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12is12

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Hi Guys,

In July I'll be travelling Canada and the US.

My ideal type of club (which I guess doesn't exist):

Maximum promiscuity - highest chance of oral activity; strippers-denacers generously interactive in the publc area.

Body type - lean/athletic; not into bodybuilders or hairy; preferably cut.

Weekdays action; I can't time all my city visits to weekends.

Music volume allows social interaction.

Non-smoking, or at least no prohibitive smoke.

 

Which clubs would be optimal fo rme?

Thanks   (-:

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Thx

It seems that all clubs operate only Thursdays-Saturdays.

Someone posted that Adonis ceased its Wednesdays.

Are men not horny during the week?

I mean, fun could still be had before turning in relatively early for work the next morning.....   )-:

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12 hours ago, 12is12 said:

Thx

It seems that all clubs operate only Thursdays-Saturdays.

Someone posted that Adonis ceased its Wednesdays.

Are men not horny during the week?

I mean, fun could still be had before turning in relatively early for work the next morning.....   )-:

Even before COVID, Adonis Wednesday was a really slow night. Fairytail weekdays were also slow back in the day.

I believe Johnson’s opens Tuesdays- Sundays. 

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I found that it took me several attempts at various venues until I started to enjoy the scene.  I wouldn’t overwork where to start but rather jump in every chance you get! Read the advice on this site about best practices especially to avoid getting ripped off and then get started.   Practice makes perfect! 

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Ft Lauderdale has 3 strip clubs that operate on a near daily basis. (Mondays are the biggest exception in which only one is open.)

Montreal has 3 (at least the last time I was there). 

Instead of trying to pick the perfect place, just try to hit them all. Each place has benefits and drawbacks. 

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My best times have been in strip clubs with private rooms for one-on-ones with dancers. In my experience, the privacy affords more intimate interactions.

Stock Bar and Campus in Montreal had private rooms for one-on-ones pre-Covid, and I had great times there. Might be worth confirming that those private rooms are still there. And my best experiences were at Remingtons in Toronto, but that place sadly closed. 😞

I’ve had mixed experiences at Adonis in NYC. The last time I went was when they were still located at that spot in the East 50s in Manhattan. The lap dances took place in a dimly lit lounge area behind the stage where there was no privacy from other patrons getting lap dances. Consequently, sometimes the guys were interactive, and other times they weren’t.

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On 5/10/2022 at 8:20 AM, CheckCar said:

And my best experiences were at Remingtons in Toronto, but that place sadly closed. 😞

After Remington's moved the men upstairs the private dance area was a large open room in the back with small cubicles that only had partitions that went up two or three feet. Everyone could see you playing with your private dancer and you could see everyone else. I was back there with this pretty hot guy. We were getting very busy and I kinda lost track of the fact that others could see us. He was visibly excited. Very. Next thing i knew there was another dancer in the cubicle with us. As we were reaching the point of no return I looked around and saw we had quite an audience. They applauded as we finished. It turned out the dancer who joined us was from a small town a couple hours outside of Toronto and was deeply in the closet. He wanted in on the action pretty bad. He and I still chat on FB.

There was also a gay motel in Key West that had a strip bar with an open room where you would go for a private dance in a big room in the back. There were no walls so everyone could watch you and you could watch everyone. I sometimes stayed there for the night and would get the room closest to the bar. Dancers would come over and one even spent the night with me.

Those were great places to go for a first time. 

I would actually recommend BJs in Atlanta for a first timer. It is not all naked but the guys actually do a lot in the private rooms and they are pretty good at taking the lead and giving a great private experience. 

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Campus has cubicles but no door/curtain and people can walk in on you or watch when they pass to go to their own cubicle. Adonis in Fairytail did not have cubicles and the action is taking place in a dimly-lit open space where you're sitting side by side with the other patrons. I did'nt pay attention to the others as Im concentrating with my own dancer, which everyone was doing anyway.

My best lapdance experience is with Stockbar - sexy young men all smelling fresh and nice. The flimsy curtain is enough to provide privacy so can do your wicked ways with your dancer without anyone else seeing you.

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On 5/12/2022 at 2:22 AM, Sydneysider said:

My best lapdance experience is with Stockbar - sexy young men all smelling fresh and nice. The flimsy curtain is enough to provide privacy so can do your wicked ways with your dancer without anyone else seeing you.

This actually spotlights an important point the OP should consider when reading posts on this thread. @Sydneysider is correct about the dancers at Stockbar being fresh and they are often buff, and apparently, he values that in dancers. When you read my posts be aware that I like seedier and grittier. (SF Campus, DC Follies and Midtowne Spas dancers pre-Covid - hmm, all of these places are gone!) There is nothing wrong with either viewpoint, but hopefully the OP has some idea which he would prefer and follows the advice offered from that vantage point. 

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OMG the DC Follies the best. Who remembers the Follies when they came to NY. They didn't last long. Not sure what happened. If the city shut them down. I saw Porn Star John King. We had a great time in one of the back rooms. 

Yes it's all gone.

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16 hours ago, Buff Daddy said:

OMG the DC Follies the best. Who remembers the Follies when they came to NY. They didn't last long. Not sure what happened. If the city shut them down. I saw Porn Star John King. We had a great time in one of the back rooms. 

Yes it's all gone.

I loved the Follies. On another thread, I posted about the time Joey Stefano performed on a Sunday afternoon and I nailed him in the theater in front of the audience. What I didn't post was how hot it was that day, I was wearing lycra bike shorts with no underwear and was rushing to make the show. I grabbed a can of tuna and quickly ate it in the car on the way to the theater while driving. The can tipped over at some point. Tuna juice got all over my shorts and I know my cock smelled like tuna. Joey Stefano smelled my crotch, gave me a strange look and did not put his nose anywhere near my cock again. Instead he turned around and bent over. (Again, miraculous I remain HIV-negative.)

