Snoring and Etiquette

[axebahia]

Escorts, when you are doing overnights or weekends, how do you deal with clients who snore? Do you ignore it? Do you say something? Do you get up and sleep in the bathroom? Do you charge moreClients, how do you deal with escorts who snore? Same questions as above except in your case, do you pay less?

[AaronScottDC]

Usually, it is not a problem. I do bring ear plugs with me if it is more than one night and I need to get a good night's sleep.

 

However, the snoring can get a bit absurd. I once went on a week long trip with a client who had a serious case of sleep apnea (of course, he didn't tell me about it until we got there). After a rather long, red-eye flight to get to our destination, I found it truly impossible to sleep under these circumstaces. Fortunately for me, the room had a rather large closet with a heavy, solid door. I spent the rest of the trip sleeping on the floor in the closet just so I could get a few hours of sleep.

 

I didn't charge any extra for this, nor did I complain. I also didn't receive any extra compensation. In fact, I don't even remember hearing much of an apology. I guess that is what I was expected to do under the given circumstances.

 

Aaron Scott DC

http://www.erados.com/AaronScottDC

http://www.male4malescorts.com/reviews/aaronscottdc.html

[Traveller]

>Escorts, when you are doing overnights or weekends, how do

>you deal with clients who snore? Do you ignore it? Do you say

>something? Do you get up and sleep in the bathroom? Do you

>charge moreClients, how do you deal with escorts who snore?

>Same questions as above except in your case, do you pay less?

 

Can't imagine the problem. Everything I get hasn't been stepped on.

 

Later.

 

PS. Anyone guess which pic on rentboy is another of "Khaled?" I'll give you a hint. His name begins with an "S" and it could've been taken on the Island.

 

Do all these guys in NYC have more than one pic? It's almost like handles on this site.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Out Of The Closet

 

One of my few ground rules as noted elsewhere by me and others is that I need my sleep (my "beauty sleep" or "lack thereof" as Donnie IMNOTASTALKER would put it); one way I insure this is sleep aids. I usually pack Ambien to take on a plane, Xanax (which personally does not put me to sleep but the clients seem to enjoy it and it is like passing out hostess gifts at your own party), Valium and a few others we will leave to your imaginations.

 

Once we have concluded all our other business and are simply both ready to sleep, I take one and spoon the client and wake up the next day. For all I know, a client could dress me up in a three piece suit with a name tag that said, "Hello I'm Mario Cuomo" and parked me downtairs in the lobby. I sleep through anything and everything, so snoring would simply not be noticed by me.

 

If I snore, it is news to me.

[Rick Munroe]

RE: Out Of The Closet

 

>I usually pack Ambien to take on a

>plane, Xanax (which personally does not put me to sleep but

>the clients seem to enjoy it and it is like passing out

>hostess gifts at your own party), Valium and a few others we

>will leave to your imaginations.

>

>Once we have concluded all our other business and are simply

>both ready to sleep, I take one and spoon the client and wake

>up the next day... I sleep through

>anything and everything, so snoring would simply not be

>noticed by me.

 

I guess that's great if you can get away with it. Personally, I like to be "available" if the other guy is feeling frisky during the night. I never think of it as "the action segment of the overnight is finished and now it is time to sleep." I prefer to think of the whole experience as...a whole experience. Of course, I love to get sleep, and I love the intimacy of sleeping with another man (or men, since Derek is often there, too), but I would hate to be chemically unconscious the whole night through. Besides the fact that I don't like to drink or take drugs anyway, what would happen if there were a fire in the room? :o Also, is it wise to "pass out" prescription antianxiety drugs to clients? Maybe I'm just overly cautious but that sounds like a prescription for trouble to me.

 

To answer the original question, I guess I've been lucky, because I haven't run into too many snorers. But when I have, I've either suffered silently, or once I tried a variation on Aaron's trick but it didn't work (ouch - a cold bathroom floor is not comfy) and once the client felt bad & sent me home (it was in NYC) and I came back in the morning. That was sweet.

