Alex/blessings

[+ azdr0710]

[Spiritualadvisor]

9 hours ago, dk582 said:

He didn’t live up to the hype on the forum posts for me. 

Can you elaborate and have you found anyone who does for you? 

Edited September 2, 2023 by Spiritualadvisor

[BooBear]

18 hours ago, dk582 said:

He didn’t live up to the hype on the forum posts for me. 

Same for me unfortunately

[Wanderoz]

So can somebody just tell me.  Is he a too or a bottom or a vers? And what all does he do?  This talking in code is annoying. DM me if you prefer. 

[Spiritualadvisor]

3 hours ago, Wanderoz said:

So can somebody just tell me.  Is he a too or a bottom or a vers? And what all does he do?  This talking in code is annoying. DM me if you prefer. 

He doesn’t offer escort services. He provides deep tissue massage with sensual and erotic elements if asked. 
 

I am interested to know what @dk582and @BooBearwere expecting from Alex that they felt dissatisfied or disappointed.
 

Were they expecting escort services?  
 

I assume that they were expecting escort services from Alex and got disappointed because there are many testimonials of his deep tissue massage skills on this forum and elsewhere. 
 

It would be great if they could elaborate. 
 

 

Edited September 3, 2023 by Spiritualadvisor

[+ WestGuy]

9 hours ago, Spiritualadvisor said:

He doesn’t offer escort services. He provides deep tissue massage with sensual and erotic elements if asked. 
 

I am interested to know what @dk582and @BooBearwere expecting from Alex that they felt dissatisfied or disappointed.
 

Were they expecting escort services?  
 

I assume that they were expecting escort services from Alex and got disappointed because there are many testimonials of his deep tissue massage skills on this forum and elsewhere. 
 

It would be great if they could elaborate. 
 

 

Granted his Rentmen ad has a focus on massage but it also lists his position as “Versatile” which can convey more than just a massage with erotic elements. It indicates that full service is available. Maybe that is the source of the different experiences. I can only go from my own experiences with Alex, which without exception were fantastic.

Edited September 3, 2023 by WestGuy

[BaronArtz]

On 9/1/2023 at 6:08 PM, Teddiec said:

I would avoid this guy.  I made an appointment today for 6.  He asked that I confirm within 30 minutes which I did.  He cancelled because he got other offers.  Totally bad creepy vibe. 

I have had the pleasure of meeting with Alex 3-4 times this year.  I understand that YMMV, he may be your type or not, you may enjoy his services of not but the one thing I will say about him is this:

Alex is always very well organized setting up his appointments, he is courteous and professional.  I have a hard time believing that he cancelled 30 minutes before the appointment 'because he got better offers'.  That is not him at all.  Even if that was the reason, which I very much doubt it is, it would be very unlikely for him to say it.   There has to be more going on.  Was a red flag raised that caused to masseur not willing to proceed with the appointment?

I will say to @Teddiec that you are very welcome to express your thoughts and opinions.  It looks like you are a rookie here and that the above is your first post.  I find it in poor taste to use a first post here to cast a shadow on a well-liked and respected masseur and member of this community.  Think about your own reputation and credibility.

 

[BooBear]

This thread and discussion are about the providers services as a masseur from my understanding, and want to make it clear my comments are in response to that. Seems some unfounded assumptions are being thrown out but at no time did I mention or respond to anything related to escorting services.

Edited September 3, 2023 by BooBear

[Alex.Blessings]

There are those who get off by making fake appointments with the intention of causing financial losses to others. Providers refer to such as “Time Wasters”. 

 

I once asked such a time waster out of curiosity why they do what they do and he replied that it’s because it’s not fair for people like me to make so much money. A loss of $200 here, another $400 there, it soon adds up to real losses. 

 

Providers warn each other about such time wasters on a popular app that has already been mentioned on this forum. I find it to be a very useful tool and I use it in my day to day work. 

 

In the case of @Teddiec, he is flagged as a time waster and worse. He made an appointment with me in the past and canceled shortly before the session causing me a loss as there were others interested in that time slot. The first time he did this, he told me that his name is Peter. 

 

I have the chat history and will post them here should this guy deny anything that I am disclosing here. 

