Does real penetration sex feel like the dildos?

[HoseMaster]

19 hours ago, Rod Hagen said:

HM, I'm curious  why you mostly bottom if you feel no pleasure down there?

It gets me hard seeing a guy that really turns me on fuck me.  However, it only works if I’m on my back and I can see him fuck me from the front even though I usually start in other positions.  I wish I knew what it felt like down there for people who actually do feel it down there.  It really gets me going when I see guys in pornos that are able to cum by just being fucked and not even touching themselves to do that.  I’ve never even come close to that.

9 hours ago, nycboi said:

To make his partner happy perhaps?

Yes, this reason is also true.

[socurious]

53 minutes ago, HoseMaster said:

It gets me hard seeing a guy that really turns me on fuck me.  However, it only works if I’m on my back and I can see him fuck me from the front even though I usually start in other positions.  I wish I knew what it felt like down there for people who actually do feel it down there.  It really gets me going when I see guys in pornos that are able to cum by just being fucked and not even touching themselves to do that.  I’ve never even come close to that.

Yes, this reason is also true.

I think what makes guys cum like that is the prostate stimulation. I still know what you mean. I envy people who actual enjoy bottoming.  

[Guest]

On 2/27/2022 at 1:28 PM, marylander1940 said:

what's stopping you?

Make it happen!

 

[italianboyph]

They’re making dildos that are looking and feeling more like skin. That being said there isn’t anything like the real thing 😈😈

[jeezifonly]

If you are capable of taking a dildo, the key will be to find a top (and one who is good with noobs) of similar size who likes eye contact. Focus on him, Imagine yourself as a flower opening to him. Don’t try to look down there -takes too much effort and attention from your brain which is processing unfamiliar pleasure-adjascent sensation.
Your practice 👏🏼 lets you know have the ability to open enough, so let him do the work of finding your pleasure spots. (I too have a distinctly better experience on my back, and love eye contact which is fastest form of feedback for the top. 

[marylander1940]

On 12/14/2021 at 7:22 AM, nycboi said:

I have been training myself to start bottoming but it doesn't feel too comfortable in all the positions yet. Lay down in my back is the only way I can feel some pleasure and eventually reach an orgasm by using a dildo myself. But is often a mixture of pain and pleasure (the fastest I do it the more pleasure). I hope I don't come off as silly for asking this question. Real dicks are supposed to feel warm but I've never bottomed before. 

no, they don't feel the same but kudos to you for training yourself about bottoming. 

[marylander1940]

On 2/27/2022 at 4:49 PM, nycboi said:

Maybe I just need the real. I am just too afraid it will hurt.

getting fucked is always painful at first. 

Some folks simply just can't do it, in some cases is physical pain while in others is psychological and they feel they're being emasculated while doing it. 

[socurious]

11 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

getting fucked is always painful at first. 

Some folks simply just can't do it, in some cases is physical pain while in others is psychological and they feel they're being emasculated while doing it. 

How does pain go away at first and how many times do you need for your hole to get used? 

I truly want to feel pleasure and be penetrated. It's my all time fantasy. But the few times I try my dildo is not what I have in mind. I thought using the dildo itself was going to make my pussy get used...

[MmM]

I used to be a total top because I couldn't handle being penetrated. I eventually learned how to enjoy bottomimg and now I mostly bottom. I still would like to top but I'm not hung and a lot of bottoms prefer big dicks. What I've learned along the way is that bottoming doesn't have to hurt (take your time to relax and use lots of lube and often), you can take charge of your own pleasure even as a bottom (make what your feeling known and take controlnof the positions), it's 50% psychological and 50% sensation (for me) -- I personally don't derive the same pleasure having a dildo in me the same as looking a guy in the eye while getting fucked  or seeing myself get fucked in the mirror. 

[Guest untakenalias]

Late to the game here, but another testimonial of a former total top who now mostly bottoms. A few keys:

-Most important is to find a skilled, patient top to work your way in. I was lucky to have an ex who was very patient, started with fingers, then dildo, then worked up to taking his (rather large) dick (this was over 5-10 sessions). In my case, once I knew how good it could feel, it go much easier to relax and take it in. And yes, it often hurts a little at first, but when you know how good it'll feel once you relax, it's much easier to let go and enjoy the ride. 

-As others said, lube is essential. When I first started bottoming, I preferred water based lubes, because there was less friction, so it wasn't as tight. As I got more comfortable, I started to prefer silicone, which produces more friction and lasts longer for more extended sessions. Now I'm a huge fan of Fort Troff's cum grenade, a mix of the two. It's great for the top and the bottom. And I'd recommend their Cbd cum lube too - a shot of that a few minutes before playtime really helps with that initial entry. 

-Last, I'm a recent and extremely enthusiastic convert to Fort Troff's CBD boof. Check the reviews - it is literally game changing in terms of how much, how hard, and how long I can take it in. (I have a tight hole so usually I need a few minutes to ease into aggressive play, but with the boof a top can go straight to town on me.) FWIW, tops seem to love it too, because they can really go at it without worry.