[+ Charlie]

I once hired an escort for a session. As I was sucking away on his oversized cock, I heard a strange sound, and looked up to discover that his eyes were closed, his mouth was hanging open and he was snoring loudly, despite his hard-on. Perhaps my feelings were too sensitive, but I couldn't just ignore the sounds and keep on sucking. So I got dressed, woke him up, and told him I was leaving and did not intend to pay him anything. Although he was physically rather intimidating, he didn't object; he simply admitted that he shouldn't have agreed to a date when he was so tired, and just let me go.

[AaronScottDC]

>I once hired an escort for a session. As I was sucking away

>on his oversized cock, I heard a strange sound, and looked up

>to discover that his eyes were closed, his mouth was hanging

>open and he was snoring loudly, despite his hard-on.

 

I certainly don't mean to sound rude - but your story is really quite funny! :-) Of course, if I were in your shoes, it would not be funny at all. It is clear to me that the escort you hired is a complete jerk. How anyone can fall asleep while getting sucked is beyond me. But, I guess I already knew everyone is different, so it shouldn't shock me so much. In any event, I did get quite the chuckle out of your story. Sorry it was at your expense! :-(

 

Aaron Scott DC

http://www.erados.com/AaronScottDC

http://www.male4malescorts.com/reviews/aaronscottdc.html

[Guest Merlin]

I always carry ear plugs with me when I travel. Recommend "Quiet Down", tiny plastic bags with cotton filing. Very comfortable and they do the job. I sometimes wear them on the airplane if there is a baby crying, etc. They would certainly make the snoring less noticeable. I often use non-prescription sleep aids such as TylenolPM, Sominex, Sleepinol, etc. They help you get to sleep but would not keep you asleep if your companion wants to play.

[Rick Munroe]

>As I was sucking away

>on his oversized cock, I heard a strange sound, and looked up

>to discover that his eyes were closed, his mouth was hanging

>open and he was snoring loudly, despite his hard-on.

 

I bet he was doing GHB. Derek and I have attended a few circuit parties in the past couple of years (and decided that it isn't our thing: music's too loud, we don't want to do the drugs, etc) and last year, at Black and Blue in Montreal, we went home with a really hot guy -- too "muscle god" for my taste but he had a sexy face, which is a bigger turn-on for me. Anyway, Derek and I were taking turns sucking his fat uncut dick, while he lay back on the bed, hands behind his head, moaning...and slowly, just as in your story, the moans turned to snores while his dick stayed rock hard. We thought it was funny and kept sucking and licking. Later, he told us that it was GHB that made him fall asleep. Apparently, it makes you super horny but also super tired...kind of like being Mr. and Mrs. Roper at the same time.

[+ Lucky]

RE: Out Of The Closet

 

"I guess I've been lucky, because I haven't run into too many snorers."

 

Well, I got really unlucky on a London trip when a cute guy started blasting away all night. It got so bad, I actually rented him a separate room for two nights, just so I could sleep!! This is a good reaosn to know an escort before you travel with him.

[+ Lucky]

It happened to me as well. He was so hard, and I was pleased that I was doing such a good job, and then I looked to see him sound asleep! And we hadn't done any GHB!

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Getting Away With It

 

>>Once we have concluded all our other business and are simply

>>both ready to sleep, I take one and spoon the client and

>wake

>>up the next day... I sleep through

>>anything and everything, so snoring would simply not be

>>noticed by me.

>

>I guess that's great if you can get away with it. Personally,

>I like to be "available" if the other guy is feeling frisky

>during the night. I never think of it as "the action segment

>of the overnight is finished and now it is time to sleep." I

>prefer to think of the whole experience as...a whole

>experience. Of course, I love to get sleep, and I love the

>intimacy of sleeping with another man

 

1. If you like to be available for all 12 hours of an overnight, that is great and makes your rate extremely reasonable. Perhaps that is why you do a great deal more overnights than I do, Rick.

 

2. My comment, which you were kind enough to quote, is very simple and I belive very clear. "when we are both ready to sleep" I take a sleeping pill. I find it hard to sleep in strange beds even if I am sleeping alone and I prefer to get the rest and relaxation that a normal and healthy human being requires so that I function properly the next day as well as for any clients I may have to see in the future. I do not believe a client I have on a Tuesday, even if only for a few hours, should suffer the consquence of lack of sleep because of a client I saw on a Monday night.