 

Last Thursday he messaged me asking for an appointment the next day. He also mentioned that his name is Ted. I have his number saved as Peter so that was another red flag, but I believe in second chances so I scheduled it for Friday, 6pm. 

 

That Friday, early in the day, I started getting several requests for treatment at 6, 6:30, and 7pm. I suspected that Peter/Ted, or whatever his name is, would try to cause me another loss so I sent him a message at 1pm asking him to confirm our appointment, but there was no response. So I messaged him again at 2pm, asking him to please confirm by 4pm as I have others who want the 6pm time slot. He didn’t respond, so at 4pm, I sent him a message saying that our appointment is canceled because he didn’t confirm. 

 

Indeed, I gave the time slot to another around 4:30. 

 

It seems that he didn’t like the fact that I didn’t allow him to cause me another loss so he is trying to cause me losses by other means. 

 

I would say that more than 96% of people who contact me and visit me are good people. They are very kind to me, but there are always some who have dark personalities. I will never give such people treatments. 

 

I always ask my clients how they feel after each session to make sure that each and everyone is happy or very happy with the experience, and so far 99.9% of clients have said that it was great, awesome, and used other words of praise. 

 

I am surprised that @BooBear and @dk582 were not happy with the experience, because it either means that they didn’t tell the truth when I asked them at the end of the session how they felt about it or they are not being truthful after the fact. Regardless of their reasons, I will be sending both of them a private DM shortly and offer each a 60-minute in-call treatment completely free of charge. 

 

I want to clarify that I don’t offer escort services. When creating the RM profile, it was required to include “Versatile”, or whatever, in order to create the profile. There was no other way. It was a required field that must be filled out, that could not be left blank. 

 

To the one who alerted me as to what’s happening on this forum, I look forward to seeing you soon! 

 

To those who defended me against these, I thank you. May you be blessed! I am very grateful to you. 

 

I wish you a good Labor Day weekend 💙

[FLJock]

38 minutes ago, Alex.Blessings said:

I wish you a good Labor Day weekend 💙

You just made it to the top of my list when I visit NYC next.  
Have a nice End of Summer wknd! 

[JckBNimble]

44 minutes ago, Alex.Blessings said:

There are those who get off by making fake appointments with the intention of causing financial losses to others. Providers refer to such as “Time Wasters”. 

 

I once asked such a time waster out of curiosity why they do what they do and he replied that it’s because it’s not fair for people like me to make so much money. A loss of $200 here, another $400 there, it soon adds up to real losses. 

 

Providers warn each other about such time wasters on a popular app that has already been mentioned on this forum. I find it to be a very useful tool and I use it in my day to day work. 

 

In the case of @Teddiec, he is flagged as a time waster and worse. He made an appointment with me in the past and canceled shortly before the session causing me a loss as there were others interested in that time slot. The first time he did this, he told me that his name is Peter. 

 

I have the chat history and will post them here should this guy deny anything that I am disclosing here. 

 

Last Thursday he messaged me asking for an appointment the next day. He also mentioned that his name is Ted. I have his number saved as Peter so that was another red flag, but I believe in second chances so I scheduled it for Friday, 6pm. 

 

That Friday, early in the day, I started getting several requests for treatment at 6, 6:30, and 7pm. I suspected that Peter/Ted, or whatever his name is, would try to cause me another loss so I sent him a message at 1pm asking him to confirm our appointment, but there was no response. So I messaged him again at 2pm, asking him to please confirm by 4pm as I have others who want the 6pm time slot. He didn’t respond, so at 4pm, I sent him a message saying that our appointment is canceled because he didn’t confirm. 

 

Indeed, I gave the time slot to another around 4:30. 

 

It seems that he didn’t like the fact that I didn’t allow him to cause me another loss so he is trying to cause me losses by other means. 

 

I would say that more than 96% of people who contact me and visit me are good people. They are very kind to me, but there are always some who have dark personalities. I will never give such people treatments. 

 

I always ask my clients how they feel after each session to make sure that each and everyone is happy or very happy with the experience, and so far 99.9% of clients have said that it was great, awesome, and used other words of praise. 

