What would you do...?

[TopBunk]

I'm gay. I met with an escort who is bi but has very limited English. We had fun... and after started chatting, using Google translate. He asked if I could help him get with a girl, either for a three-some or just him and her alone (and he said he'd make sure I was taken care of after too).

He gave me some photos to help (him smiling, flexing, etc), but I don't know where to start or what to do. I've never been with a girl. I don't think I'd join a three-some.

What would you do? I'd like to help him but how do (cute) guys get straight hookups? Should I create a tinder account and pretend to be him and have her meet him? Like a catfish but give honest details (looking for hookups, limited English...).

He said I could watch if I didn't want to join.

[rvwnsd]

I would politely explain that I have no experience with women and can't help him get a girl. In other words, tell him the facts.

[BuffaloKyle]

Give him names of str8 hookup apps and let him go on his way. He's obviously hot if he's an escort so he should have no issues. Anything more you do besides that screams drama.

[secgoo]

You're his client, not his social worker. Back away.

However, with that said, there are two providers that I am very fond of and I would help them out with their personal lives (and I don't mean sex life) in any way they wanted/needed. I have known these two providers for a long time now and one has said on multiple occasions that he thinks of our "relationship" more like friends than provider/client.

From the sound of your post you've met the provider once and he's asking for unusual stuff. That screams of red flags to me. He needs to know that he's selling a product (himself) and a service and if he's going to be successful in the industry he needs to not get involved with clients further unless he's actually built up a decent relationship with them.

 

Edited September 15, 2023 by secgoo
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[ICTJOCK]

You probably won't like my answer.   I'd always be polite and (fi you are so inclined)  ask him if he'd consider another booking.   As far as a threesome with his photos,  I'd pass.    Too much there and not enough "return"  in my mind.    

[Simon Suraci]

I would say no. If he wants to hook up with women, he can do that on his own time and by his own efforts. 

Heck, I refuse clients when they are asking me to find a third man to join us. It’s not my job and it’s way too involved for it to be worth my time, unless he was paying me by the hour for the coordination effort. I would still probably say no.

When a client wants a third or more, I reach out to my existing network of collaborating providers and/or masseurs to arrange it. To be clear, the client is paying for the extra person or people to join, and I’m not spending hours on hookup apps trying to convince someone to join us for free.

[soloyo215]

11 hours ago, TopBunk said:

I'd like to help him but how do (cute) guys get straight hookups? Should I create a tinder account and pretend to be him and have her meet him? Like a catfish but give honest details (looking for hookups, limited English...).

 

Maybe something is missing due to the language barrier, but I find that request quite odd. I cannot fathom any provider asking me that kind of question, and I've had experiences with women. It's an odd request. If anyone ask me, like others said, I'd thank him for trusting me enough to inquire, but I'm not sure I am the right person to ask.

If he's good enough for me to keep him in my radar, maybe I'd say that I'd like to know how his search is doing. I don't think I'd get involved in anything, especially since I always consider worst-case scenarios (what if I introduce him to a girl and things goes wrong?).

[+ DrownedBoy]

I would tell him that's not a topic you want to discuss.

Then get on with your session 

[TopBunk]

I wanted to update this thread with a few more details.

 

He and I had our complete session that I paid for. This type of questioning started towards the end of our time. He gave me his personal phone number (not the work number) and wanted to see me + a girl, without pay. For extra fun times.

 

I've never had intimate time with a girl. But I did have fun looking for a girl for him.

 

I created a tinder under his profile (name, photos, description) and swiped for girls. One seemed like a match and wanted to text so I shared her phone number with him and explained the situation.

 

I hope it works out! I decided I'm not interested in a three-some with them (or with any female).

Edited September 16, 2023 by TopBunk

[+ DrownedBoy]

14 hours ago, TopBunk said:

I created a tinder under his profile (name, photos, description) and swiped for girls. One seemed like a match and wanted to text so I shared her phone number with him and explained the station.

My opinion - that's fine.

Thanks to my education and profession, I've turned into the "free IT guy" for my family and neighbors, as well as any hire who needs technical help. I've helped set up RM accounts and helped providers further monetize their stuff.

However, that only gets done after the session is over. And only to providers with a good attitude.

[soloyo215]

On 9/15/2023 at 9:41 PM, TopBunk said:

I hope it works out! I decided I'm not interested in a three-some with them (or with any female).

This is what I tend to give more importance to. I avoid situations that will get me blamed if things don't wok out. Of course, I'm glad that you did what works for you.

Please do tell how it turns out.

[Pd1_jap]

I may be extrapolating to much here but it almost sounds like he wanted you to hire an escort for him. 

[+ Axiom2001]

On 9/14/2023 at 11:16 PM, TopBunk said:

I'm gay. I met with an escort who is bi but has very limited English. We had fun... and after started chatting, using Google translate. He asked if I could help him get with a girl, either for a three-some or just him and her alone (and he said he'd make sure I was taken care of after too).

He gave me some photos to help (him smiling, flexing, etc), but I don't know where to start or what to do. I've never been with a girl. I don't think I'd join a three-some.

What would you do? I'd like to help him but how do (cute) guys get straight hookups? Should I create a tinder account and pretend to be him and have her meet him? Like a catfish but give honest details (looking for hookups, limited English...).

He's supposedly bi and you're gay.  Be honest and just relay that you do not know of any women to meet his needs; thus you'd be unable to assist him.

He said I could watch if I didn't want to join.

That would not interest me; if I were into that type of activity-- I'd watch porn that featured women and men exclusively.