Cbilly17 Posted January 17, 2023 Share Posted January 17, 2023 Is it possible to find a sensual connection/arrangement with no strings attached? I tried Grindr but most seemed interested in meeting right now. I’ve tried Twitter but no luck. Maybe I’m old school but I need a mental connection first (I’m not talking weeks or months). I’m 51, on the DL. Not looking for a cum and go exactly. But nice lunch time interludes when we can. Am I living in a fantasy world when it comes to what I’m looking for? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ FrankR Posted January 17, 2023 Share Posted January 17, 2023 2 hours ago, Cbilly17 said: Is it possible to find a sensual connection/arrangement with no strings attached? I tried Grindr but most seemed interested in meeting right now. I’ve tried Twitter but no luck. Maybe I’m old school but I need a mental connection first (I’m not talking weeks or months). I’m 51, on the DL. Not looking for a cum and go exactly. But nice lunch time interludes when we can. Am I living in a fantasy world when it comes to what I’m looking for? What age group etc are you targeting? It is quite rare to find a younger or much younger guy willing to invest the time. You may have better luck in your own age group. Consider an Adam4Adam profile and make clear what you are looking for. dbar123 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ azdr0710 Posted January 17, 2023 Share Posted January 17, 2023 gee, I thought this was going to be about planning your funeral and your will..... Marc in Calif, TruthBTold, + nycman and 8 others 2 1 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted January 17, 2023 Share Posted January 17, 2023 I've had a few successful dates, and many successful hookups, with men I've met on the dating apps. But I am not going to spend my days making small chat with a profile of someone I've never met in person. So, after I make a connection with someone on an app with someone who wants to meet for a potential friendship/relationship , I'll tell them I'll be at such and such gay bar tomorrow at whatever time in case they want to meet. While I've never had any takers, I've hit homeruns with the men I ended up meeting at the bar when I went anyway. Cbilly17 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamie21 Posted January 17, 2023 Share Posted January 17, 2023 2 hours ago, Cbilly17 said: Is it possible to find a sensual connection/arrangement with no strings attached? I tried Grindr but most seemed interested in meeting right now. I’ve tried Twitter but no luck. Maybe I’m old school but I need a mental connection first (I’m not talking weeks or months). I’m 51, on the DL. Not looking for a cum and go exactly. But nice lunch time interludes when we can. Am I living in a fantasy world when it comes to what I’m looking for? Book a sensual massage with a guy you think you can relate to. spidir, dbar123, + bashful and 5 others 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted January 17, 2023 Share Posted January 17, 2023 2 hours ago, Cbilly17 said: Is it possible to find a sensual connection/arrangement with no strings attached? I tried Grindr but most seemed interested in meeting right now. I’ve tried Twitter but no luck. Grindr is a hook up site...not a dating site. Are you saying you want a relationship without the responsibility of a relationship ? You're gonna need to pay for that . musclestuduws, + bashful, Cbilly17 and 2 others 1 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cbilly17 Posted January 17, 2023 Author Share Posted January 17, 2023 54 minutes ago, FrankR said: What age group etc are you targeting? It is quite rare to find a younger or much younger guy willing to invest the time. You may have better luck in your own age group. Consider an Adam4Adam profile and make clear what you are looking for. Thanks. Yes. Looking for my age (51) and older. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted January 18, 2023 Share Posted January 18, 2023 Try Tinder? You can setup your account to only men, age range, etc. I’ve had limited luck over the years but not a total waste of time. + FrankR, Marc in Calif and + Vegas_Millennial 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted January 18, 2023 Share Posted January 18, 2023 (edited) 5 hours ago, Cbilly17 said: Maybe I’m old school but I need a mental connection first (I’m not talking weeks or months). I’m 51, on the DL. Not looking for a cum and go exactly. But nice lunch time interludes when we can. I used to have a regular fuckbuddy like this ..but it's hard to find gay men who want more than a quick hook up. You're in a difficult midground between those looking for love and those looking for their next anonymous conquest. In my experience this is a very small community . I wish you luck. Definitely not gonna find more than annoymous hookups on Grindr but some of my friends claim to do well on Tinder Edited January 18, 2023 by pubic_assistance Cbilly17, PiSquared, musclestuduws and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted January 18, 2023 Share Posted January 18, 2023 11 hours ago, Cbilly17 said: Thanks. Yes. Looking for my age (51) and older. I'm not sure I understand exactly what you're seeking, but try this: https://www.facebook.com/SilverDaddiescom/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
caliguy Posted January 18, 2023 Share Posted January 18, 2023 Try Scruff or Daddyhunt. Grindr is mostly young guys looking to nut in the next hour. pubic_assistance 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Coolwave35 Posted January 20, 2023 Share Posted January 20, 2023 Go for married men. Cbilly17, MscleLovr and PiSquared 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PiSquared Posted January 21, 2023 Share Posted January 21, 2023 19 hours ago, Coolwave35 said: Go for married men. Yes. As a married man, I concur. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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