 

I am surprised that @BooBear and @dk582 were not happy with the experience, because it either means that they didn’t tell the truth when I asked them at the end of the session how they felt about it or they are not being truthful after the fact. Regardless of their reasons, I will be sending both of them a private DM shortly and offer each a 60-minute in-call treatment completely free of charge. 

 

I want to clarify that I don’t offer escort services. When creating the RM profile, it was required to include “Versatile”, or whatever, in order to create the profile. There was no other way. It was a required field that must be filled out, that could not be left blank. 

 

To the one who alerted me as to what’s happening on this forum, I look forward to seeing you soon! 

 

To those who defended me against these, I thank you. May you be blessed! I am very grateful to you. 

 

I wish you a good Labor Day weekend 💙

Always a class act and a total pro. You’ll always get a damn good massage with @Alex.Blessings!!

 

Now… what’s this app providers share patrons intel??

 

 

[MoshYeru]

I was with Alex a long time ago and I hope to be able to be with him again soon. All I can say is you won't find a nicer person than him! 

[Redwine56]

1 hour ago, Alex.Blessings said:

There are those who get off by making fake appointments with the intention of causing financial losses to others. Providers refer to such as “Time Wasters”. 

 

I once asked such a time waster out of curiosity why they do what they do and he replied that it’s because it’s not fair for people like me to make so much money. A loss of $200 here, another $400 there, it soon adds up to real losses. 

 

Providers warn each other about such time wasters on a popular app that has already been mentioned on this forum. I find it to be a very useful tool and I use it in my day to day work. 

 

In the case of @Teddiec, he is flagged as a time waster and worse. He made an appointment with me in the past and canceled shortly before the session causing me a loss as there were others interested in that time slot. The first time he did this, he told me that his name is Peter. 

 

I have the chat history and will post them here should this guy deny anything that I am disclosing here. 

 

Last Thursday he messaged me asking for an appointment the next day. He also mentioned that his name is Ted. I have his number saved as Peter so that was another red flag, but I believe in second chances so I scheduled it for Friday, 6pm. 

 

That Friday, early in the day, I started getting several requests for treatment at 6, 6:30, and 7pm. I suspected that Peter/Ted, or whatever his name is, would try to cause me another loss so I sent him a message at 1pm asking him to confirm our appointment, but there was no response. So I messaged him again at 2pm, asking him to please confirm by 4pm as I have others who want the 6pm time slot. He didn’t respond, so at 4pm, I sent him a message saying that our appointment is canceled because he didn’t confirm. 

 

Indeed, I gave the time slot to another around 4:30. 

 

It seems that he didn’t like the fact that I didn’t allow him to cause me another loss so he is trying to cause me losses by other means. 

 

I would say that more than 96% of people who contact me and visit me are good people. They are very kind to me, but there are always some who have dark personalities. I will never give such people treatments. 

 

I always ask my clients how they feel after each session to make sure that each and everyone is happy or very happy with the experience, and so far 99.9% of clients have said that it was great, awesome, and used other words of praise. 

 

I am surprised that @BooBear and @dk582 were not happy with the experience, because it either means that they didn’t tell the truth when I asked them at the end of the session how they felt about it or they are not being truthful after the fact. Regardless of their reasons, I will be sending both of them a private DM shortly and offer each a 60-minute in-call treatment completely free of charge. 

 

I want to clarify that I don’t offer escort services. When creating the RM profile, it was required to include “Versatile”, or whatever, in order to create the profile. There was no other way. It was a required field that must be filled out, that could not be left blank. 

 

To the one who alerted me as to what’s happening on this forum, I look forward to seeing you soon! 

 

To those who defended me against these, I thank you. May you be blessed! I am very grateful to you. 

 

I wish you a good Labor Day weekend 💙

How could anyone cast doubt on an outstanding masseur who took the time to write such a thorough and thoughtful summary addressing the accusations?  Alex has a very high rent to meet each month along with other expenses living in the Big Apple requires that we all well know.  It's not only unfair to Alex but all of us good clients who can appreciate his exceptional talent.  Remember how disappointed we all were when Alex was not taking appointments for a period while training for another career choice.  Thank you Alex for being the memorable Blessing that you are.  I'll look forward to seeing you soon.  CHEERS!

