Will Darcy Posted December 24, 2024 Posted December 24, 2024 i have contacted a guy thru his contact info from rentmen. he is in touch with me. i see his site on rentmen is not on anymore. even though it was up just last week. he still is responding to my call and says he can meet. should i read anything negative into the site being down?
nycl4escort Posted December 24, 2024 Posted December 24, 2024 It would certainly give me pause, and likely not cause me to follow through with meeting them. Were they well-reviewed on the site when you make initial contact?
+ KensingtonHomo Posted December 24, 2024 Posted December 24, 2024 9 hours ago, Vin Marco said: It's much easier to hide the ad than to keep telling people you no longer have availability. If he otherwise seems good, I think @Vin Marco explanation is most likely. Like everyone else, providers may be taking time off. Two of our regulars are visiting their families for the holidays so they've noticed they're unavailable. Particularly if someone is going to their hometown, they might hide their profile so they're not stumbled upon by someone they know. Whippoorwill 1
+ KensingtonHomo Posted December 24, 2024 Posted December 24, 2024 As a client I prefer that a provider note in their ad that they're not available. Especially if I'm traveling, I don't want to waste time reaching out to guys who can't see me. Whippoorwill 1
+ KensingtonHomo Posted December 24, 2024 Posted December 24, 2024 1 minute ago, Vin Marco said: people still reach out asking if I'm available at the moment 😳🙄😬🫠 😂 ( it all comes with the territory ) From what providers say on here, it seems like a lot of clients don't read profiles. Simon Suraci and Whippoorwill 2
Simon Suraci Posted December 24, 2024 Posted December 24, 2024 I would read nothing into it. You’re still in contact, with all signs of him interested in meeting you for a session. Green means go. Try not to overthink it. Have fun! mike carey, Will Darcy, Whippoorwill and 1 other 2 2
Will Darcy Posted December 31, 2024 Author Posted December 31, 2024 On 12/23/2024 at 11:19 PM, Vin Marco said: Maybe he's just hidden his ad... ( we can do that very easily ) I do it all the time when my schedule is filled. You may be over thinking it. Consider asking him why his ad is no longer listed or visible, he may have a perfectly reasonable explanation. It's much easier to hide the ad than to keep telling people you no longer have availability.
Will Darcy Posted December 31, 2024 Author Posted December 31, 2024 thanks for the input. my concern- though perhaps overthought- is if the law caught up with him and this is being used as a sting. others may have more knowledge of this kind of thing than i. any input you have is most welcome. thank you Lookin___ 1
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted December 31, 2024 Posted December 31, 2024 On 12/23/2024 at 8:05 PM, Will Darcy said: i have contacted a guy thru his contact info from rentmen. he is in touch with me. i see his site on rentmen is not on anymore. even though it was up just last week. he still is responding to my call and says he can meet. should i read anything negative into the site being down? Some men are so popular that they don't need to advertise often, and choose not to "capitalize" (PUN INTENDED) the Rent Men platform for long periods of time.
BuffaloKyle Posted January 1 Posted January 1 Did you ask him what happened to his ad? I'd do a face time call to make sure he's legit as far as he is the guy in the pics that were on the ad and don't send any money upfront.
+ SirBillybob Posted January 1 Posted January 1 On 12/24/2024 at 9:42 AM, Vin Marco said: @KensingtonHomo often I even go as far as typing in the headline that I'm "UNAVAILABLE until Feb 1" and toggle the "unavailable" button and people still reach out asking if I'm available at the moment 😳🙄😬🫠 😂 ( it all comes with the territory ) Some just can’t wait until the next day.
Archangel Posted January 3 Posted January 3 On 12/24/2024 at 9:28 AM, KensingtonHomo said: As a client I prefer that a provider note in their ad that they're not available. Especially if I'm traveling, I don't want to waste time reaching out to guys who can't see me. I’ve found that’s only halfway helpful info. Guys can be available and never reply and unavailable and have a wide open schedule. It really depends if the guy uses that function knowingly. Whippoorwill 1
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