Unusual requests made to masseurs

[Eddie Morales]

This convo also exists in the deli about general escorts so why not have one here too? 
 

Shoot!

[Eddie Morales]

I guess I’ll start! Anyone ever have the masseur do pushups before getting started? I love them to have a little pump so they’re ready for mutual touch. 

[+ robear]

10 hours ago, Eddie Morales said:

Anyone ever have the masseur do pushups before getting started? I love them to have a little pump so they’re ready for mutual touch. 

Curious, how do providers respond to such a request?

[+ poolboy48220]

does "Do you do prostate massage" qualify as unusual? 

[Simon Suraci]

4 hours ago, poolboy48220 said:

does "Do you do prostate massage" qualify as unusual? 

Not unusual at all. Very common. Most are too embarrassed to ask. Not every provider offers this, so it’s good to know. Be polite and respectful when asking. Most clients love it even if they don’t ask for it. Only a few truly don’t like it. A lot would like it a lot but they are not clean or prepared for prostate play and so most masseurs won’t go there if they can tell that’s the case. As always, the masseur has to read the room, and the client should definitely indicate verbally or physically that they like something or don’t like it so we don’t waste your session time on stuff you don’t enjoy.

Many of my clients have either never had their prostate massaged before or never had it done properly, so they wrongly believe they don’t like it at all or are apprehensive to try it. So many total tops, straight guys, first timers and the like turn into voracious bottoms under my care 😜 🍑 😊. It’s quite common for someone to have a “happy middle” while face down, in addition to, or instead of a HE. Sometimes two happy middles! Something in the air or maybe it’s just my talent! After so many years of experience and consistency therein, I’ve concluded the latter…

So yes, I encourage the question, and at least for me it’s a YES (but please be clean for Christ’s sake). I have purpose built shower attachment equipment for anyone who needs it. No excuses. I walk you through everything you need to do for an efficient, thorough, pleasant and healthy preparation experience. And you don’t have to keep the equipment at home - perfect for your discretion and/or convenience.

As for other unusual requests, I concede on a case by case basis. Push-ups, no problem. Wear a particular piece of underwear, jock, etc., no big deal. For things requiring a lot of me outside the session like getting underwear dirty and ripe over a few days, I can’t do that. I have to be clean for other clients. If you want me to work out right before, I can’t guarantee my schedule allows for it. If a client books right before you, I’m working, not turning down that opportunity to earn.

Any other unusual requests?

[Thelatin]

17 minutes ago, Simon Suraci said:

I have purpose built shower attachment equipment for anyone who needs it. No excuses. I walk you through everything you need

I use this as well prior to receiving a massage.  However - it’s gotta be tricky for a first timer?  I still have an oops, get carried away and end up cleaning out way too much….which can result in quite a bit of shower time.

[Jamie21]

8 hours ago, poolboy48220 said:

does "Do you do prostate massage" qualify as unusual? 

No, it’s a regular request. The answer is yes. 

[Jamie21]

Some unusual requests I’ve had:

1. Wear underwear you’ve worked out in. That’s fine. 

2. Don’t shower or use deodorant ahead of my massage. (Could have been same client as 1 above). That’s fine too.

3. Can my friend / partner watch? That’s fine but there’s extra charge if they want to join in.

4. Will you piss on me?  This was a 4 hands massage (the guy was a client of the other masseur and I was asked by the other masseur if I’d do this with him). It was agreed. But I wouldn’t do again because I struggled to piss! Try anything once but this was not something I’d do again. 

5. Will you tickle me?  This was agreed. He actually wanted to be ticked for the whole massage, so it wasn’t actually a massage…. it was a tickle. I struggled to keep tickling him for the whole session. Wouldn’t do it again. Hard work!

6. Will you massage my wife as a surprise? (Actually this is a fairly regular request). It’s always a ‘no’. She must be in agreement and aware of the massage beforehand (and sign an agreement). Amazing how many guys ask for surprise massages for their partner.

Of course there’s lots of normal, regular requests such as to wear certain underwear, use toys, certain physical acts, role plays, use masks or blindfolds, use floor/bed, shower together, happy starts middles and ends including how that happens etc. It’s amazing how many variations of massage are possible. 
 

[TracerMain]

Asking the masseur if they can watch me pee or me watching them. I’m into watersports (WS) and that’s probably the least weird way of asking from those who aren’t into WS.

I have one masseur who’s okay with the watching bit mid-massage. This built up after seeing him a couple times. Like when he asks I turn over after working on my back, and I say I gotta go use the bathroom and ask him to watch me pee or that if he needs to pee, i watch him.  But nothing more—no golden showers or anything wild WS like that. I reserve that for escorts, if I want.

[calstrin]

 

i used to ask masseurs 'do you mind if i do poppers every once in awhile during the massage?'  i probably asked seven different masseurs, i think three said 'sure, go ahead'; two said 'i would prefer you didn't' (and i didn't); another was super enthusiastic and totally delighted, and we both did tons of huffing; and a last was highly offended; in fact, he was so offended that we both quickly realized that the massage could not go forward.  since that last experience i haven't asked again.

[LA90046]

[Simon Suraci]

3 hours ago, LA90046 said:

Lol! When this comes up, it’s usually the client who wants to be the little Dutch boy, or some version of it. I keep an open mind…and an open wallet for those that want to pay for exactly what they want!

[Jamie21]

5 hours ago, calstrin said:

 

i used to ask masseurs 'do you mind if i do poppers every once in awhile during the massage?'  i probably asked seven different masseurs, i think three said 'sure, go ahead'; two said 'i would prefer you didn't' (and i didn't); another was super enthusiastic and totally delighted, and we both did tons of huffing; and a last was highly offended; in fact, he was so offended that we both quickly realized that the massage could not go forward.  since that last experience i haven't asked again.

I get asked that. I don’t consider it unusual or offensive. Personally I don’t like them, so I avoid the aroma but if my client wants to use that’s fine by me (as long as he asks). I’ve one client who asks me to supply some for him. 

Actually that reminds me of another request which was made of me which is quite unusual. A regular client asks me to get him sex toys. I’ve bought a Fleshlight, and one of those awful fake rubberised vagina/ass thing for him. He reimburses me the cost when he pays for his session. The strange thing is we use the toy during his session but he then asks me to keep it for him, and he then isn’t interested in it any longer.