Do you let someone know you’re going to see a provider?

[marylander1940]

On 9/10/2024 at 2:41 AM, arnie said:

No but I only use providers with a solid history on rentmen so I have no worries. 

Exactly hiring from rentmen it's not Russian roulette like hiring from the old Craigslist...

 

[+ BobPS]

     In the past, I would  leave a big note on my kitchen table saying something like John Jones 611 Pine St., Philadelphia, September 12, 2024  6:30 PM phone : 215-925-XXXX.  With the trail texts leave, I no longer feel that is necessary. Lately, I’ve only been seeing one provider. I trust him absolutely and I don’t tell anyone when I’m seeing him.  
     Regarding being roofied, (sp?), unfortunately, it is it has happened to friends of mine one friend in particular. I was not there. Fortunately he was with other good friends who figured out quickly exactly what happened and took care of him. Never let your drink out of your sight and if you’re going to dance , etc. have a friend watch it for you or take it with you on the dance floor! 
Another  friend invited someone to his house and the person put something into my friend’s  drink, my friend passed out for God knows how long and the person  who drugged him stole items, including  tax returns, etc.which had my friends Social Security number and DOB. My friend became a victim of identity theft. I’m  very cautious as to whom I invite into my home .Be careful out there!

 

 

 

 

Edited September 14, 2024 by BobPS

[+ nycman]

1 hour ago, BobPS said:

611 Pine St., Philadelphia,

Wait…I think that was MY address in Philly.

That was you?

[+ DrownedBoy]

23 hours ago, TonyDown said:

You can find it if you Google Aaron Michael Dobbins.  The client's hands were tied behind his back and was shot in the back of the head.  Took years to solve the murder.

More dangerous for escorts. We executed Gacy 30 years ago, and every so often, Chicago police match another one of his "unidentified victims" with a missing young man via DNA.

Back in the 70s, cops didn't care much about missing young gay guys, let alone escorts. They didn't even investigate him until he kidnapped a local high school honors student.

Edited September 15, 2024 by DrownedBoy
clarify

[misterhumphries]

On 9/6/2024 at 11:07 PM, starman05 said:

You know, just in case.
 

I want to see someone but a little voice in my head is saying let someone know where you’ll be 

No. I rely on intuition and being observant. I always let the head above my shoulders do my thinking no matter how delicious an escort might look or how enticing his profile might read. 

[starman05]

8 hours ago, misterhumphries said:

No. I rely on intuition and being observant. I always let the head above my shoulders do my thinking no matter how delicious an escort might look or how enticing his profile might read. 

This site and its reviews have been invaluable in helping me not make mistakes. I also listen to my head and use intuition.

I have not read a single bad review of this masseur I have my eye on

 

i need to believe there are some good things out there 

 

 

[coriolis888]

26 minutes ago, starman05 said:

i need to believe there are some good things out there 

 

 

Yes, there are some good things out there.  Some, being the important word.  

While it is true that most escorts are not dangerous, unfortunately, there are a few bad guys that want to rob or cause harm to clients they engage.   

Therefore, even though probability is on your side to not have any problems, it is not a big issue to leave a note or message to let your friends know where you went, just in case.  

 

[starman05]

3 minutes ago, coriolis888 said:

Yes, there are some good things out there.  Some, being the important word.  

While it is true that most escorts are not dangerous, unfortunately, there are a few bad guys that want to rob or cause harm to clients they engage.   

Therefore, even though probability is on your side to not have any problems, it is not a big issue to leave a note or message to let your friends know where you went, just in case.  

 

Thank you.

 

this is a masseur who has multiple positive reviews

 

he checks all my boxes and I’m going to see him soon

 

just in case, I’ll let a pal know where I’m going.

 

thank you 

[la_connor]

I follow a system I saw on Daddy's.

A friend and I share our phone locations with each other. We also share the contact details of our providers.  Before a new meet, text "fun". Afterward, text "done".  I hope the providers do likewise.