 

If you are able to sleep in strange beds with greater ease, then again perhaps this is because you are more used to this than I am.

 

3. Finally, none of my clients have ever suggested to me, either personally, in feed back they have given to others, in my reviews, or in any other respect, that they felt shorted or in any way felt that they did not receive a "full experience." What you consider "frisky" and what you consider being "available" or the "action segment" may have or certainly appears to bear no relationship to either what I provide to my clients nor what their expecations are of, particular given my overnight rate as compared to the over night rates of other escorts I could, but will not name.

 

 

> Besides the fact that I

>don't like to drink or take drugs anyway, what would happen if

>there were a fire in the room?

 

1. I would assume the fire alarm or the water sprinklers or both would go off. This also assumes that a fire would happen in a first class, four star establishment from an electrical short or some other such hazzard, as I do not smoke and always request non-smoking rooms on non-smoking floors. The very few clients I have ever seen who are smokers are always considerate enough to smoke downstairs and outdoors, if and when they find it necessary to do so. Finally, if the implication was made that I drugged myself to complete unconciousness, I regret that you misunderstood that Rick. What I meant, which was perhaps unclear, was that I would sleep through the sound of a grown man snoring.

 

 

:o Also, is it wise to "pass

>out" prescription antianxiety drugs to clients? Maybe I'm

>just overly cautious but that sounds like a prescription for

>trouble to me.

 

1. Unless someone is taking Xanaz regularly, it does not function as an anti-anxiety medication. Rather, as a simple review of the Physician's Desk Reference or a simple search on line would have indicated to you, Rick, any medication in that class of drugs has a mild sedative quality. Just as I would not offer to you, a complete stranger, I would not "pass out" anything to a client who did not know that I had them and did not request it. I am not the only person who has problems sleeping in a strange bed. I prefer to consider all of my clients reasonable needs, not just those which involve being "frisky" and "available" for "action." I think this is what a good companion can and should do, within his own concious and morality.

 

We are all adults here, Rick. I would prefer not to pass judgement on your choices so please do not attempt to pass judgments on mine or those of any of the men who choose to come to me.

[+ Lucky]

RE: Sounding Like A Little Old Lady

 

It's obvious that everybody has their own take on what an overnight consists of. Isn't that why they say your mileage may vary?

[Guest fukamarine]

>So I got dressed, woke him up, and

>told him I was leaving and did not intend to pay him anything.

>Although he was physically rather intimidating, he didn't

>object; he simply admitted that he shouldn't have agreed to a

>date when he was so tired, and just let me go.

 

Why did you bother to wake him up?

 

fukamarine

[Rick Munroe]

RE: Getting Away With It

 

Franco, take a Xanax. (that was a joke...see the smiley?) (<---and that one?)

 

>you do a great deal more

>overnights than I do, Rick.

 

How do you know that? I have never at any time stated how many overnights (or any kind of job, for that matter) I do or have done.

 

>1. I would assume the fire alarm or the water sprinklers or

>both would go off. This also assumes that a fire would happen

>in a first class, four star establishment from an electrical

>short or some other such hazzard, as I do not smoke and always

>request non-smoking rooms on non-smoking floors. The very few

>clients I have ever seen who are smokers are always

>considerate enough to smoke downstairs and outdoors, if and

>when they find it necessary to do so.

 

Ummm...I was kidding about the fire part. :+

 

>if the

>implication was made that I drugged myself to complete

>unconciousness, I regret that you misunderstood that Rick.

 

Well, what you said was: "For all I know, a client could dress me up in a three piece suit with a name tag that said, 'Hello I'm Mario Cuomo' and parked me downtairs in the lobby. I sleep through anything and everything..." Sorry if I misinterpreted that. ;-)

 

>Rather, as a simple

>review of the Physician's Desk Reference or a simple search on

>line would have indicated to you, Rick, any medication in that

>class of drugs has a mild sedative quality.

 

I did do a search for xanax, because I was unsure about what it exactly was. This is what I found: "Alprazolam (Xanax) is an antianxiety agent, benzodiazepines. Used primarily for short-term relief of mild to moderate anxiety and nervous tension. Alprazolam is also effective in the treatment of activity depression or panic attacks. It can be useful in treating irritable bowel syndrome and anxiety due to a neurosis as well. Alprazolam may help the symptoms of PMS if extreme, some cancers pains if given with various narcotics, agoraphobia, essential tremor, and ringing ears." I couldn't find anything mentioning its use as a sedative, so thanks for that additional info.

