face sitting session

liubit · April 5, 2023

8 hours ago, Simon Suraci said:

Rimming is a dance, a tease, and an extended buildup of pleasure. It’s all about anticipation, not arrival.

This sums it up so well, @Simon Suraci, so well.

Thank you very much for your magnificent tutorial. Not only are you an amazing rimmer, you are also an outstanding writer. I enjoyed reading you: I recognized myself in many of the points, and learned new things in others. I truly appreciate your taking the time to share. Congratulations. 👏👏👏👏👏👏

Edited April 5, 2023 by liubit
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asian sensatin · April 5, 2023

18 hours ago, Simon Suraci said:

@liubit Here’s my short little rimming pocket guide 😆 Is there a gay man’s cosmo mag I can write shit like this for? I’m thinking article title: “21 tips to drive his hole wild”, or something like that.

Rimming 101

1. Cleanliness. Be sure the rimmee is clean and prepared so there’s no anxiety about it. If either of you prefer natural, musky, sweaty, or not cleaned out at all, have good communication beforehand to get on the same page.

2. Foreplay. Get warmed up and build up some anticipation. Do not rush. Kiss, touch, oral (cocks), nipples, stimulate erogenous zones, neck, ears, pits, whatever gets both of you going.

3. Control. The rimmer should initiate rimming. Move your partner’s body, even throw him around a bit if you like. Indicate with your body language that his hole is yours and you’re taking it. Assuming you’ve both worked out some mutual consent beforehand.

4. Position. Some enjoy doggie style rimming. This is fine to mix it up, but it offers less access and a suboptimal angle. You’re fighting to get in there to the best places. The first and primarily position I recommend is with the rimmee in their back, at the edge of a bed or comfortable horizontal surface. A sling works well too. The important thing is both of you are comfortable, and the rimmer’s body is lower than the rimmee’s. Don’t strain your neck getting low. Raise your partner to a comfortable level and consider bolstering their pelvis with a pillow. You’re going to be in this position for a while and you don’t want to be preoccupied with fucking up your neck. You might also consider a knee pillow or something to cushion your knees.

5. Do not neglect his balls. Start with the taint and scrotum, and return to them periodically. Take advantage of how sensitive his scrotum is right off the bat and apply light pressure with your tongue, almost like running your fingertips over his body. This will drive him crazy. Run your tongue all the way up to the side of his cock and around each side of his scrotum. Then run down the taint and back up the middle of the scrotum. At points, return to this technique throughout the rimming session. It feels better and better the more turned on he gets. Vary the pressure at times, using your whole tongue with heavier pressure, and then medium, then light. Vary with using just the tip of your tongue.

6. Avoid over stimulating the opening or going inside too deep or too often. A lot of men just shove their tongue directly into the opening and try to worm their way inside. Do NOT do this. Rimming is a dance, a tease, and an extended buildup of pleasure. It’s all about anticipation, not arrival. By all means you can do the worm move, but use it sparingly, as a surprise, an accent, a flourish, not the main thing. It quickly gets repetitive and boring on its own, and you tend to overstimulate that way.

7. Magic button. This is the secret to mindblowing rimming sessions. For spatial reference, he’s lying on his back now, and you’re kneeling in front of him. Men have a very sensitive point above their opening, at the base of their taint. You can find it by running your tongue above their opening and finding some muscles running just to either side of it in a downward V shape. For those of you familiar with finding a clitoris, it’s not that far removed of a process, except there’s nothing sticking out to draw out. You have to find it buried within the tissue, almost like giving a deep tissue massage. (Damn, I’m good at my job!) The button is at the top of that V point, close to the outer edge of sensitive skin surrounding the hole, but still within it. It’s not inside the opening. Go above the opening. It takes a lot of practice finding the button. Don’t be discouraged. Practice, practice, practice.

