Falling asleep

[sashek]

Hi guys,

A little over a week ago I hired an escort (not reviewed on this site) for an evening session. It was a very enjoyable, and strenuous, time. I guess we were both pretty much worn out, because the next thing I knew, it was about 5:30 a.m. - we'd fallen asleep. I woke him up, he gave me a quick good-bye hug and kiss, and hurried home. Two days ago, I got an email from him, saying that since it had turned into an "overnight" session, he felt that I owed him more money. My question - to both escorts and clients - is, "what would you do in a case like this"? I should point out there was no "morning sex," and it hadn't been planned as an overnight session. The extra money isn't really an issue for me, and I'm inclined to pay him because it was a really good evening, and I'll probably call him again. However, I'm curious if this has happened to others, and how they dealt with situations like this. Thanks!

[Steven_Draker]

Hi Sashek,

You may want ask Franco for a full report and this certainly has been discussed before exactly in the same way it happened to you

 

Steven ~

http://www.HotSexyStud.com/uk

[Boston Guy]

From the point of view of a client: it's the escort's responsibility to arrive promptly, keep track of the time and depart on time. Any changes in the schedule should be discussed with the client -- beforehand.

 

In other words, the fact that the escort fell asleep and failed to keep his obligation to watch the time doesn't mean you are suddenly obligated to pay hundreds of dollars in unexpected and unplanned fees.

 

That you want to see him again, probably, opens the door for compromise. But having him fall asleep unexpectedly and then wake up and depart quickly does not, in my mind, qualify as an overnight.

 

It sounds like he would like to see you again as a client. He's the one in business and you're the customer. Why would you want to just give in to what is, in my opinion, a very unreasonable request? I can understand why he's making the request. But I don't understand why you would acquiesce, without gaining anything at all for all of this extra money that you are now spending with him. At the very least, if I were inclined to pay him, I'd tell him that I did not consider his falling asleep unexpectedly as qualifying for an overnight. But since he feels he's entitled to more compensation, if he comes back for a one hour session, I'll pay him the difference in the overnight fee (which is presumably quite a bit more than a one-hour session).

 

BG

[Luv2play]

I think the escort is trying to take advantage of you. YOu had already paid for an evening of sex (which I assume was more than one hour rate). Typically this would be a rate that was 3 hours or so. It sounds like you got your Value for money }( That being said, what followed next was unscheduled and not requested by you; you both merely passed out. Since you were the one to wake him up and you did not request or receive any further services, I don't see what you owe him in addition to the fee he already received for the evening.

 

I also think it does not reflect well on the escort to bring up this matter later. It just has the feel of "hustle" to it. Escorts should never put themselves in the position where it appears they are trying to squeeze out additional fees to what was originally agreed, UNLESS the client requests additional time and attention. That would be a completely different matter and fair game for the escort to adjust his fees.

[rickyricardo]

"From the point of view of a client: it's the escort's responsibility to arrive promptly, keep track of the time and depart on time. Any changes in the schedule should be discussed with the client -- beforehand."

 

I totally aggree w/ Boston Guy on this subject. This is totally the escorts responsibility to depart at the schedule time of the session. If he falling asleep because of the bliss of the evening an sex is fine but dont hold the client responsible for paying for an overnight which was not discussed or scheduled. I can see if the client asked the escort to stay overnight, that makes the situation an overnight but then the escort should clarify to the client the difference in rate. I find it tacky to go home an send an email or call the client for more money. But this escort is not reviewed on this site so it clearly shows he must be new to the business to have done such.

 

ciao

R.M.

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[JT Brooklyn]

My Question ..The Fun ended at 5:30 a.m. What time did it start? IF it started at 8 p.m. That's ALOT OF SEX! God Bless YA! lol Maybe the Escort has a Point, if it went on that long? IF it started after 12 p.m. Maybe a different story.... :+ :+ :+

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

Sayonara Swan Song

 

> I can understand why he's making the

>request.

 

I can too. My understanding doesn't flatter this escort and it wouldn't sit well with this client.

 

A perfect example of Chutzpah.

 

for all my fellow goyim out there...

 

Main Entry: chutz·pah

Variant(s): also chutz·pa /'hut-sp&, '[k]ut-, -(")spä/

Function: noun

Etymology: Yiddish khutspe, from Late Hebrew huspAh

: supreme self-confidence : NERVE, GALL

 

(... m-w.com)

[HotdadENYC]

I agree with the other postings here. You didn't request nor discuss an overnight session, only an evening one. You should obviously pay for what you received, but the fact that the escort stayed longer, for whatever reason, doesn't count as an agreement to extend the session.

 

Can't blame a guy for trying....in Yiddish, he may have chutzpah; in English he has brass balls.

 

Ultimately, I am glad that the session turned out well for you and that there were no consequences of you falling asleep in the company of an unintended overnight guest.

 

In my opinion, even though you want to see this escort again, I think agreeing to pay the new fee would send a strong signal that this kind of behavior, after the fact, is acceptable and I don't agree that it is.

 

The bottom line is, if you DO see this escort again, the subject will undoubtedly come up; perhaps you can find other ways to fulfill his request (a gift of some sort, etc.) since it appears that you feel that he IS entitled to something extra.

