Are you expect to sleep well for an overnight service?

[Armann]

That is an interesting viewpoint. I usually do overnights in a hotel of my choosing but is sort of neutral ground to both myself and the escort. I discuss the hotel with him before booking to make sure it is ok with him. I would be happy to stay in the escort’s hotel room if I approved of the hotel. It sounds like you stay in nice hotels. One question. do you assume the cost of the room or add it to your fee? I pay for the room, dinners, breakfasts etc and the escort charges me a flat fee.

 

I do assume the cost of the hotel, the clients pays for dinner.

[Rod Hagen]

Thanks Rod, for taking me back to the good ole days, when this level of customer service was common. I had 10+ years of overnights and weekends that were alot like this agenda. But in 2020.........this is anathema to the current crop of younglings.

 

You are very welcome. I remember fondly the 2 hour fun you and I had.

 

I am very sorry to hear that. I'm not surprised. Young people, never my favorite group, are intolerable to me now. I am sympathetic to those men compelled to be in their company.

 

JJTech, I just clicked on your blog, haven't looked at if for some time. Your 9/13/2019 post, "So, What’s Changed In 20 Years?" is right on, the money, as it were. [MEDIA=tumblr]jawjateck.tumblr.com/post/187686337667[/MEDIA]

 

P.S. whoever it was classifying my above post as "verbose", I got one finger for you. That concise enough?

Edited August 26, 2020 by Rod Hagen

[Luv2play]

I do assume the cost of the hotel, the clients pays for dinner.

I understand. You are offering a package deal to selected clients you know. I am sure they are happy with the arrangements or you wouldn’t be doing the business.

[Rod Hagen]

One question... A million different nuanced replies.

 

It's been said again and again (and again): Directly communicate your needs with the escort.

 

ok, communication. But, also, standards and reasonable expectations too.

[jawjateck]

You are very welcome. I remember fondly the 2 hour fun you and I had.

Well, when I leave the calm of my country hideaway and start traveling again, we mature gentlemen will need to re-connect and re-kindle those prior flames.

 

Thinking back, our meeting was probably 11 or 12 years ago. It is amazing how well I can remember the details of the good ones. The rest just become a blur.

[Dirks]

Knock on the door, on time. Walk in.

 

1. meet and greet and kiss deep and fuck around.

2. Rest and talk and kiss and cuddle.

3. fuck around. Shower together.

4. dinner and convo

5. fuck around again then either

Bath together or it's also fun to mess around in the empty hotel pool at night.

then fuck around again.

6. Maybe another shower together. Get ready together, like a long term couple, for bed.

7. Cuddle tight and Sleep.

8. Fuck around in the middle of the night.

9. Cuddle Tight and Sleep.

10. Wake up blowjobs all around.

11. Coffee and cuddling in bed.

12. Morning fuck around.

13. Breakfast in the room, each with one hand on the other's bits

14. As much fucking around as you can handle post, burp, breakfast.

15. Shower together again.

16. Fish out the dicks from the pants for one more blowjob at the door.

17. Kiss his forehead, kiss his hand. Make out deep. Grab his hand and thank him for a wonderful night looking right at him. One more deep kiss. Leave the hotel room.

 

 

 

 

Five minutes later, knock on the door because you forgot the money. Kiss again. Say goodbye.

 

Now, that's an unplanned overnight.

Perfect, just perfect! ?

[wklukas]

It is amazing how well I can remember the details of the good ones. The rest just become a blur.

 

One of my best....unusual for me but I arranged an overnite at his place for our first meeting —

good looking, 33 / 34 yrs old, blonde hair, 6’3” / 210 / hairy bod / top....”retired” semi-pro baseball player....

I drove down from San Francisco to his place in San Luis Obispo....

I probably arrived around 3pm....we briefly chat & then pretty soon get it on in bed....

probably around 6pm, we showered & went out for some dinner....

back at his place about 90 minutes later.....

we probably chatted for a short while before heading back into the bedroom....

once we were naked again & mostly settled in for whatever the nite was going to be about,

he‘s the guy who tells me that he is there to be “used & abused”.....

including the morning play before I hit the road, he topped me 5 times....

& we each shot our loads each time....

a long time ago.....a ridiculously low “donation” that he requested.

[big-n-tall]

I think overnights or extended meetings are very dependent on chemistry, communication, and how much each person can handle or not handle particular situations.

 

I don’t need a lot of sleep to function normally, but most people do. So I know there is a limitation there with most providers. I think there are only 2 guys who were willing to forego their regular sleeping time for sex. One I met, the other I didn’t. The one I met was relatively early on in my hiring career so I wasn’t sure what to expect, but he said flat out he was perfectly willing to stay in the hotel all weekend and have as much sex as I wanted. We did have a lot of sex but we did other things outside the bedroom. We live on the opposite ends of the country and he hates flying and the pandemic worsened the matter. So one day I plan to take him up on that offer of a sex marathon. I don’t know if I could keep up with him as I did when first meet, but I’m going to definitely try. Lol!

 

The other man I didn’t meet, but as we talked about expectations, literally told me he wouldn’t let me sleep. That he’d play with my dick all night. I don’t know if that was all hyperbole, but I was game. There were scheduling issues. So the meeting never took place. He isn’t currently advertising but we’ve been in touch and he still wants to meet.

