"Do not waste my time" in an ad

[+ Tygerscent]

Providing that pleasantry would be detrimental for perspective new clients, am I correct?

 

I'm seeing more ads nowadays that are defensive and off-putting right out of the gate. Plus, when you're flipping me off with two hands, and vaping at the same time, who is your target audience?

 

It tempts me to make a cable tv series called "Hires From Hell (or nearby regions)".

I found your post very funny, Smurof~

There seem to be a lot of ads like that in London and NYC/FLA~

In addition, you’ll see things like “young, wealthy, good-looking, serious only: $600/hr”~

Run Away~!!! Run Awayyyyyyy~!!! ????

[BuffaloKyle]

I can understand the frustration of getting a lot of game players and flakes that would lead to them putting that in their ad. It does tend to make me not wanna contact them though for fear of having something come up where I would have to cancel. I feel like they would not take it well at all obviously! ?

 

A nicer less off putting way to state this I think would be to say "serious inquiries only please". I have seen that posted before.

[MiamiLooker]

A nicer less off putting way to state this I think would be to say "serious inquiries only please". I have seen that posted before.

That is a nicer way to put it, but it's still kind of silly for a "professional" to put that in their ad. It's not going to stop someone who simply wants to waste the escort's time. They'll just see it as a challenge, and there's going to be some legitimate clients that are going to ask a million questions. Sometimes they just need that little nudge to feel comfortable with hiring.

[marylander1940]

That is a nicer way to put it, but it's still kind of silly for a "professional" to put that in their ad. It's not going to stop someone who simply wants to waste the escort's time. They'll just see it as a challenge, and there's going to be some legitimate clients that are going to ask a million questions. Sometimes they just need that little nudge to feel comfortable with hiring.

 

What about "serious inquiry only".

 

Maybe if ads could have rates potential clients would know who NOT to contact because they can't afford him.

 

I found your post very funny, Smurof~

There seem to be a lot of ads like that in London and NYC/FLA~

In addition, you’ll see things like “young, wealthy, good-looking, serious only: $600/hr”~

Run Away~!!! Run Awayyyyyyy~!!! ????

 

Yes, I've read those ads. For the record almost everybody in FLA is in great shape.

 

I remember ads saying: "in shape only". Obviously this was 20 years ago before generic Viagra became easily available.

[lonely_john]

Maybe if ads could have rates potential clients would know who NOT to contact because they can't afford him.

I've seen some smart guys writing in their ads: "My favourite number is 100, multiplied by tree".

[Danny-Darko]

Or new/young, or English is not his first language, which could correlate with a different culture where being direct is more valued in business.

Also, some people become "caustic" when they run out of patience or have had their time wasted consistently.

 

Not sure this is the right approach. I prefer to think that we need each other mutually.

I'm not looking for a boyfriend or husband, but rather 1 or more hours of a good f*ck.

Once I show I'm serious business most providers treat me accordingly, it's a win-win.

I, however, don't tolerate arrogance or big egos. If the guy is an asshole, he loses my business.

 

Too many excuses for them is the reason they get away with a lot of their poor behaviors. It's a sign of the times. ?

[lonely_john]

Too many excuses for them is the reason they get away with a lot of their poor behaviors. It's a sign of the times. ?

You speak from an abundance perspective. You are in the US, I assume in a big city.

There are so many more options available that for you it's easier to say "NEXT!"

I'm in Toronto which despite being a big city, it doesn't have the diverse menu available in the US.

It's sometimes difficult to find good top providers so when I find one I cherish and respect him.

The above situation is what forces us to also resource to hook up apps and other websites.

Edited April 20, 2021 by lonely_john