Boyfriend experience without kissing

[Wolfer]

I was talking to a couple who do sessions together (you can hire them only as a couple). I mentioned that I was looking for a boyfriend experience and that (French) kissing was very important to me.

 

Their reply:

"We don't kiss, that's not ok. Even though we don't kiss it's a nice boyfriend experience."

 

I was a bit stumped but thanked them for their time and said I would not book them.

 

I'm just wondering what sort of boyfriend experience would be nice without kissing?

[jawjateck]

Of course, it would be "nice".....for them. They get the cash without the icky-ness of intimacy. It's a win-win.....for them.

[MscleLovr]

I'm just wondering what sort of boyfriend experience would be nice without kissing?

 

I agree with your reaction @Wolfer. French Kissing is hugely enjoyable. It’s a very important part of foreplay for me.

 

I can only imagine that couple getting hired if someone has a strong voyeuristic streak or likes to choreograph the action in a threesome.

[Wolfer]

Of course, it would be "nice".....for them. They get the cash without the icky-ness of intimacy. It's a win-win.....for them.

Yes, technically they are both getting a nice boyfriend experience... With each other. ??

[mike carey]

I suppose a boyfriend experience could be two guys sitting on the couch watching TV and not talking to or touching each other, but that's not one I would sign up for if it were for one night.

[marylander1940]

I was talking to a couple who do sessions together (you can hire them only as a couple). I mentioned that I was looking for a boyfriend experience and that (French) kissing was very important to me.

 

Their reply:

"We don't kiss, that's not ok. Even though we don't kiss it's a nice boyfriend experience."

 

I was a bit stumped but thanked them for their time and said I would not book them.

 

I'm just wondering what sort of boyfriend experience would be nice without kissing?

 

Makes no sense!

 

Was English their first language?

[mike carey]

Was English their first language?

Or in Wolfer's case, French or Flemish.

[marylander1940]

Or in Wolfer's case, French or Flemish.

 

I was asking about the escortS who told him that, not about @Wolfer

[mike carey]

I was asking about the escortS who told him that, not about @Wolfer

I know, my point was that for him whether they spoke English is immaterial if they both spoke a different language as their first language.

[marylander1940]

I know, my point was that for him whether they spoke English is immaterial if they both spoke a different language as their first language.

 

let's wait for @Wolfer response.

 

Maybe they didn't know what "French kissing" and BFE is. Sometimes things get lost in translation.

[mike carey]

and...

Now, you're being deliberately obtuse. If they were not trying to converse in English, and they may not have been, we don't know, then it matters not whether English was the escorts' first language or if they spoke English at all.

[marylander1940]

Now, you're being deliberately obtuse. If they were not trying to converse in English, and they may not have been, we don't know, then it matters not whether English was the escorts' first language or if they spoke English at all.

 

I don't know where the OP is located, he has no information in his profile.

 

No need for name calling.

 

I'll just wait for @Wolfer reply.

 

Have a nice day or should I say good night if you're in Australia time.

[mike carey]

No need for name calling.

 

I'll just wait for @Wolfer reply.

That would be a good idea.

[orville]

I have a friend who's also in this hobby.

He's younger and actively hiring despite Covid.

He tells providers that for him a BFE entails "basic sex"

(those who don't get this expression, please use the search feature of this forum).

He says: "because that's how boyfriends do it!".

He's convinced more than one.

Edited February 9, 2021 by orville

[+ BritSD]

I had a masseur I used to see before he retired in San Diego. During our 90 minute sessions, it would be 30 minutes massage and 60 minutes of fun. Since he was in a relationship, he would never kiss. However the experience was always incredibly intimate and amazing. I could care less about kissing. It was a learning experience about intimacy for sure

[Wolfer]

let's wait for @Wolfer response.

 

Maybe they didn't know what "French kissing" and BFE is. Sometimes things get lost in translation.