 

If there is a lot of deep passionate kissing and my partner is responsive to whatever I do to him, I can go at it back to back. I have a quick recovery time and sometimes I will even stay aroused after orgasm. Although my stamina isn’t what used to be. I need a break sometimes. ? The guy I see the most needs at least 6 hours of sleep 8 preferably. He’ll sometimes sleep less if the mood takes him. However, he says he can’t take my dick but x number of times, as I leave him sore. The most we’ve had sex was 4 times during an overnight. We average 3 times... when we first meet, sometime after dinner or whatever (we’re doing outside of sex) before bed and once in the morning. Morning sex is his favorite and he loves that I wake him up with a dick in his butt. Lol!

 

Overnights are not not always about sleeping with the provider, depending on the provider. For some having access to a sex partner for 12 hours or more is what they want. Yet for some others, just having someone to (temporarily) cuddle up next to while you sleep plays a big role in the whole event.

[down_to_business]

Had some of the best nights sleep ever with my favorite escort. This wasn't always the case with some other escorts. I must agree that chemistry plays a huge part... but I try not to do extended/overnights with people I don't have good chemistry with. It's also why I always try to have my first meeting with an escort for 1 hour.

[orville]

Are you expected to sleep well for an overnight service?

I don't.

What is an overnight service like?

Every single time has always been different for me.

I've only done O.N. with providers I've liked in 1-to-2h sessions, so during an ON they take the lead and I just let our chemistry do the rest.

It can be non-stop wild sex or more BFE but I know in the end they will never fail me.

If you have a provider you liked for 1h session but don't have experience with ONs, talk to the provider as others suggested.

Are you the provider expected to have a good sleep with the client?

I'm not a provider but I know they didn't sleep well either.

Edited August 29, 2020 by orville

[Daverwr]

Knock on the door, on time. Walk in.

 

1. meet and greet and kiss deep and fuck around.

2. Rest and talk and kiss and cuddle.

3. fuck around. Shower together.

4. dinner and convo

5. fuck around again then either

Bath together or it's also fun to mess around in the empty hotel pool at night.

then fuck around again.

6. Maybe another shower together. Get ready together, like a long term couple, for bed.

7. Cuddle tight and Sleep.

8. Fuck around in the middle of the night.

9. Cuddle Tight and Sleep.

10. Wake up blowjobs all around.

11. Coffee and cuddling in bed.

12. Morning fuck around.

13. Breakfast in the room, each with one hand on the other's bits

14. As much fucking around as you can handle post, burp, breakfast.

15. Shower together again.

16. Fish out the dicks from the pants for one more blowjob at the door.

17. Kiss his forehead, kiss his hand. Make out deep. Grab his hand and thank him for a wonderful night looking right at him. One more deep kiss. Leave the hotel room.

 

 

 

 

Five minutes later, knock on the door because you forgot the money. Kiss again. Say goodbye.

 

Now, that's an unplanned overnight.

Oh, man. With an agenda like that I’d imagine you are fully booked for overnights. I’m exhausted just reading it. And enticed! Once it’s safe and you are working again, I think I need to make my way to LA. Or, maybe during the PS retreat. ?

[Rod Hagen]

Oh, man. With an agenda like that I’d imagine you are fully booked for overnights. I’m exhausted just reading it. And enticed! Once it’s safe and you are working again, I think I need to make my way to LA. Or, maybe during the PS retreat. ?

 

Thank you :-) Actually, I haven't done overnights in a very very long time. Boyfriend put his foot down. Oh well. So since then I do my best to make an hour or two or three or four! feel like an overnight :-)

[Pittlookalike]

Ive only hired masseurs. What’s the going rate in la for a good escort?

[+ Coolwave35]

When I engage in overnights it is always when I travel with the exception of one provider.

 

I can’t sleep well next to someone other than my husband so I either get a two room suite where I can lock my door, or an entirely separate room nearby for them that I negotiate what my access to the room will look like. Can I enter unannounced in the middle of the night for fun, do I have to ring the phone first, should I wait until morning, would I like them to have a guest I can also enjoy etc. I find that as long as this is all communicated in advance, the overnights are awesome.

 

I have a very real fear of being murdered in my sleep (so dumb I know) so I can’t sleep next to someone.

[Islesguy]

My only ever overnight was in Bali , with a well reviewed international escort.

 

his hourly rate was quite high, I don’t like to rush so was thinking 3 hrs, he wanted to talk so phones me, he up sold me to an overnight .

 

he did stipulate 14 hrs and at least 4 hrs sleep.

 

he was late for our 8 pm but kept me informed.

I had rented a one bedroom villa with pool for the night with an outdoor living area and outdoor kitchen.

 

he arrived we had some good scotch, had some play, ordered food, in a tropical rain storm. Had more play.

drank more scotch and smoked cigars I had with me,it was fun hanging out and chatting in the moonlight .

we went to bed had more fun slept and in the morning had more fun and a relaxed time before he headed off.

 

blew my budget by remains a memorable night

When I was planning a trip to London, I reached to an escort that I had been lusting after for a while who lived there. I was also only planning to hire him for a couple of hours but after a couple of text conversations he asked if I would prefer to hire him for a longer period of time. While I was nervous about it, I agreed. Smart move on my part. Now I am just waiting for this damn pandemic to end so I can travel back there for another round.

[xyz48B]

The last overnight I had (3 nights), we both slept great each night. I actually woke more rested than I had in a long while, and earlier too. The final night we overslept and he almost missed his train home...But all in all, worth it. I value sleep and I like a guy in bed with me, so the idea of not sleeping on an overnight seems foreign to me.