Max_fit

[The Dude]

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On 9/1/2024 at 1:27 PM, Bastilee08 said:

Hello guys, new here! I have a session with Max_fit tomorrow but was wondering if anyone has experienced him before. Any feedback is helpful. Thanks

 

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I know this was a while ago, but did you end up seeing him? How did it go?

[+ azdr0710]

1 hour ago, The Dude said:

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I know this was a while ago, but did you end up seeing him? How did it go?

Bastilee hasn't been on the forum since September, 2024, the month he made this post. 

[Okashii81]

On 11/9/2025 at 10:39 AM, pubic_assistance said:

Such an incredibly sexy man...with a seriously carved physique ! It seems so disrespectful to be so constantly focused on the exact size of his penis. 

Its like enjoying a wonderful piece of cake and asking your host how many teaspoons of sugar they used. Who cares? Just enjoy how delicious it was in your mouth. 😋

It is not remotely disrespectful to point out that what the provider lists in his stats is not correct. 

A better analogy would be paying for a pizza with extra cheese, but when it arrives there is no extra cheese. The pizza is probably still delicious, but it's not what was promised. 

[pubic_assistance]

4 hours ago, Okashii81 said:

It is not remotely disrespectful to point out that what the provider lists in his stats is not correct. 

A better analogy would be paying for a pizza with extra cheese, but when it arrives there is no extra cheese. The pizza is probably still delicious, but it's not what was promised. 

The reason that analogy doesn't work is that gay men have completely unrealistic expectations of dick size. So much so, that EVERYONE LIES about it. 

The obsession with numbers is more than a little psychotic. 

I have, in the past, when I relied on hook up sites, more...sent a very clear photo of my dick upon request. To which, I would get a response of "mmmm...so hot". Then "how big is that?" 

I am sitting there thinking..."You're fucking LOOKING AT IT". But they want a NUMBER. ..and they want a BIG NUMBER. Well...I'm not super hung...so a REAL number would turn them off but a fake number would get them excited. Even though the photo is all the evidence you really needed. Yes. It's disrespectful to ask for a number. NO it's not disrespectful to ask for a photo if you are so inclined to be a size queen.

[Asterisk]

6 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

I am sitting there thinking..."You're fucking LOOKING AT IT". But they want a NUMBER. ..and they want a BIG NUMBER. Well...I'm not super hung...so a REAL number would turn them off but a fake number would get them excited. Even though the photo is all the evidence you really needed. Yes. It's disrespectful to ask for a number. NO it's not disrespectful to ask for a photo if you are so inclined to be a size queen.

Evidently, they don't want to LOOK at it, they want to FEEL it.  Tell a straight man he *should* desire tits A, B, or C, instead of lusting after DDD.

@Okashii81's analogy is spot on.  It's no more "disrespectful" than a client disappointed by a provider using 10-year-old pics, or photos of someone who "appears similar."  He's not searching for a beautiful soul, for the Dalai Lama.  He's looking for someone who fulfills his fantasies -- not yours, or mine -- his.

Hook-up apps are rife with disembodied cock pics, vainly trying to mislead others about what they'll find after the deception is revealed.  As if every user doesn't have a dick, and can judge proportions (or surmise why they've been cropped out) on his own.

If you don't have what he's looking for, you two aren't a match -- for amateurs as well as professionals.  Not every two people are.  Lying or misleading won't change the other's desire, just leave him disappointed by the bait-and-switch.

[pubic_assistance]

1 hour ago, Asterisk said:

Lying or misleading won't change the other's desire, just leave him disappointed by the bait-and-switch.

You COMPLETELY missed my point.

ALL gay men LIE about their dick size.

So telling the truth isn't gonna be smart.

Send an accurate photo and tell your client it;s two inches bigger than it really is...because THAT is how all the gays do it.

[+ sniper]

Gotta say yeah pretty much every gay man I've ever met off an ad has lied and it's never really been material to the interaction. The average irl dick is just about 5 inches but if you average stats on sites that quote it the average people say they are is more like 6.5. When I was in high school in the 80s, 6 inches was generally regarded as respectably large.  Now you will rarely see anyone admitting to being 5. Porn stats are completely fabricated....plenty of the SC stars were clearly 5 inches on a good day and listed as 6 or 7. Take out an actual ruler and look at what 9 inches actually is. 

[+ Gar1eth]

1 hour ago, pubic_assistance said:

ALL gay men LIE about their dick size.

I don't. While I'm a bit thicker than average, I'm under-endowed lengthwise. I'm only about 5". It would be stupid for me to lie. It would only lead to the length-wanting bottom  being upset when we finally met. And I've had guys block me when I tell them how 'short' I am. But while it's painful to be blocked, better that than accusations that I lied if we end up meeting. 

[+ Gar1eth]

16 hours ago, sniper said:

The average irl dick is just about 5 inches

This should make me feel better, but I'm not sure this is my experience. Obviously most of the escorts I hired were larger than 5"-it's a skewed group. But, and maybe it's just because I make more of a mental note on larger guys, it seems to me a goodly number of guys I've met are larger (lengthwise) than me.
 

On the other hand I think I am thicker than at least  50% of the guys I have met. Now after having said that-please don't think I am claiming to be massively thick. I'm nowhere near porn star or  coke can thick. I describe myself as a bit thicker than average on my 'dating' app profiles. And if you are thinking to yourself, " Why does Gman keep going on and on  about his thickness," it's to salve my ego a bit as being under-endowed has always bothered me (hiring well-endowed escorts didn't help). I can only say mea culpa and ask for y'all's forbearance. I'll shut up about it now.  

