting with my masseurs, but "when you know you know", so I just kept my mouth mostly shut this time.  He's just a quiet guy and not into conversation.  So depends what you are looking for - I know what providers are up for chit chat, cocksize chat, and me comparing with them (kinks of mine) and which will not. He's not one I would push the envelope with.

The massage is very good, the HE and flexing are very mechanical. It reminded me of what it would be like if Christian Bale (with that incredibly fit and hairless-to-the-point-of-plastic body was giving me a massage in American Psycho (remember that seen where he's flexing while screwing), but no murder scene at the end (thankfully).  

I'd repeat when I'm in the mood for what he's offering. 

 

[BrklynNYC]

2 hours ago, mystery_man said:

Punchline:  Would repeat, but know the guardrails.

Details:  So, I had the same experience with how sharp-tempered he can be when messaging.  One of the rudest guys i've ever messaged with, was instantly aggravated when I was asking some basic but fair questions (imho) for a first hire. I gave up a few times trying to schedule because of the attitude.

But I persevered (he was just too hot for me to ignore). As has been written here, and he says in his profile, you better get straight to the point or he will become unduly annoyed in a matter of seconds. His fuse for what he considers "time wasters" is incredibly short, so beware.  Be prepared to text: i'd like an appointment on this day, time, etc.  And also be prepared to pay a downpayment (which I usually don't do, but made an exception). 

After going back and forth on wondering if he is worth it or not, I finally took the plunge. In person, he is friendlier and more service-oriented, but definitely not into banter and is quite "flat", which is fine, but don't expect some bubbly charmer. It's not his personality, and given his other attributes, he doesn't need to be particularly warm or friendly. His body is just as in the pics. Incredible!  Probably the hottest body I've witnessed on a masseur. He was never at full mast, but well endowed as well. 

I often enjoy chatting with my masseurs, but "when you know you know", so I just kept my mouth mostly shut this time.  He's just a quiet guy and not into conversation.  So depends what you are looking for - I know what providers are up for chit chat, cocksize chat, and me comparing with them (kinks of mine) and which will not. He's not one I would push the envelope with.

The massage is very good, the HE and flexing are very mechanical. It reminded me of what it would be like if Christian Bale (with that incredibly fit and hairless-to-the-point-of-plastic body was giving me a massage in American Psycho (remember that seen where he's flexing while screwing), but no murder scene at the end (thankfully).  

I'd repeat when I'm in the mood for what he's offering. 

 

Which massage did you choose?

[BrklynNYC]

After years of following this guy but never really biting the bullet. I finally did. I've seen his ad back when he was still putting all his untampered pics on rentmen (not rent.men). Then felt like I lost my chance when he stopped doing that and just started doing massages. Even then I thought his massages were a tad pricey. Then I got to meet him socially and every time I'd see him, the fantasy reignited ; but I felt it would be awkward afterwards if I indulged. Well horniness got the better of me and laid that fantasy to rest. What was said about his short fuse and intolerance of timewasters are true. But he was friendlier during the session perhaps because I knew him already. I had a good time. Now I don't have to wonder any more. Lol. 

Edited June 13 by BrklynNYC

[Muscleking]

I have hired studfr many times as a masseur. And he’s great, he is someone that takes a moment to warm up to but once you crack the exterior he’s a nice guy. Great massage skills beautiful body perfectly chiseled and a very beautiful 🐓
 

I had no idea he was on the escort side now, I’ve been wanting to put him in my mouth so bad I think I will book him again 🤤

[mystery_man]

On 6/12/2025 at 3:25 PM, BrklynNYC said:

Which massage did you choose?

I guess "sensual" is the classification?  

[+ WstVlgChris]

On 6/12/2025 at 1:09 PM, mystery_man said:

The massage is very good, the HE and flexing are very mechanical. It reminded me of what it would be like if Christian Bale (with that incredibly fit and hairless-to-the-point-of-plastic body was giving me a massage in American Psycho (remember that seen where he's flexing while screwing), but no murder scene at the end (thankfully).  

This is a brilliant rhetorical example of damning via faint praise!

Bravo for the turn of phrase!  LOL

[Sky10065]

i hope he soon build his onlyfans... he will be more profitable in that platform i guess. haha

[Sky10065]

i am a regular client and indeed, you need to be a regular before you gotta to know this guy, his really nice person.