411 Jared Cross - NYC

[Tandy Newton]

10 minutes ago, Cliff said:

What does “the benefit” mean? Is that a term we’re supposed to understand?

Thats the name of the provider:

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[+ azdr0710]

just a note for all that Jared Cross and Thebenefit are not at all related....as often happens in The Deli, a second unrelated provider has been introduced into this thread and that may lead to confusion between pictures and profiles......

[Walt]

1 hour ago, azdr0710 said:

Jared Cross and Thebenefit are not at all related

Thanks @azdr0710 for stating this!  It's happened too many times in CoM posts where unrelated providers get confused -- generally to the detriment of the provider with the generally good reputation.  😞

[MeatHead]

On 11/9/2023 at 10:01 PM, Enronnja said:

I wanted to meet him so bad when I was in NYC, but wasn't in town at the time. I passed on him because of f'ed up experience with 'thebenefit' and was going through PTSD from that experience. A real missed opportunity.

What happened to you? What did The Benefit did to you?

[marylander1940]

On 7/23/2023 at 5:10 PM, BananaBagel said:

I had a great time with him last weekend at his place. He tried on a bunch of different underwear. Flirty and fun with a strong friendly vibe. 

 

On 7/23/2023 at 8:01 PM, Luv2play said:

I agree. Wirh an escort I am not looking for a fashion display of underwear.

It's implied the fun started when he was naked... 

On 11/9/2023 at 10:01 PM, Enronnja said:

I wanted to meet him so bad when I was in NYC, but wasn't in town at the time. I passed on him because of f'ed up experience with 'thebenefit' and was going through PTSD from that experience. A real missed opportunity.

Elaborate! 

[Tandy Newton]

3 hours ago, socurious said:

What happened to you? What did The Benefit did to you?

 

You even responded in that thread.

[MeatHead]

2 hours ago, Enronnja said:

 

You even responded in that thread.

I've read he's an ass. But I never met him. I wanted to hire him. 

[JPHL]

Very interesting comments here, but you can count me as  one of the people who had a good time with Jared. I did not experience any of the issues mentioned here and in the other thread. He was easy to schedule with, incredibly sexy, engaged the whole time, and not watching the clock at all. Was with him for 2 hours because I was a bit concerned about the comments here, but I’m glad I connected with him. Will book him for longer next time. 

[buckguy]

The thread still has the posts about another provider which the moderators should separate or delete. Some of the complaints refer to that other provider.

[CuriousByNature]

9 minutes ago, buckguy said:

The thread still has the posts about another provider which the moderators should separate or delete. Some of the complaints refer to that other provider.

Yes, and could lead to Jared not receiving Thebenefit of the doubt by prospective clients.

[JPHL]

55 minutes ago, buckguy said:

The thread still has the posts about another provider which the moderators should separate or delete. Some of the complaints refer to that other provider.

 

44 minutes ago, CuriousByNature said:

Yes, and could lead to Jared not receiving Thebenefit of the doubt by prospective clients.

 

Yes, very good points and I agree. But to be clear, I was specifically referring to the comments that are clearly referring to Jared.

[Gdrake]

Met with him in 2021 in Detroit.  He was super fun, horny AF, and an absolutely pleasure to top in a way that I remember specifically hitting all my buttons.  2 hrs, not watch clocker, and in the last few minutes he even asked me to hit it again so he'd remember me later. 🤤

[Tandy Newton]

3 hours ago, Gdrake said:

Met with him in 2021 in Detroit.  He was super fun, horny AF, and an absolutely pleasure to top in a way that I remember specifically hitting all my buttons.  2 hrs, not watch clocker, and in the last few minutes he even asked me to hit it again so he'd remember me later. 🤤

I regret missing out on him when he visited and our schedules didn't line up when I was visiting NY. I really want to get a chance to experience him. I sense he is very in demand.

[nycl4escort]

https://x.com/JaredCrossXXX - FYI - He follows alt-right content on his twitter feed. Hard pass for me. 

[Talles]

He doesnt even answer to messages. I was in  nyc for 2 weeks in 2023 and ignored me.

[Talles]

3 minutes ago, Talles said:

He doesnt even answer to messages. I was in  nyc for 2 weeks in 2023 and ignored me.

Was also in aug 2024....answered me bluntly as if i was bothering him. Anyway, doesnt seem like the guy who wants or likes to work as an escort, at all. At least thats my "experience" with him.

[+ bkwiseass]

On 3/22/2025 at 6:07 PM, nycl4escort said:

https://x.com/JaredCrossXXX - FYI - He follows alt-right content on his twitter feed. Hard pass for me. 

whoa. i saw him before he moved to nyc, and boy has he changed. thanks for that heads up on that