 

hd NYC

[Txpaytoplay]

I must agree! The guys has gumption for asking but I wouldn't pay the difference. But, if you ejoyed the sessions and want to keep seeing him, do what you feel is best. Hopefully you will use your head on your shoulders when you make the decision and not the one between your legs.:o

[OneFinger]

As a client I try to avoid problems like this. I always set an alarm (either on my cell phone or PDA) to go off 15 minutes AFTER the session should end.

 

But, since that didn't happen in this case, I feel there is some mutual responsibility. I probably would have offered a generous tip to the escort before he left. However, contacting you later and asking for more money, strikes me as a shakedown. If he expected more money he should have had the balls to confront you directly at that time.

 

Not only would I NOT pay but I'd never hire him again. Since you seem satisfied with the sex, then I'd probably write an appropriate review but also include his belated request for more money. I think it's worth warning others.

[Guest zipperzone]

>My Question ..The Fun ended at 5:30 a.m. What time did it

>start? IF it started at 8 p.m. That's ALOT OF SEX! God Bless

>YA! lol Maybe the Escort has a Point, if it went on that long?

>IF it started after 12 p.m. Maybe a different story.... :+

>:+ :+

 

Read the post again. They fell asleep after sex and nothing more occured when the client woke the escort up. This is a no-brainer.

[Guest zipperzone]

>Two days ago, I got an email

>from him, saying that since it had turned into an "overnight"

>session, he felt that I owed him more money. My question - to

>both escorts and clients - is, "what would you do in a case

>like this"? I should point out there was no "morning sex," and

>it hadn't been planned as an overnight session. The extra

>money isn't really an issue for me, and I'm inclined to pay

>him because it was a really good evening, and I'll probably

>call him again. However, I'm curious if this has happened to

>others, and how they dealt with situations like this. Thanks!

 

You're kidding right? He is entitled to zero IMHO and has a hell of a nerve e-mailing this request 5 days after the session. I'd tell him to suck wind and would not hire him again regardless of how good he was. Have you no self respect??????

[Swiss Lumber]

Strange but true. A couple of weekends ago, a friend of mine in Orange County have a similar encounter. The escort contacted him 2 days later and demanded an additional fee. My friend was interested to hire him again but the escort indicated that they'll settle the "overnight fee" first.

 

I hope this is not the same guy.

[HotdadENYC]

Having read through ALL of the responses to your original post, I think it would be wise to post a review, so that (1) we can ALL take advantage of a reputedly good multi-hour session with this particular escort and (2) we can ALL be on the lookout to see if his behavior with you becomes a pattern worth worrying about.

 

 

hd NYC

[JT Brooklyn]

Definitely agree with HotDad. Also, This could be the way, this Escort has deceided to operate. A Review.. might change his mind on the Subject of Falling Asleep, instead of just Leaving, as most guys do when time is up..Also will inform future guys of the possibility, of finding "Themselves" in the same situation! :+ :+ :+

[Txpaytoplay]

Post A Review.......Post A Review......Post A Review

:o :o :o

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Impudent Insolent Insouciance

 

>You may want ask Franco for a full report and this certainly

>has been discussed before exactly in the same way it happened

>to you

>

 

1. Asked and answered.

 

2. See or search "wallet watchers."

 

3. An evening session can be turned into an overnight session but there needs to be a request first and then an agreement.

 

4. Yes, this guy had brass, not to mention tacky, balls.

 

5. Sorry Ricky, I like your photos, especially the ass shots, but it is not solely the escorts responsibility to watch the clock. Clients cannot, on the one hand, complain that we have egg timers by our bed sides, and on the other insist we watch the clock.

 

6. My naked cops are usually too busy giving me head to bring out their guns but that might make for some fun sex play, so I will certainly bear it in mind.

[+ Charlie]

At least he fell asleep after sex. I once hired a guy who fell asleep WHILE we were having sex, which certainly was an insult to my cocksucking technique. I refused to pay him anything for the appointment, and he sheepishly agreed.

[joel304]

Hooker ... Tell him to fuck off ... what balls

[Flower]

> My

>friend was interested to hire him again but the escort

>indicated that they'll settle the "overnight fee" first.

>I hope this is not the same guy.

Whether he is or not, I wouldn't pay him a cent more and would move on to other escorts.

 

The displayed propensity of trying to squeeze additional money from the client seems a major character flaw and makes this someone I'd rather not see again.

[Vincent_Michael]

ROFL he fell asleep there too Id tells his greedy ass to take a hike and move on to someone else. I know this sounds harsh but that was his decision to sleep over and not yours and you both agreed on an hourly appointment not an overnight so it’s his loss in my book.

[flguy]

So what happened???? Is there a review that has been submitted, what did you tell him? We have been waiting to hear the end of the story with no finish?

[sashek]

Hi guys - thanks for all the feedback. After reading your comments, I realized that I didn't owe the escort any more than the agreed-upon amount for the evening session, and probably won't hire him again.

[sashek]

Hi Swiss, this wouldn't be the same guy that your friend encountered. The escort I described is from a small city in Western Canada.

[HotdadENYC]

Thanks for the update. Its all cool. Glad you did what you did (or didn't) and glad we could all help.

 

NOW, help US out by posting a review. We need to know in case we run into this same guy again. Time will tell if the actions of the escort were innocent or well planned in advance, and intentional.

 

And if the latter is the case, some of us don't want to engage in those kinds of games.

 

Regards,

 

hd NYC