Max_fit

[The Dude]

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On 9/1/2024 at 1:27 PM, Bastilee08 said:

Hello guys, new here! I have a session with Max_fit tomorrow but was wondering if anyone has experienced him before. Any feedback is helpful. Thanks

 

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I know this was a while ago, but did you end up seeing him? How did it go?

[+ azdr0710]

1 hour ago, The Dude said:

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I know this was a while ago, but did you end up seeing him? How did it go?

Bastilee hasn't been on the forum since September, 2024, the month he made this post. 

[Okashii81]

On 11/9/2025 at 10:39 AM, pubic_assistance said:

Such an incredibly sexy man...with a seriously carved physique ! It seems so disrespectful to be so constantly focused on the exact size of his penis. 

Its like enjoying a wonderful piece of cake and asking your host how many teaspoons of sugar they used. Who cares? Just enjoy how delicious it was in your mouth. 😋

It is not remotely disrespectful to point out that what the provider lists in his stats is not correct. 

A better analogy would be paying for a pizza with extra cheese, but when it arrives there is no extra cheese. The pizza is probably still delicious, but it's not what was promised. 

[pubic_assistance]

4 hours ago, Okashii81 said:

It is not remotely disrespectful to point out that what the provider lists in his stats is not correct. 

A better analogy would be paying for a pizza with extra cheese, but when it arrives there is no extra cheese. The pizza is probably still delicious, but it's not what was promised. 

The reason that analogy doesn't work is that gay men have completely unrealistic expectations of dick size. So much so, that EVERYONE LIES about it. 

The obsession with numbers is more than a little psychotic. 

I have, in the past, when I relied on hook up sites, more...sent a very clear photo of my dick upon request. To which, I would get a response of "mmmm...so hot". Then "how big is that?" 

I am sitting there thinking..."You're fucking LOOKING AT IT". But they want a NUMBER. ..and they want a BIG NUMBER. Well...I'm not super hung...so a REAL number would turn them off but a fake number would get them excited. Even though the photo is all the evidence you really needed. Yes. It's disrespectful to ask for a number. NO it's not disrespectful to ask for a photo if you are so inclined to be a size queen.

[Asterisk]

6 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

I am sitting there thinking..."You're fucking LOOKING AT IT". But they want a NUMBER. ..and they want a BIG NUMBER. Well...I'm not super hung...so a REAL number would turn them off but a fake number would get them excited. Even though the photo is all the evidence you really needed. Yes. It's disrespectful to ask for a number. NO it's not disrespectful to ask for a photo if you are so inclined to be a size queen.

Evidently, they don't want to LOOK at it, they want to FEEL it.  Tell a straight man he *should* desire tits A, B, or C, instead of lusting after DDD.

@Okashii81's analogy is spot on.  It's no more "disrespectful" than a client disappointed by a provider using 10-year-old pics, or photos of someone who "appears similar."  He's not searching for a beautiful soul, for the Dalai Lama.  He's looking for someone who fulfills his fantasies -- not yours, or mine -- his.

Hook-up apps are rife with disembodied cock pics, vainly trying to mislead others about what they'll find after the deception is revealed.  As if every user doesn't have a dick, and can judge proportions (or surmise why they've been cropped out) on his own.

If you don't have what he's looking for, you two aren't a match -- for amateurs as well as professionals.  Not every two people are.  Lying or misleading won't change the other's desire, just leave him disappointed by the bait-and-switch.

[pubic_assistance]

1 hour ago, Asterisk said:

Lying or misleading won't change the other's desire, just leave him disappointed by the bait-and-switch.

You COMPLETELY missed my point.

ALL gay men LIE about their dick size.

So telling the truth isn't gonna be smart.

Send an accurate photo and tell your client it;s two inches bigger than it really is...because THAT is how all the gays do it.

[+ sniper]

Gotta say yeah pretty much every gay man I've ever met off an ad has lied and it's never really been material to the interaction. The average irl dick is just about 5 inches but if you average stats on sites that quote it the average people say they are is more like 6.5. When I was in high school in the 80s, 6 inches was generally regarded as respectably large.  Now you will rarely see anyone admitting to being 5. Porn stats are completely fabricated....plenty of the SC stars were clearly 5 inches on a good day and listed as 6 or 7. Take out an actual ruler and look at what 9 inches actually is. 

[+ Gar1eth]

1 hour ago, pubic_assistance said:

ALL gay men LIE about their dick size.

I don't. While I'm a bit thicker than average, I'm under-endowed lengthwise. I'm only about 5". It would be stupid for me to lie. It would only lead to the length-wanting bottom  being upset when we finally met. And I've had guys block me when I tell them how 'short' I am. But while it's painful to be blocked, better that than accusations that I lied if we end up meeting.