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  1. The masseur is not Alejo Ospina, but the bottom is Daniel. They are a couple have have numerous videos together, but this is not one of them. I do not know who the top is unfortunately.
  2. Martin Gajda, though I'm pretty sure that is the full version.
  3. Has anyone had a session with Eddie recently? I just saw that his price has gone up to $200 for an in-call. That seems like escort rates to me, so I wonder if his services have changed. https://rentmasseur.com/eddiemanhattan
  4. I think there are two separate issues: your general displeasure with last minute bookings and clients not adhering to the preferences stated in your advertisement. The former I have no problem with, but the latter I do. If a client expects you to be available at the drop of a hat or is rude when you explain that you are not available, you have every right to be frustrated. (I'm putting aside your explicit instruction to book with you in advance for the moment.) That person is just rude. However, your comment that a client's work schedule or other plans "has nothing to do with [you]" is just as dismissive of their time as you claim they are of yours. Of course clients can be flaky, not serious, cancel at the last minute, etc., but as others in this thread have said, sometimes it really is the case that you don't know when you'll be finished with work such that you can't plan ahead. Sometimes you finish work, a work out, or get to the end of the day and realize you could really use a massage. There is nothing wrong with reaching out to a provider and politely inquiring whether they are available, assuming their profiles do not indicate otherwise. I think you should also keep in mind that many providers do make last minute appointments and some encourage them. You are not operating in a vacuum. I think it's also worth remembering that providers can be just as unreliable. I have had my fair share of providers who cancel an appointment booked in advance at the last moment or do not respond when I try to confirm on the day of the appointment. In the same way you screen new clients, I generally do not book new providers in advance for this very reason. I have providers I see regularly and I will book up to a week in advance with them, but for someone I have not met previously, I'll most likely reach out in the morning for an appointment later in the day or if their profile list them as "Available Now," I'll try to book something within a few hours. I am always polite and write "Sorry for the last minute request..." or "I see that your profile says that you are available now. . ." The above being said, if your profile specifically requests bookings in advance, then the client is put on notice. There really is no excuse in that case and if they failed to fully read your profile, that is still on them. I'm sure that would be annoying for you and I don't blame you.
  5. The OP's sense is mine as well. I am in NYC and 150-160 is what I normally see for sensual/erotic massages. There is one provider I see who charges 140, but I don't see anything below that anymore. When I do, I'm a little suspicious. I absolutely will not pay more than 160 for an hour. I used to make an exception for Apsawn who charged 170, but he provided the highest quality experience I have had to date. (warm towels, various scented oils, a heated table during winter, great technique, etc.) I am not able to receive massages as frequently anymore, so I really do hold true to this limit now - no matter how alluring the masseur may be. 😄
  6. https://sexgayjapan.com/2021/06/hunk-channel-oav822-vol3-20/ The guy getting the massage has a gorgeous body and a great pair of nips. 😍 I could have done without the feet play, but still hot overall.
  7. Wow! I barely made it to the halfway mark the first time watching. I'm about to go for round two now! I LOVE that Andrew is hard almost the entire video. I am somehow who gets hard very easily. And while my logical brain reminds me that these porn actors are doing long shoots with crews and lots of stopping and starting, my sex brain thinks "I'd be hard the whole time if I was that intimate with a sexy guy." He may have had chemical assistance, but I don't care. Seeing a dick standing at attention like that gets me going every time!
  8. I've never, ever seen his place be anything than immaculate. That is just gross and doesn't sound like him at all. Granted, I've never had a session with him while he was traveling, but that still sounds unlikely.
  9. Had another great session with SS. Turns out my text messages aren't going through to his phone, which is very weird. We were communicating fine a week ago. I sent him an e-mail to see what was up and I'm glad I did. He's such a gem!
  10. Funny that I saw this thread. I've had many sessions with SS over the years and they've all always been good. There was maybe 1 time he shorted me on time, but he made up for it the next session. I am supposed to see him in a few hours, but he never responded to my confirmation text, which is unlike him. I saw that he was recently online too. I could try to chase him down, but I barely slept last night, so I'll probably just take a nap instead. Turned out to be a weird issue with texting.
  11. I hired Luka twice, first as an escort and then as a masseur. That was probably 8 and 6 years ago roughly. I naively thought I would give him another chance as a masseur, thinking that maybe he had a bad day the first time we met or he had changed in those years. Worst experience I've ever had with a masseur and that includes guys who looked nothing like their photos, upsellers, and having massage time short changed. The fact that his body is as gorgeous as it is (his pics really were accurate) AND he is a pretty skilled masseur should give you some indication of just how awful his personality is. I left feeling worse about myself and it was a while before I got back on the horse so to speak. He looked like he was bothered to be touching me. Unless being humiliated or made to feel like garbage is your kink or a muscled body is all you're after, I would stay away.
  12. I'm glad I could help and it sounds like things worked out well in the end!
  13. @Wolfer After reading the OP my initial thought was not to comment because it sounded like you have the situation properly analyzed. You just don't want to pull the trigger and make the decision to change (or cancel) the arrangement for fear of losing something. Others in this thread have responded with the "if it ain't broke" reply, but it really doesn't sound like you are comfortable with the situation to continue as is, whereas others might. For what it's worth, I'm not willing to say the masseur is using you, but you certainly present as the perfect client, i.e. someone he's attracted to and with whom he gets to have fun and get paid. What made me want to respond though was the above quoted comment. I don't know if flattered is a word I would use in this situation because it makes it sound like the masseur is doing you some courtesy by seeking out your business and you should be grateful for it. That kind of thinking is partly why you seem upset about the situation. A while ago I had a somewhat similar situation. I had a regular masseur and after our first couple of sessions we had full on sex. From that point on we had sex every time we met. He was very nice and complimented me and I knew he enjoyed himself. I even saw him out socially once and we hung out a bit. We would email and share funny memes, etc. He never reached out to me about setting up a time, but in my mind I always approached a session with him as a paying client. We weren't FWB. However, there were a couple of times when he was particularly horny that he pretty much skipped the massage and went to town on me immediately. (And yes, the sex was good! haha) When that happened, he would leave without asking for payment. In those instances it was about him getting pleasure (and also pleasuring me) and not him providing a service. If your guy is not willing to do that, then you have your answer. You either need to cut him or decide if you can continue with things as they are, putting aside any feelings of being afraid he might say no at some point.
  14. The "masseur" is Aoi Musashi, but I'm blanking on the "client's" name. They are both pretty popular porn actors, so that is likely the reason for no blurring of the faces.
  15. I purchased a SC membership over a year ago because I wanted to watch some of their older videos. They were not there. I had to haggle to get a refund on my membership. Their ads were promoting videos that were not available on their site. I'd be curious to see if this "maintenance" brings back all of their videos.
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