Delayed ejaculation with viagra or cialis

[spaman]

It takes me a long time to ejaculate and I often can't do it without manual stimulation.  I've used both viagra and cialis and while they cause hard erections, I find it nearly impossible to ejaculate when using either.  Does anyone else have this problem and if so is there anything that I can do to help?  Thanks

[+ nycman]

Yeah, I have some trouble shooting. 

On Viagra, I can pound a muscle bottom all night,
but at some point I feel like I’m just a jackhammer 
ramming into a hole over, and over, and over again. 

Yet another reason I tend to avoid it. 

[MscleLovr]

 

6 hours ago, spaman said:

I've used both viagra and cialis and while they cause hard erections, I find it nearly impossible to ejaculate when using either

I used Viagra a couple of times only: it made my erection very stiff but it also gave me a bad headache. I preferred Cialis as it has a more ‘natural’ effect on me. Neither affected my ability to ejaculate.

I use Vardenafil (Levitra) nowadays as my physician thinks it’s best for me, tho I find its duration to be much less than Cialis. I climax easily when and how I want. (It undoubtedly helps that I have sex with a young, attractive partner).

3 hours ago, nycman said:

I can pound a muscle bottom all night,
but at some point I feel like I’m just a jackhammer 

Some years ago, I found this too (using Cialis) on occasion. It seemed to occur when there were expectations about my ability to perform (I had a reputation at the gym as a top that could pound a bottom repeatedly and vigorously). The longer I topped a guy, the more I worried about ejaculating. I resolved the problem by deliberately relaxing and not concerning myself about the bottom’s pleasure or wants (oddly enough, this turned on some guys).

I know there are a number of factors (physical and psychological) that can affect the ability to ejaculate. Without speculating too much @spaman, is your weight appropriate, do you have a balanced healthy diet, moderate alcohol (and limited drug) usage? And are you having the sex you enjoy with a partner you find desirable?
 

If you function well otherwise, you may find it best to consult your physician on this particular aspect. 

[spaman]

5 hours ago, MscleLovr said:

 

I used Viagra a couple of times only: it made my erection very stiff but it also gave me a bad headache. I preferred Cialis as it has a more ‘natural’ effect on me. Neither affected my ability to ejaculate.

I use Vardenafil (Levitra) nowadays as my physician thinks it’s best for me, tho I find its duration to be much less than Cialis. I climax easily when and how I want. (It undoubtedly helps that I have sex with a young, attractive partner).

Some years ago, I found this too (using Cialis) on occasion. It seemed to occur when there were expectations about my ability to perform (I had a reputation at the gym as a top that could pound a bottom repeatedly and vigorously). The longer I topped a guy, the more I worried about ejaculating. I resolved the problem by deliberately relaxing and not concerning myself about the bottom’s pleasure or wants (oddly enough, this turned on some guys).

I know there are a number of factors (physical and psychological) that can affect the ability to ejaculate. Without speculating too much @spaman, is your weight appropriate, do you have a balanced healthy diet, moderate alcohol (and limited drug) usage? And are you having the sex you enjoy with a partner you find desirable?
 

If you function well otherwise, you may find it best to consult your physician on this particular aspect. 

Thanks.  It may be partially psychological to begin with, but the pills make it worse.  Interesting to hear about not concerning yourself about the bottom's pleasure as much.  When I'm able to do that I have noticed that it helps a little.  Maybe I'll try Vardenafil.  Otherwise I'm a pretty healthy guy with a decent diet, don't smoke, no alcohol or drug use, who's always taken an extended period of time to ejaculate.  

Edited March 8, 2023 by spaman

[+ Pensant]

Although I’ve never used any of these drugs, I appreciate the comments as one day I may need to. Now a cocking and a hot stud keep me hard.

[Thomas_Belgium]

Although I didn't try myself (because I can't get it where I live) you maybe could try https://www.rugietmen.com because it contains apomorphine to get more aroused.

[+ Trebor]

1 hour ago, Thomas_Belgium said:

Although I didn't try myself (because I can't get it where I live) you maybe could try https://www.rugietmen.com because it contains apomorphine to get more aroused.

I have used Rugiet on a number of occasions and it works quite well😁

[pubic_assistance]

As men get older there are a variety of things that can interfere with ejaculation such as enlarged prostate. You should most definitely discuss this problem with your doctor. Not ask for advice on a conversation thread.

[sydneyboy]

On 3/12/2023 at 2:24 AM, pubic_assistance said:

As men get older there are a variety of things that can interfere with ejaculation such as enlarged prostate. You should most definitely discuss this problem with your doctor. Not ask for advice on a conversation thread.

I respectfully disagree. It is perfectly reasonable to seek the views of other men on this subject. The helpful, considerate and respectful relies I’m sure have been useful to the original contributor.

[pubic_assistance]

16 hours ago, sydneyboy said:

I respectfully disagree. It is perfectly reasonable to seek the views of other men on this subject. The helpful, considerate and respectful relies I’m sure have been useful to the original contributor.

My apologies. I meant to type, "not JUST ask for advice on a conversation thread".

Yes, it's always reasonable to ask for opinions, but in this case this could be the sign of a medical condition. So professional advice is important here.

[sydneyboy]

20 hours ago, sydneyboy said:

I respectfully disagree. It is perfectly reasonable to seek the views of other men on this subject. The helpful, considerate and respectful relies I’m sure have been useful to the original contributor.

Should have read “ respectful replies.”