What many reading this might not know is that the Follies had a major fire in 1977, killing nine with four survivors. Rescue crews found one survivor under several dead bodies. It turned out that survivor was a conservative Mississippi congressman. Rep John C Hinson was later arrested for sodomy in a congressional office building men's room. He resigned after that and several year later died of AIDs.

I worked part-time in the Rayburn Building at the time of his arrest, while I was in college. It was very well known what was happening in the men's room. Each congressperson had a personal bathroom in his/her private office but the staff was supposed to use the restrooms in the hallway. The chief of staff gave me permission to us the private bathroom in the Congressman's personal office, which was unheard of, because she didn't want the eighteen year old, me, having to fight off the trolls in the men's room. If the Congressman was in a meeting I was supposed to go next door to Rep Pat Shroeder's office, which actually had two private bathrooms. 

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7 hours ago, CJK said:

I loved the Follies. On another thread, I posted about the time Joey Stefano performed on a Sunday afternoon and I nailed him in the theater in front of the audience. What I didn't post was how hot it was that day, I was wearing lycra bike shorts with no underwear and was rushing to make the show. I grabbed a can of tuna and quickly ate it in the car on the way to the theater while driving. The can tipped over at some point. Tuna juice got all over my shorts and I know my cock smelled like tuna. Joey Stefano smelled my crotch, gave me a strange look and did not put his nose anywhere near my cock again. Instead he turned around and bent over. (Again, miraculous I remain HIV-negative.)

What many reading this might not know is that the Follies had a major fire in 1977, killing nine with four survivors. Rescue crews found one survivor under several dead bodies. It turned out that survivor was a conservative Mississippi congressman. Rep John C Hinson was later arrested for sodomy in a congressional office building men's room. He resigned after that and several year later died of AIDs.

I worked part-time in the Rayburn Building at the time of his arrest, while I was in college. It was very well known what was happening in the men's room. Each congressperson had a personal bathroom in his/her private office but the staff was supposed to use the restrooms in the hallway. The chief of staff gave me permission to us the private bathroom in the Congressman's personal office, which was unheard of, because she didn't want the eighteen year old, me, having to fight off the trolls in the men's room. If the Congressman was in a meeting I was supposed to go next door to Rep Pat Shroeder's office, which actually had two private bathrooms. 

Have you ever considered writing a memoir of these experiences? Maybe book-length, or maybe an article for a queer-friendly outlet?

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3 hours ago, CheckCar said:

Have you ever considered writing a memoir of these experiences? Maybe book-length, or maybe an article for a queer-friendly outlet?

Never thought of it. Right now, in Asia. BL (boy love) tv shows and movies are all the rage, mostly among teen girls and young women. These center on relationships between young men. For example, 2Gether, which was China's most streamed show for a few weeks, is a Thai production that has been huge in Indonesia, Vietnam and South Korea. It is on US Netflix and YouTube with English subtitles. I fully expect the trend to move to the US soon. The production centers on two guys and their budding relationship, but both guys have brothers who also get involved with other guys and pretty much all the guys on the university are open to getting involved with other guys. So maybe there would be a mainstream market for a memoir about real gay sleaze in the eighties and nineties centering on strip clubs, bathhouses, sex clubs and backrooms. Of course, I would need a pseudonym. Maybe Rick Rammer? Adam Wildman? 

The truth is while I have always loved gay sleaze, including strip clubs, bathhouses and sex clubs, I never realized how much experience I had in them until I recently stumbled into this web site. I traveled all over the country and the world for work and would often be able to add an extra day in cities I wanted to explore, which often meant going to the darker establishments in addition to the usual touristy sites. My non-gay friends, family and coworkers would likely be astonished to find this out.

I used to have a friend in Atlanta, in the mod-aughts, who was so out of control. He was with different guys every night, always in the seedier clubs, and into electronic sex toys among other things. One evening he and I were meeting for dinner. His roommate wound up joining us but was about ten minutes late. When the roommate showed up my friend and I were having a friendly disagreement. I pointed out he was the most out of control guy I knew when it came to sex. He countered that he wasn't even close to my level, which stunned me, given my friend was just so out of control when it came to sex. When the roommate showed up, I repeated what my friend said expecting the roommate to readily agree with me about our friend being the biggest slut. Instead, the roommate got a deer-in-headlights look and said there was no way to call one of us worse than the other, but we were definitely the two most out of control guys he knew. That was my wake-up call to slow down. I stopped going to the sex clubs and bathhouses and limited my time in strip clubs to no more than twice a month unless I was in Bangkok, Prague, Montreal or Mexico and stopped having anal sex with strippers I brought back to the hotel. 

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2 hours ago, CJK said:

Never thought of it. Right now, in Asia. BL (boy love) tv shows and movies are all the rage, mostly among teen girls and young women. These center on relationships between young men. For example, 2Gether, which was China's most streamed show for a few weeks, is a Thai production that has been huge in Indonesia, Vietnam and South Korea. It is on US Netflix and YouTube with English subtitles. I fully expect the trend to move to the US soon. The production centers on two guys and their budding relationship, but both guys have brothers who also get involved with other guys and pretty much all the guys on the university are open to getting involved with other guys. So maybe there would be a mainstream market for a memoir about real gay sleaze in the eighties and nineties centering on strip clubs, bathhouses, sex clubs and backrooms. Of course, I would need a pseudonym. Maybe Rick Rammer? Adam Wildman? 

Queer As Folk is getting another reboot. It will be interesting to see if the reboot retains the sexual tone of the 1st US reboot.

 

And, I would still love to read more of your recollections of sexual escapades, even if they were simply on this forum.

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