8. Once you’ve found the magic button, press with the tip of your tongue into it. Vary your pressure from heavy to light. Maintain firm pressure, then release, then barely touch it. Switch up your stimulation techniques. Tickle it, tease it. Try everything you can to stimulate in just a little different way, and keep changing it. Vary your patterns and switch it up. The button is a powerful sensation point, but just like the glans penis, it’s not everything. Come back to it regularly but please keep a balance of stimulating ALL the areas around his hole. Do not overstimulate any one spot. That is KEY to your success.

9. Use your breath. Suck in air slowly, and then rapidly. Concentrate it in a small opening in your lips, or over your whole open mouth, and everything in between. When you suck in air, it cools the surface of his skin. It’s quite stimulating, especially when combined with other techniques at the same time or one right after the other. Similarly, slowly exhaling warm air will stimulate him in a little different way. The contrast between warm and cool is mesmerizing. Controlled breathing can even be part of your tantric practice if you want to incorporate it with your rimming skills. You can almost go into a trance.

10. Use your hair. If you have a beard, use it to your advantage. Push your chin up into the bowl of his hole and run it up and over across the taint and onto their balls. Use this technique periodically and return to it here and there. If your facial hair is particularly coarse, soften it with beard oil and conditioning products. Nobody wants steel wool on their asshole. If you have stubble, be VERY careful. It’s a hazard with rimming because you can get carried away in the moment and scratch him inadvertently. It really hurts. Stubble can be nice when used in a controlled way, but generally does not feel good on sensitive skin, especially for extended periods. If your chin is smooth or freshly shaven, use it similarly as mentioned above. It’s a different sensation but equally good to provide some variety. If you have long hair on your head, incorporate that stimulation into your routine.

11. Use your nose. Yup, that’s right. Don’t laugh, it’s seriously a great technique. Run your nose up and down, all over. Do the same breath techniques already mentioned, but through your nostrils. Press your nose directly into his opening. You don’t need to fuck him this way, just use pressure. It’s kind of like frottage in that way. Use your nose as a way to provide more and varied pressure everywhere, including the taint. Come back to the nose here and there, but not for a long time at a stretch. As with any of these tips, do a little bit of everything. See what drives him crazy, see what sticks. Then withhold it from him and surprise him with it later…so much so that he squeals and begs!

12. Use your tongue. Obviously. What is not so obvious is to maintain variety. Use your whole broad tongue up from the ass crack all the way over his hole, up over his taint, past his balls, and lick his cock. Then try medium pressure, or less tongue contact, or just the tip, or light contact. Try slow, like VERY slow. That drives him nuts. Occasionally go faster, but not for the majority or for a long stretch. Too many men try to go too fast for too long. It’s too fucking much! Just calm down and take your time. It’s not a race. Please avoid: tickling and swaying with the tip of your tongue the way Eastern European porn actors kiss. It’s annoying. Be more intentional. Get more creative.

13. Involve his cheeks. Lightly bite or lick his ass cheeks. Rub your beard or chin again them. The hole is not everything. Cheek play provides more variety and more stimulation.

14. Hold his legs. Check in regularly. Sometimes he needs a break for his legs. Rimming can’t go forever otherwise he’s too raw. Find the right limit for you both, and don’t be afraid to move on to something else and come back to rimming later. Often rimming is foreplay leading to penetration, but it’s a worthwhile activity on it’s own.

15. Spread his cheeks. But not the whole time. Use this technique as another form of variety. The sensation is slightly different when you do this. Even better with the contrast of not doing it and then returning to it later.

16. Vary your motions. Try spelling something with letters across his hole, or whatever it takes to get you to avoid making the same dull motions over and over. Avoid too much monotony. Every 30 seconds change at least one item from the above list, by adding, changing, or taking away. Variety is paramount to your success.

17. Stimulate his cock. Rimming is about his hole, not his cock. However, feel free to add a little cock stimulation, a little lick, a little stroke, a little brush. This can be pretty sexy and gives more variety. If he’s hard, you might consider stroking him. If he’s soft, don’t worry, it’s completely normal and more typical for him to be flaccid. He can still be extremely turned on in this state, so do not take that as an indication of your success. His breathing, moaning, arching, verbal affirmations, and so on also tell you you’re both on your way to bliss.