[Asterisk]

21 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

ALL gay men LIE about their dick size.

So telling the truth isn't gonna be smart.

Send an accurate photo and tell your client it;s two inches bigger than it really is...because THAT is how all the gays do it.

Absolutely not my experience.  But maybe I just sift out those posting pics and stats that don't match. 

[Aamir]

On 9/15/2026 at 5:28 PM, pubic_assistance said:

You COMPLETELY missed my point.

ALL gay men LIE about their dick size.

So telling the truth isn't gonna be smart.

Send an accurate photo and tell your client it;s two inches bigger than it really is...because THAT is how all the gays do it.

 

Guys, maybe take advice from healthy people you respect. Not guys who lie because everyone else does. Our moms raised us better than that.

 

Always having to lie about penis size creates a heavy psychological burden driven by chronic anxiety, inadequacy, and the fear of exposure

• Chronic Stress and Vigilance: Maintaining a fabrication requires constant mental energy. The fear of being "found out" or falling short of unrealistic media-fueled standards creates low-grade, ongoing stress.

• Shame and Inadequacy: Hiding behind a false narrative reinforces a deep-seated belief that one's authentic self or body is fundamentally flawed or unlovable.

• Intimacy Anxiety: Rather than enjoying physical relationships, individuals dealing with this pressure often experience performance anxiety, hyper-focus on judgment during sex, and emotional withdrawal from partners.

• Depression and Self-Esteem Erosion: Negative self-perception tied to genital appearance and masculinity is closely linked to higher rates of depression, social withdrawal, and diminished overall quality of life.

• Obsessive Behaviors: In severe cases, the fixation can manifest as Penile Dysmorphic Disorder, leading to compulsive measuring, intense comparison, or avoidance of medical and romantic situations.

 

[Okashii81]

On 9/15/2026 at 11:51 AM, pubic_assistance said:

The reason that analogy doesn't work is that gay men have completely unrealistic expectations of dick size. So much so, that EVERYONE LIES about it. 

The obsession with numbers is more than a little psychotic. 

I have, in the past, when I relied on hook up sites, more...sent a very clear photo of my dick upon request. To which, I would get a response of "mmmm...so hot". Then "how big is that?" 

I am sitting there thinking..."You're fucking LOOKING AT IT". But they want a NUMBER. ..and they want a BIG NUMBER. Well...I'm not super hung...so a REAL number would turn them off but a fake number would get them excited. Even though the photo is all the evidence you really needed. Yes. It's disrespectful to ask for a number. NO it's not disrespectful to ask for a photo if you are so inclined to be a size queen.

No. Everyone doesn't lie about it. I don't because I don't have a reason to. You lying and being offended that someone calls out the fact that you lied is ridiculous. 

Those are some serious mental gymnastics to make you not the psychotic one in this scenario. You're not hung. You never will be. That's perfectly fine. You knowingly lying to give someone what you think they want is crazy work and simultaneously perpetuates the unrealistic expectations you complain about. If that person can't accept that your dick is 6 inches, that's their problem. 

You're also creating a scenario that has nothing to do with the conversation in this thread. The provider posted a number. No one asked him for it. It is a number that is clearly a lie. It is not disrespectful for someone to point out in this thread that the number is not accurate.

And even if we go along with your hook up story, it's wild to think it's disrespectful to ask someone how big their dick is, but not disrespectful to ask them for a dick pic. 

And no, sometimes the picture is not all you need because depending on the pic, you can't get a real sense of how big the dick is. 

Some gay men have unrealistic expectations about bodies, height, age, and more. Are you going to lie about those too where you can to make yourself sound more desirable? 

[Peter Eater]

This thread has gone completely off the rails. Max_fit has vanished, not unlike Bastilee08, and twaddle about the merits of honest dick size is on display. Take it to the Lounge or Questions About Hiring…

 

Edited yesterday at 01:05 PM by Peter Eater

[Asterisk]

On 9/16/2026 at 5:59 PM, Asterisk said:

Absolutely not my experience.  But maybe I just sift out those posting pics and stats that don't match. 

What's unclear, @pubic_assistance?  Any man with an actual cock of his own can eyeball another online, or know when some pic is presented without context (hand, remote control, etc) is essentially screaming "I'm tiny!"

(Also, for those wondering, yes, AI can tell you the dimensions of that particular comparator.  So, yeah, when they claim 8" but AI tells you that remote tops out at 6.7", you know it's BS.  "AI, dimensions of Neutrogena 1.7oz packaging?")

Grandpa may not understand this, but...  well...  digital natives do.

[+ sniper]

I think everyone lies just about the same amount is my point so the ordering stays the same.

[ThrowawayAccount]

On 11/9/2025 at 10:39 AM, pubic_assistance said:

Such an incredibly sexy man...with a seriously carved physique ! It seems so disrespectful to be so constantly focused on the exact size of his penis. 

Its like enjoying a wonderful piece of cake and asking your host how many teaspoons of sugar they used. Who cares? Just enjoy how delicious it was in your mouth. 😋

Why is focusing on the exact size of a penis disrespectful? He is advertising himself and we are hiring by all the information we see. So why lie about things? Because they won't hire them otherwise?

Edited 10 hours ago by ThrowawayAccount

[pubic_assistance]

8 hours ago, ThrowawayAccount said:

Why is focusing on the exact size of a penis disrespectful? He is advertising himself and we are hiring by all the information we see. So why lie about things? Because they won't hire them otherwise?

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