Clients who play game

[Guest]

4 hours ago, DrownedBoy said:

Here's an idea - when you make a website, put a "Q&A" section with all the questions you've gotten.

Very common with female escorts. 

[Jarrod_Uncut]

5 hours ago, Dante said:

Very common with female escorts. 

The screening that’s involved with women SWs tends to be way moreso than with us. It seems many bi-clients might be used to it. 
 

But they often ask for ID, more commonly ask for deposits, and maybe other info. Most of the game players out here barely want to do any of that to get past. 

[coriolis888]

58 minutes ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

 
 

But they often ask for ID, more commonly ask for deposits, and maybe other info. 

If ID and other data is furnished in advance, as requested, it makes it easier for the police to arrest the John or client if there is a police sting in progress.

[Jarrod_Uncut]

On 10/6/2022 at 4:28 AM, coriolis888 said:

If ID and other data is furnished in advance, as requested, it makes it easier for the police to arrest the John or client if there is a police sting in progress.

Are you suggesting that the ones who do are police? 
 

I’m still wondering how TF they pulled all those people in Florida in that sting. It’s one thing reporting bad clients, but they had to display the business of every attempted client they had.

Perhaps the only bright side about the hurricane, is refocusing attention on things that actually matter.
 

 

Edited October 8, 2022 by Jarrod_Uncut

[tenderloin]

Over my years of hiring, I learned the hard way that I have to do some "due diligence" and ask questions that aren't answered on RM or the other sites.  I've had it with escorts who won't kiss, or won't cum, or have 7 roommates hanging around, or announce there is an extra charge for bottoming.  In my experience, on the RM site escorts usually just tick the "I am into" boxes indiscriminately, but for example, very few will actually rim a client or let you put a toy into them.

 I do, however, try to be direct and to the point ("do you kiss?," "are you near a subway?" etc.) and less like a bad porno script ("you gonna shove your big cock in my...?").  If an escort won't answer the questions, I am not going to hire.  Communication is a two-way street.  

[Jarrod_Uncut]

1 hour ago, tenderloin said:

Over my years of hiring, I learned the hard way that I have to do some "due diligence" and ask questions that aren't answered on RM or the other sites.  I've had it with escorts who won't kiss, or won't cum, or have 7 roommates hanging around, or announce there is an extra charge for bottoming.  In my experience, on the RM site escorts usually just tick the "I am into" boxes indiscriminately, but for example, very few will actually rim a client or let you put a toy into them.

 I do, however, try to be direct and to the point ("do you kiss?," "are you near a subway?" etc.) and less like a bad porno script ("you gonna shove your big cock in my...?").  If an escort won't answer the questions, I am not going to hire.  Communication is a two-way street.  

Well this is where communication is key on both sides. 

Do you “sell yourself” or just ask questions? I know that sounds silly considering you’re the client, but sometimes it’s more than just asking questions. Maybe, send a picture. Some of my best connections are with clients who send pictures. I can picture and prepare myself for what is supposed to take place. 
 

I answered questions for someone last week, but it was non stop. And even after he said: one last question, he asked me ANOTHER question. But when I said send deposit and address, no follow up. 

[tenderloin]

3 hours ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

Well this is where communication is key on both sides. 

Do you “sell yourself” or just ask questions? I know that sounds silly considering you’re the client, but sometimes it’s more than just asking questions. Maybe, send a picture. Some of my best connections are with clients who send pictures. I can picture and prepare myself for what is supposed to take place. 
 

I answered questions for someone last week, but it was non stop. And even after he said: one last question, he asked me ANOTHER question. But when I said send deposit and address, no follow up. 

I try to communicate that I am sane, respectful, clean, and friendly.  I am honest about my stats and will share a pic if asked just because I would rather a guy decide he's not into me than have him suffer through a session having an obviously bad time.  

[coriolis888]

16 hours ago, tenderloin said:

I try to communicate that I am sane, respectful, clean, and friendly.  I am honest about my stats and will share a pic if asked just because I would rather a guy decide he's not into me than have him suffer through a session having an obviously bad time.  

Obviously your intent is honorable. 

However, if a client has an occupation that is "high profile", releasing a photo along with details of a potential paid male-to-male sex rendezvous could be a disaster or the end of a career if the photo and wording were to get into the wrong arena.  

Face it, the laws concerning prostitution in this country are absurd compared to the same subject laws of other civilized countries.  

Negotiations between client and provider are sometimes tough.  

There is a fine line between providing too much information or not enough. 

The above data explain why some clients ask questions but, unfortunately, are branded a time waster if they do not immediately say "yes" to a provider.  

 

[Jamie21]

47 minutes ago, coriolis888 said:

Obviously your intent is honorable. 

However, if a client has an occupation that is "high profile", releasing a photo along with details of a potential paid male-to-male sex rendezvous could be a disaster or the end of a career if the photo and wording were to get into the wrong arena.  

Face it, the laws concerning prostitution in this country are absurd compared to the same subject laws of other civilized countries.  

Negotiations between client and provider are sometimes tough.  

There is a fine line between providing too much information or not enough. 

The above data explain why some clients ask questions but, unfortunately, are branded a time waster if they do not immediately say "yes" to a provider.  

 

Yes high profile or even clients in sensitive jobs can’t be expected to provide pics. I never ask for pics, however sometimes clients send one (and often those clients tend not to book…it’s one of those ‘red flags’ that tend to be an indication of flakiness unfortunately). 
Everyone has a different threshold of ‘games’ they’ll tolerate. Generally the sooner a client gets to the point, the better. That’s a sign they’re not flaky.