18. Ditch the underwear. It’s sexy beforehand, but you need full access. Not just jockstrap level openness. You need the whole damn buffet on display to work your magic. Use all the tools in your box and use the whole box laid out in front of you, not just one corner. And if the box is only half open, rip off whatever is in your way and proceed with passion.

19. Most importantly, love what you do. If you’re not into it, it shows. [good] Rimming is not for everyone, certainly not the faint of heart. If you’re not into it, please just save your partner the annoyance of performing a half-assed rim job, pun intended.

20. When he begs you to fuck him, you know you’re doing something right.

21. Advanced technique ***approach with extreme caution*** Biting the magic button. If and only if, and when you master the magic button, experiment with biting it. By that I mean in a very controlled way. Softly. Think of the way you might nibble on someone’s earlobe, or maybe their nipples, but not hard like some guys enjoy their nipples tortured. Please do not attempt without consent, or without mastering the magic button. If you are not sure you have, you most definitely have not mastered the magic button. It takes a long time and lots of practice to even find it, much less master it. If you manage to do all of that, then consider experimenting with some light, controlled biting. It places pressure in a concentrated point where extreme pleasure is centered. Do not do this for an extended time. Only a little nip for a few seconds here and there. That’s all you need. It’s the cherry on top, not a scoop below.

amazing tutorial. is there a graphic/image you can show in relation to what position you have mentioned in 4.

56harrisond · April 5, 2023

1 minute ago, Simon Suraci said:

Here’s a photo illustrating the general position in #4

Photo or video of #15, 17, 21 would also be greatly appreciated 😉

Whitman · April 6, 2023

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+ *nycman* · April 6, 2023

On 4/5/2023 at 10:52 AM, Simon Suraci said:

Here is an anatomical cut away reference image for #7 highlighting the “Magic Button”.

Please note that the "magic button" is more of a dimple or divot under the skin that you can feel but not see.

Consider this a public service announcement, because you just know there’s 20 queens out there feeling all around their assholes and saying, "button???….I don’t feel a button".

Edited April 6, 2023 by nycman

muslnicknj · April 7, 2023

On 4/3/2023 at 11:27 AM, Simon Suraci said:

Dare I say with plenty of confidence and receipts to match: I’m an expert rimmer and I love it. It’s my best talent…and I’m good at a lot of things! I’ve made some men cum that way before, even hands free from time to time.

Understood that face sitting can be more than, or different than, just rimming. Also, it’s a specific position for rimming.

My best position is with the receiver on their back, on the edge of a bed or other comfortable surface, preferably with a pillow to bolster their pelvis upward.

Some may prefer dirty, ripe, or go more into scat territory. Not yucking those yums, but it’s just not for me. Clean makes for an uninhibited, mindblowing session.

When receiving myself, I am particular. You have to know what you’re doing and it’s quite uncommon that someone actually does. Most of the time it’s meh. Or often uncomfortable, boring, or just…bad.

Love all the hot pics. Sexy!

My favorite bodybuilder escort has the most delicious ass. My favorite position is also when he’s at the edge of the bed with legs in the air so I can nosh while staring at his beautiful face. But I usually cum when he’s on all 4’s pushing his muscle butt into my face. His ass is always clean but I usually ask him to work out before seeing me so there’s a slight musk and ripeness.

Whitman · April 17, 2023

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uclablueyes · April 29, 2023

Thank God for this forum!

Whitman · May 6, 2023

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Whitman · May 7, 2023

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Whitman · May 8, 2023

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TectonicThrust · May 8, 2023

On 4/6/2023 at 1:26 PM, nycman said:

Please note that the "magic button" is more of a dimple or divot under the skin that you can feel but not see.

Just searching for it with my tongue has done the trick the couple times I’ve employed @Simon Suraci’s technique since he posted his tutorial. Not sure if I ever found it but the quest definitely drove the guy crazy. Would it be rude for me to tell a guy the tutorial is required reading before I’ll meet up. I want my turn.