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I booked a massage with Alex when I was in NY last month. It was right up there with the best erotic massage experiences I’ve had. His therapeutic skills are great, the sensual elements are great, his body is great, the atmosphere of his apartment with the view of the city at night from his table. It was fulfilling in every way.

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I had the pleasure of being in the audience of Price Is Right during Bob’s last week of shows before he retired. I sat right behind contestants’ row and was instructed to be extremely animated. I put on quite a show. I had a great time. I recorded the episode on my TiVo and still have the TiVo box in my garage. I’m assuming I could find it on YouTube now and finally toss the TiVo box.

Haha it was clearly why there was no one else my age there at that time. I planned ahead and took a nap earlier in the day. And once in there I really got a second wind that carried me through the night. I totally crashed at my hotel and slept in on Sunday. Still recovering but worth it.

I was in Berkeley and took @NyGold’s advice and went to Steamworks at 1 am on Saturday night. Seriously I was the oldest guy in the place. Most were in their 20s and 30s of all races. It was packed with young attractive guys. I had a blast. When I left at 3:45, guys were still coming in.

This was my experience too. YMMV

Since posting this topic I have been to Flex three times and have had great experiences. I’ve only gone midweek during the day. It’s always been busy with a waitlist for rooms but I haven’t had to wait in line outside to get in which I’ve heard can happen on weekends. There is a good mix of people and each time I’ve found plenty of guys to have fun with. Plenty of opportunities to just watch too.

Yes. I know he was doing bed massages on a bed when he arrived in LA but my massage this week was on a proper massage table with headrest. It is sturdy enough to support two people.

I booked a massage with Alex this week and was very pleased. He gives a very good massage and has a to-die-for body. He just moved to LA and, believe me, we don't want him to leave.

I just booked a massage for next week and intend to do just as you say. @Hot4latinIf there’s anything else you’d like to share before I go, please DM me. Thx

The other 4-hand duo I referenced in my comment above are ZaddyHands (Zad) and Discreetmassage (Sam). I believe they were boyfriends at the time. But it looks like Sam moved to SF and their ads no longer cross-reference each other. Which is too bad for us. I’ve never tried them solo. But TwoBoysFourHands is still a very satisfying experience if you want to try 4-hand. And not as expensive as some others that are advertised, but I assume the more expensive ones cross over into escort territory. ZaddyHands on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com discreetmassage on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com

I had a 90 min 4-hand from them about 6 months ago. It was my first 4-hand massage. They were in a different location than where they are now. They said they were moving to WeHo at the time. One is white tall and all American, the other is shorter and darker (had an Israeli name). Both are very handsome and smooth. When I arrived they were wearing matching briefs and that's it. By the end of the massage, they were wearing matching birthday suits. I really enjoyed it and would repeat, but I have had another 4-hand since then that I preferred. The difference is that TwoBoysFourHands work different parts of the body (one does upper body, the other does lower body) virtually the whole time. The other 4-hand I had felt like a four-handed person, often all four hands were massaging my back at the same time. It was difficult to distinguish between the two. I will say that TwoBoysFourHands were very accommodating with certain requests and the HE was very erotic as they really worked together to make my ending happy.

Thanks @chadLA. I found this thread from 2020 when he was in Boston for anyone that is interested:

GabrielBig on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com His ad is pretty clear on what to expect and this excerpt from one review confirms it, but I’m curious if anyone here has firsthand experience. (Nice banana pic in private album.) Excerpt from review: His tongue and his hands will take you to another universe.He treats you like a real friend and the conversations are always very interesting. I always want to know a little more about him. His pictures are as beautiful as he is! What to say about his WAND! Long big hard, straight 8.5 and *****. I can only say positive things about it. He topped me so good and he loved it so much that he couldn't stop doing it.

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He offers a 2hr tantric massage experience for $250. I went with that (plus tip) and that’s what I recommend. If you read his reviews on RM that seems to be the consensus. It’s a great deal. Because he has a unique technique, it’s hard to categorize as erotic, sensual or therapeutic because there are elements of each depending on how you define them. To be clear, don’t expect sex. But you can expect a lot of body to body contact that results in an amazing HE.

Any experience with christianboyy in LA? He’s been on RM since March with one review. christianboyy on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com

I saw him back in Dec 2022 for an erotic massage. He has a rock hard body. Absolutely gorgeous. Looks just like his pics. Massage is aggressive but fun. Done on a bed with lots of full body contact. I was happy throughout but particularly happy at end. Ended up lying with him in the bed for 10 mins just talking and enjoying his company while I recovered. (I’m sorry to hear about @Terpmaniacexperience with the communication. I’ve frequently checked out Johny Bravo’s private photos for fun because he adds new ones every now and then and he has such an impressive package, but I’ve never had him or any other masseur comment after I’ve viewed but not followed through. I didn’t even realize they paid attention to that.)

What are his rates? Thx

Thanks @gdgd85 for your feedback. Maybe I was too quick to judge but I couldn’t get passed the pre-oil portion as I had no expectation it would get any better. If you have the names of other masseurs you’d recommend I might give it a second try. Cody just wasn’t my style.

I have only received respectful requests and I always respond. I thought that was the thing to do because we can’t post some things publicly about masseurs. Others have also always responded to my inquiries. This has led to ongoing recommendations with guys who have similar tastes to mine. Recently I posted about Sasha Bloom. It seems like everyone in LA was waiting for someone to take the plunge because I got a flood of DMs asking for details. I have to imagine Sasha experienced an uptick in business. And yes, I generally am thanked for taking the time to respond.

Interesting. I did an incall at the beginning of the month. I suspect the outcall is only temporary. At least I hope.

I decided to try Prince Spa last minute as I was driving by because I had remembered reading about it on this site. I called and asked if they had any masseurs available right then. The man said there were 3. I went in and the man at the counter (a man with a slight build, very skinny, whom I later learned was Cody) did not speak English. We were having trouble communicating so he went to get someone else to help me. A man who was a something of a hunk came out and explained the different services. I chose and paid cash. The hunk took me to the room and told me to undress. I did and got on the table. Then the skinny man from the counter came in and said he was Cody and began to massage me saying "hard" or "soft". It was terrible. It felt like a bait and switch. The man lightly touched my back for a few minutes before I knew this was not going to improve. I got up and said this was not working. Cody did not understand so he went to get the hunk. I got dressed and came out and said that I had changed my mind. They gave me my money back and I left. Have others recently had better experiences than I had?

I just left comments in another thread and then realized there are two threads. I had a massage with Sasha this week. Overall it was great and I would repeat. He also waived the deposit after we FaceTimed and confirmed I was real and wouldn’t flake. And to Harryinny, there were some minor miscommunications but his English is very good and was not a barrier. DM me if you want to know more about my experience.