 

>We are all adults here, Rick. I would prefer not to pass

>judgement on your choices so please do not attempt to pass

>judgments on mine or those of any of the men who choose to

>come to me.

 

I wasn't passing judgment on you or your clients. That's not my style. Other people's recreational drug use is none of my concern, anyway. This is a place where we come to (among other things) exchange and learn from each other's escort/client experiences, and that's what I was doing. There's no reason to get so defensive.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Mario Cuomo

 

That wa also a joke, Rick. I have never been fond of smiley faces, so sorry to you (and anyone else) if that was unclear. I prefer to poke fun at myself, at my own expense, such as references to what others have attempted to insult me with, thus the Mario Cuomo gag. I sleep very soundly. The phone would wake me up, a knocking door (unless it was loud pounding) would not. Water, however, certainly would.

 

I regret if I seemed defensive but it did strike me as more a comment on what you did differently than I might versus an attempt to share your own experiences. I never did anything other than one hour sessions in the 90s when I first escorted in San Francisco. I have only done 3 trips with clients and only 5 overnights in the last two years. I believe you have more reviews than that just for overnights, thus my comment; it was not meant nor should have taken as derogatory.

 

My clients have thus far been satisfied with my performance. Given your reputation, Escort of the Year co-titleship and the sheer number of positive reviews you have, I would imagine your clients are equally if not more so satisfied with the services you have provided.

[+ Lucky]

RE: Getting Away With It

 

"Alprazolam may help the symptoms of PMS if extreme"

 

No wonder it is so popular among some of our little old ladies!

[VaHawk]

RE: Getting Away With It

 

Well, I'm with you Franco, 100%. When it's time to sleep, that is just what I want to do. And most times, like you, I have a difficult time falling asleep in a strange bed, especially the first night, so I usually take some kind of over the counter sleep aid.

 

I've never thought of earplugs, but I will take some with me from now on, and a pair for the escort too.

 

When I do an overnight in a hotel, I prefer separate beds too, because I really don't like to have anyone draped all over me when I'm trying to go to sleep. I think that might come from having to share a bed with my brother for a lot of years, when I was growing up.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

High Anxiety

 

>I did do a search for xanax, because I was unsure about what

>it exactly was. This is what I found: "Alprazolam (Xanax)

>is an antianxiety agent, benzodiazepines. Used primarily for

>short-term relief of mild to moderate anxiety and nervous

>tension. Alprazolam is also effective in the treatment of

>activity depression or panic attacks.

 

All the "benzos" have two problems with them: they are all sedative at one level or another and they are also very addictive. Taking one, especially when you have access to no more, would simply have sedative qualities, that is all; however it does not act this way on everybody. Some react to it differently, so it might not be sedative at all.

[+ Charlie]

Because I didn't want to just slip away--I was annoyed enough that I wanted him to know why he wasn't getting paid.

[Guest DevonSFescort]

When clients scheduling overnights ask me about booking a hotel, I'll sometimes admit to having a suite tooth (:+ ) -- that is, I'd rather we spent the night in a suite at a budget-oriented hotel than a small room in a deluxe hotel. This way if either of us has trouble sleeping for any reason he has somewhere to escape to. We also have more room to chase each other around during playtime. }( (Of course, this runs contrary to my gospel-according-to-Priceline, though sometimes hotels booked on Priceline will let you upgrade at check-in for a reasonable per-night charge. Also, Hotwire sometimes pulls up suites and they label them as such.)

[Flower]

RE: Out Of The Closet

 

> Personally, I like to be "available" if the other guy is feeling frisky

>during the night. I never think of it as "the action segment

>of the overnight is finished and now it is time to sleep." I

>prefer to think of the whole experience as...a whole

>experience.

 

That is SO hot!:9

[Flower]

>Because I didn't want to just slip away--I was annoyed enough

>that I wanted him to know why he wasn't getting paid.

...so I guess he wasn't too smart, either??:+