[+ WestGuy]

1 hour ago, MoshYeru said:

I was with Alex a long time ago and I hope to be able to be with him again soon. All I can say is you won't find a nicer person than him! 

Agree and hope to see him again soon too!

[Lohengrin1979]

It’s easy to tell when someone has an axe to grind re: a provider. Alex, your eloquent and detailed response was appreciated though I’m sorry that bad agents made it necessary at all.

I look forward to experiencing your work when next I visit New York.

[+ EVdude]

Seems like the original post by @dk582 has been deleted. 

[BooBear]

I appreciate the provider responding, however, I find the tone and lack of accountability quite disappointing. Don’t appreciate the insinuation that I might be a liar for honestly sharing my feedback either. I am glad many have had good experiences with him but that simply wasn’t my experience. He wasn’t the positive, kind and friendly person (with me) that everyone hypes. And while I have no interest in getting on a back and forth about this, I 100% stand by what I said. 

The provider did reach out offering a free session. However. I respectfully declined because I didn’t find it genuine. Instead, I thought it would be more valuable to share more details with him so that others may have a better experience in the future. 
 

Hope everyone enjoys the rest of their holiday weekend! 
 

[FLJock]

18 minutes ago, BooBear said:

I appreciate the provider responding, however, I find the tone and lack of accountability quite disappointing. Don’t appreciate the insinuation that I might be a liar for honestly sharing my feedback either. I am glad many have had good experiences with him but that simply wasn’t my experience. He wasn’t the positive, kind and friendly person (with me) that everyone hypes. And while I have no interest in getting on a back and forth about this, I 100% stand by what I said. 

The provider did reach out offering a free session. However. I respectfully declined because I didn’t find it genuine. Instead, I thought it would be more valuable to share more details with him so that others may have a better experience in the future. 
 

Hope everyone enjoys the rest of their holiday weekend! 
 

If you didn’t have the best of experience then this is the right place to share that, so thank you for insight.  However, having the provider reach out personally and asking to be allowed to do right by you, also speaks volumes.  

It’s your choice to decline but that may have been a mistake…IMHO.  

[Marcjr69er]

I have been seeing Alex for many years and to even hear that he would cancel for another person is definitely untrue! I can personally vouch for that! He is the most caring, kind, amazing and exceptional masseur that I have found. 
Just from his response above you can see his character and a man of integrity. So for one to attack his character based on lies shows alot about yourself. While this forum is free expression of your opinion, I respect that but its very distasteful for you to try to hurt others with lies.
The massage industry has changed a lot but it’s masseurs like Alex who really makes a difference because he truly cares about what he is doing!
To anyone that have not tried his massage, I urge you to try it for yourself! I guarantee one the best treatment of your life. DM me if needed

@Alex.Blessings you are the true essence of what a masseur should be and our friendship is for life so let the haters hate. Life goes on 💙

[Harryinny]

Bravo @Alex.Blessings!!!!!!!!

 

[Alex.Blessings]

On 9/3/2023 at 3:15 PM, BooBear said:

I appreciate the provider responding, however, I find the tone and lack of accountability quite disappointing. Don’t appreciate the insinuation that I might be a liar for honestly sharing my feedback either. I am glad many have had good experiences with him but that simply wasn’t my experience. He wasn’t the positive, kind and friendly person (with me) that everyone hypes. And while I have no interest in getting on a back and forth about this, I 100% stand by what I said. 

The provider did reach out offering a free session. However. I respectfully declined because I didn’t find it genuine. Instead, I thought it would be more valuable to share more details with him so that others may have a better experience in the future. 
 

Hope everyone enjoys the rest of their holiday weekend! 
 

@BooBearwhat was the time and date that we met for a session? 
 

Again, I always ask each and every client during and/or at the end of each and every session how they feel about the experience, and so far, 99.9% left happy or very happy. Indeed, most of my clients are repeat clients.

 

 

So either you are lying now or you lied when we were together in person, or maybe we never met at all. 

 

There may be only one way to know for sure:

 

Please share the date and time that we met. 

 

If you don’t remember, you can send me a private DM with the phone number you used to schedule the session. I don’t schedule sessions without a phone number.