We were talking in English though I don't know if it is their first language. I avoid possible confusion by asking "Do you kiss with tongue?" and "I want it intimate and passionate, I want to feel like I'm your boyfriend." I just used French kissing here because many people here have English as their first language.

I don't know where the OP is located, he has no information in his profile.

 

No need for name calling.

 

I'll just wait for @Wolfer reply.

 

Have a nice day or should I say good night if you're in Australia time.

Well, it seems Mike has paid attention throughout the years I've posted which. It's true I don't have my location set in my profile but I've shared many stories of me hiring in Belgium where I live. My first language is Flemish and I speak a bit of French. So Mike was in the know

I had a masseur I used to see before he retired in San Diego. During our 90 minute sessions, it would be 30 minutes massage and 60 minutes of fun. Since he was in a relationship, he would never kiss. However the experience was always incredibly intimate and amazing. I could care less about kissing. It was a learning experience about intimacy for sure

I can see that. Though for me it would leave me feeling frustrated, I think.

[marylander1940]

We were talking in English though I don't know if it is their first language. I avoid possible confusion by asking "Do you kiss with tongue?" and "I want it intimate and passionate, I want to feel like I'm your boyfriend." I just used French kissing here because many people here have English as their first language.

 

Wise of you to be as clear as possible.

 

I know you're located in Europe and that's why I asked.

 

Well, it seems Mike has paid attention throughout the years I've posted which is quite touching, honestly. It's true I don't have my location set in my profile but I've shared many stories of me hiring in Belgium where I live. My first language is Flemish and I speak a bit of French. So Mike was in the know

 

Hopefully @mike carey is also satisfied with your answer.

 

Considering it was 2 AM in Australia I'm amazed he remembered all those facts about you.

Edited February 9, 2021 by marylander1940

[EastbayMike]

BFE without kissing is an oxymoron.

[+ aeikaryoko]

Kissing is a huge turn on for me which that is how my brain’s wired. I could be watching porn seeing two guys passionately kissing and that alone gets me rock hard. I would have declined the meetup as well if kissing was off the table.

[thickornotatall]

I suppose a boyfriend experience could be two guys sitting on the couch watching TV and not talking to or touching each other, but that's not one I would sign up for if it were for one night.

They offer a partial BFE..I wonder fo they do dishes...take out the trash...do other BF stuff...run my bath?..

[liubit]

Kissing is a huge turn on for me which that is how my brain’s wired. I could be watching porn seeing two guys passionately kissing and that alone gets me rock hard. I would have declined the meetup as well if kissing was off the table.

You are my kind of guy, @aeikaryoko ??? To me, no deep kissing means no hiring.

[+ Yellowrod]

Kissing is a huge turn on for me which that is how my brain’s wired. I could be watching porn seeing two guys passionately kissing and that alone gets me rock hard. I would have declined the meetup as well if kissing was off the table.

Kissing is an absolute must in any type of sexual experience for me.

[orville]

Not that I'm conservative but I don't like to kiss at first and prefer providers who have the same approach.

I like to at least smell their breath during our conversation before jumping into exchanging saliva.

I already caught something from kissing years ago, and I know it because all we did was kissing. Since then I'm very careful.

That was a non-escort so I refrain from kissing escorts quickly since they see way more people than me on a regular basis.

I just hate to think that the man I'm kissing could have been sucking c*ck or rimming someone before, on the same day we met.

Once I trust that my partner is consistently hygienic, I'm more than willing to kiss during subsequent encounters.

Edited February 10, 2021 by orville

[sydneyboy]

[Epigonos]

I tend to find potential hires on rentmen. Once I find an interesting guy I check him out here for reviews or comment. If I can't find anything I post a 411. Now if the potential hire doesn't list kissing as something he is into, on his rentmen ad that, ends my interest. I NEVER bother sending him a text asking him if he kisses. He he can't be bothered listing it I can't be bothered asking him.

Edited February 12, 2021 by Epigonos