Providers: What would make you leave the room?

[crushme99]

Curious about providers' reactions on this.  Short of being physically threatened or your client seeming to be a cop, what would make you turn around and walk right out of the client's hotel room?  And has that ever happened to you?

Edited May 17, 2022 by crushme99

[Kevin Slater]

A lit cigarette.

Kevin Slater

[+ Jamie21]

Drugs paraphernalia. If the client is drunk. Others in the room whom I had not expected to be there (I love an audience of course but I do need to know who they are). 
If he’s a cop, great! I love a guy in uniform. 
None of these has ever happened to me. 

[+ Lucky]

20 minutes ago, Jamie21 said:

Drugs paraphernalia. If the client is drunk. Others in the room whom I had not expected to be there (I love an audience of course but I do need to know who they are). 
If he’s a cop, great! I love a guy in uniform. 
None of these has ever happened to me. 

When I cum to London I will rent a uniform!

[Kevin Slater]

50 minutes ago, Lucky said:

When I cum to London I will rent a uniform!

Well shit.  I was gonna bring the drugs, booze and audience.

Kevin Slater

[+ Jamie21]

28 minutes ago, Kevin Slater said:

Well shit.  I was gonna bring the drugs, booze and audience.

Just don’t smoke ok? 

[Shawn Monroe]

All of these have happened to me. Most I wouldn’t do again. 
 

other one being someone underaged. I showed up once and the person was, I immediately got in my car and sped off. 

[+ DrownedBoy]

On 5/18/2022 at 12:57 PM, Shawn Monroe said:

other one being someone underaged. I showed up once and the person was, I immediately got in my car and sped off. 

I have to ask - did you card him?

[Shawn Monroe]

2 hours ago, DrownedBoy said:

I have to ask - did you card him?

He was probably 13. If you’re being facetious. So there was no need. 

[+ DrownedBoy]

1 hour ago, Shawn Monroe said:

He was probably 13. If you’re being facetious. So there was no need. 

Not quite. Let's put it this way - when I was 22, a person who saw me on the street thought I was still in middle school, and when I bought booze, I had to show 2 IDs. And if I had known how to hire online and had the money, I definitely would have hired.

Edited May 19, 2022 by DrownedBoy

[ArmyHands]

On 5/17/2022 at 11:22 AM, Jamie21 said:

Drugs paraphernalia. If the client is drunk. Others in the room whom I had not expected to be there (I love an audience of course but I do need to know who they are). 
If he’s a cop, great! I love a guy in uniform. 
None of these has ever happened to me. 

 

[Rod Hagen]

I remember when I was a much younger escort, less aware I could say no, and an overnight client and I drove around West Hollywood so he could find Tina.  We went from house to house to meet several suppliers he'd found on AOL.  Honestly, later that night I could barely tell he was on Meth.  Still, bad.

15 years ago, I was with a celebrity (minor) former client of mine at his pretty cool house in Beachwood Canyon.  We went in to his giant walk in closet (so gay) and he took some Crystal out of his safe.  I was shocked, it seemed out of character.   Haven't seen him in years, but when I looked him up, just now, I see he's sober.  Yay!

In both instances I should have walked away, but, you know, money. 

 

 

[BuffaloKyle]

On 5/19/2022 at 4:13 PM, Shawn Monroe said:

He was probably 13. If you’re being facetious. So there was no need. 

That's crazy. I wonder if he just wanted to see if you would show up and were real? But it's scary too in the sense that if you had an intimate text exchange with him and had sent graphic images then you could get caught up in a bunch of legal drama. You'd be fine at the end of the day not knowing he was a minor but still. 

[+ nycman]

18 minutes ago, BuffaloKyle said:

You'd be fine at the end of the day not knowing he was a minor but still. 

Don’t be so sure. 

They may not be able to convict, but they can sure destroy your life trying. 

[+ DrownedBoy]

On 5/24/2022 at 2:10 PM, nycman said:

Don’t be so sure. 

They may not be able to convict, but they can sure destroy your life trying. 

Especially in the current American social climate, where all gay men are suddenly "groomers."

[Kevin Slater]

Moderator’s note: let’s return to the topic at hand, which is what would cause a provider to leave the room.