Masseurs with room mates? How to deal with this?

[DunwoodyGuy]

On 2/10/2024 at 9:42 AM, pubic_assistance said:

Interesting thread.

Seems to me like a lot of you guys are embarrassed by stuff that you're doing but none of these people around the masseurs seem to care.

If "mom" doesn't care about her son doing handy-J's then why should you ?

 

Maybe because Mom is not paying. I am. 

[Thelatin]

I’d probably try to bang the roommate.  

[pubic_assistance]

37 minutes ago, DunwoodyGuy said:

Maybe because Mom is not paying. I am. 

Yeah...but if your provider didn't have a room mate or live with mom and dad, you might be PAYING more. So be sure to thank her on the way out the door.

[Redwine56]

On 2/22/2024 at 3:02 PM, pubic_assistance said:

Yeah...but if your provider didn't have a room mate or live with mom and dad, you might be PAYING more. So be sure to thank her on the way out the door.

By doing that, mom may even invite you to dinner.

[Whippoorwill]

Speaking of Mom...some years back I had a masseur who was quite an excellent masseur, and towards the end we always ended up both on the table sucking and jo'ing each other. One time I arrived, and after a usual greeting, he put his index finger up to his lips and said sotto voce,  Shhh, my mother is in the next room. This being expensive SF real estate, the next room was only separated by a curtain. We had our same usual excellent massage, our same (quiet) excellent sex, and Mom was presumably no wiser. Because he was able to be so casual about it, it didn't bother me a bit. Years later, the last time I saw him was in a Chinese restaurant, with his Chinese lover, and...the lover's Mom. Ha. 

[marylander1940]

On 2/7/2024 at 10:50 AM, BaronArtz said:

I live in NYC.  Cost of living here is high.  I understand that young people starting out in any field need to live with room mates to make it work for them.

Here is what happened.  I had an appointment booked with a masseur that I had a few previous appointments with - all incall, erotic massage.  I did not know he had a room mate.  A few hours before another scheduled appointment today, he calls me and asks whether it would bother me if the room mate would be at the apartment during my planned visit.  The room mate returned earlier than expected from a business trip,  The masseur clarified that the room mate has his own room and I would probably not see him.  The masseur was professional about it and offered to reschedule.

I was a bit concerned because we do usually fuck and hang out naked in the living room for a while when the deed is done.

I did thank the masseur for his honesty up front and said that I would not be comfortable with this arrangement.  We are tentatively rescheduling for next week.

My question is - am I too squeamish?  Am I a prude?  Has anybody else been in an appointment while a room mate could be lurking in the background?  I would greatly appreciate your advice.

Honesty is always highly appreciated. 

We all had sex with roommates in the apartment but when you're paying, you're expecting something else. Imagine being ass naked while wondering who else is there? 

Edited March 4 by marylander1940

[marylander1940]

On 2/7/2024 at 11:09 AM, dutchal said:

I know from reading posts here that others have had the experience, most or all undisclosed before arrival for the appointment, or even they didn't realize it until after the session was over.

Sometimes they never know someone else was there either. 

My regular in town has an efficiency and he used to allow one of his friends to use it, he would go run an errand and wait downstairs till his friend was done. 

The guys who ran a local agency called DC Boys had a 2 bedroom apartment in an old art deco building, they allowed their escorts to use with a client for 1 or even 2 hours. In the meantime, they would go downstairs to read a book, this was obviously before the iPhone. 

@BaronArtz next time the roomie should go downstairs, to a park, a Starbucks, walk around the city, etc. 

 

[marylander1940]

On 2/22/2024 at 2:38 PM, Thelatin said:

I’d probably try to bang the roommate.  

that sounds like a good script for porno!

[+ KensingtonHomo]

I just had this experience with someone I've seen a few times. I assumed he lived alone, but not only was the roomate home, he was noisy. It ruined the mood for me. I don't think the masseur was being intentionally dishonest. He lives in a very large apartment, so unsurprisingly, it's shared. I would have appreciated a heads-up. I'm not sure if I'll see him again. 

[BaronArtz]

13 hours ago, Whippoorwill said:

Speaking of Mom...some years back I had a masseur who was quite an excellent masseur, and towards the end we always ended up both on the table sucking and jo'ing each other. One time I arrived, and after a usual greeting, he put his index finger up to his lips and said sotto voce,  Shhh, my mother is in the next room. This being expensive SF real estate, the next room was only separated by a curtain. We had our same usual excellent massage, our same (quiet) excellent sex, and Mom was presumably no wiser. Because he was able to be so casual about it, it didn't bother me a bit. Years later, the last time I saw him was in a Chinese restaurant, with his Chinese lover, and...the lover's Mom. Ha. 

That would totally freak me out.  Mom is there, behind the curtain? And you were able to have sex with him?  No way I would have proceeded with this encounter!

[pubic_assistance]

1 hour ago, BaronArtz said:

That would totally freak me out.  Mom is there, behind the curtain? And you were able to have sex with him?  No way I would have proceeded with this encounter!

I used to visit a masseur in Queens who was older but always had young cute Thai guys who worked with him too. He would set up a folding screen in the living room for the younger provider and he would use the bedroom to see customers. There was occasionally a moment where he was bringing a customer through to the living room while I was getting a blow job. Never bothered me.

[marylander1940]

4 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

I used to visit a masseur in Queens who was older but always had young cute Thai guys who worked with him too. He would set up a folding screen in the living room for the younger provider and he would use the bedroom to see customers. There was occasionally a moment where he was bringing a customer through to the living room while I was getting a blow job. Never bothered me.

Free porno and an insight on his upcoming HE for the next client. 

[marylander1940]

14 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said:

I just had this experience with someone I've seen a few times. I assumed he lived alone, but not only was the roomate home, he was noisy. It ruined the mood for me. I don't think the masseur was being intentionally dishonest. He lives in a very large apartment, so unsurprisingly, it's shared. I would have appreciated a heads-up. I'm not sure if I'll see him again. 

I'm surprised you didn't taught him a lesson standing up, removing the towel and showing off the goods to his roommate! 

[pubic_assistance]

4 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

I'm surprised you didn't taught him a lesson standing up, removing the towel and showing off the goods to his roommate! 

There was a folding screen set up so they didn't see right into my space but they could certainly hear the slurping.😋

[MikePDNA51]

Masseurs’ roommate should be fine with massage. I have visited apartment were roommates were both masseurs with different looks. Roommate situation worked because both guys had different clients. Some roommates are totally strange no matter the environment 

[Whippoorwill]

I just remembered an instance from back when I was in my 30s. I had a regular masseur who was strictly therapeutic, although I would be nude and he clothed. And he was just my type, but he never gave an hint of more, and I never tried. One time I arrived at his apartment, and his lover greeted me at the street-level door (on a busy cable car street in SF) naked except for a cock ring. I was too dumb to do anything then, but today I would certainly invite the lover to join a 3-way, err, massage.