 

It is not right to say words of praise about the experience when we are together in person only to then come on here and give negative feedback after the fact. 
 

 

Thank you so very much to each and everyone of you who has been so kind as to come to my defense. Thank you for all the support. I really appreciate it and wish you the very best 💙

Edited September 9, 2023 by Alex.Blessings

[relax man]

5 hours ago, Alex.Blessings said:

Please share the date and time that we met. 

If you don’t remember, you can send me a private DM with the phone number you used to schedule the session. I don’t schedule sessions without a phone number.

It is not right to say words of praise about the experience when we are together in person only to then come on here and give negative feedback after the fact. 

If you don't know who this particular client is, how do you know he gave you words of praise when you were together in person?

It seems awfully convenient to say you ask every client how they like the experience, and then use that to conclude that anyone who at any later point says anything less than glowing is a liar.  There are myriad reasons why someone may not give you a detailed critique, especially if you're asking during a massage.  Maybe they don't want to risk upsetting you and making an average experience worse.  Maybe they don't want a confrontation.  Maybe in the moment they don't have the mental clarity to articulate to themselves or to you exactly what they think of what's happening.  I know it often takes me some time to process things.

I've never met you and I don't have a horse in this particular race, and for all I know you may indeed be getting unwarranted feedback.  But I find it very off-putting for you to keep saying that anyone who expresses mixed or negative feelings about their experience with you is by definition a liar.

[Spiritualadvisor]

24 minutes ago, relax man said:

If you don't know who this particular client is, how do you know he gave you words of praise when you were together in person?

It seems awfully convenient to say you ask every client how they like the experience, and then use that to conclude that anyone who at any later point says anything less than glowing is a liar.  There are myriad reasons why someone may not give you a detailed critique, especially if you're asking during a massage.  Maybe they don't want to risk upsetting you and making an average experience worse.  Maybe they don't want a confrontation.  Maybe in the moment they don't have the mental clarity to articulate to themselves or to you exactly what they think of what's happening.  I know it often takes me some time to process things.

I've never met you and I don't have a horse in this particular race, and for all I know you may indeed be getting unwarranted feedback.  But I find it very off-putting for you to keep saying that anyone who expresses mixed or negative feelings about their experience with you is by definition a liar.

@relax manand people like you exemplify the reason why providers stay away from this forum. We shouldn’t be surprised that there are so few providers who participate on here and it’s all because of people like you @relax manand @BooBear.
 

Shame on the both of you for attacking anonymously from your high horses. 
 

You attack Alex from behind an anonymous account while defending another anonymous account knowing that Alex takes all the risks to defend himself against people who hide behind anonymous accounts. 

As @DynamicUnowrote: “it's a bit dicey for providers to engage a forum like this.  There's a few members that get antagonistic with providers who advocate for themselves and interacting with them at length can only hurt the provider's own image.”

 

 

 

 

[relax man]

9 minutes ago, Spiritualadvisor said:

Shame on the both of you for attacking anonymously from your high horses.

Kind of like you're doing now?

10 minutes ago, Spiritualadvisor said:

You attack Alex from behind an anonymous account while defending another anonymous account knowing that Alex takes all the risks to defend himself against people who hide behind anonymous accounts. 

Attack?  It's an opinion on a message board; it's not a mugging.  I don't know any of the people involved and I have no need to defend any of them.  I'm just saying I bristle at the assertion that anyone who says anything negative is automatically a liar.  I mean, apparently one can feel attacked by me calling it out, or Alex can take the opportunity to rethink making blanket accusatory statements based on this b.s. you-were-either-lying-then-or-you're-lying-now principle he invented, and maybe stop alienating prospective clients.

[+ EVdude]

1 hour ago, Spiritualadvisor said:

Shame on the both of you for attacking anonymously from your high horses. 

Dude… we’re all anonymous here.

And I agree with @relax man, there are so many reasons for someone not being direct or saying anything at all about a disappointing massage. I am certainly “guilty” of leaving a masseur thinking I was satisfied, when I was not. And human connection is not black and white. I’m sure everyone here at some point has had an underwhelming session from some one recommended here. We never call each other liars in these situations. The same should apply to providers here. For me, it stung reading  @BooBear being referred to as a liar.