+ nycman Posted February 14, 2020 Share Posted February 14, 2020 I almost fell for two Grindr scams yesterday. Thankfully, the little voice in my big head remembered this thread and overrode the big voice in my little head...for once. Thanks for saving me! lonely_john, Pd1_jap, MikeBiDude and 2 others 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twinkboylover28 Posted February 16, 2020 Share Posted February 16, 2020 Grindr is just a bunch of frustrated queens looking for pretty people only? What's wrong with wanting to have sex with good looking people only? Jeffster 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ WilliamM Posted February 23, 2020 Share Posted February 23, 2020 What's wrong with wanting to have sex with good looking people only? It isn't realistic, I think. lonely_john and Sensualsmooth 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twinkboylover28 Posted February 23, 2020 Share Posted February 23, 2020 It isn't realistic, I think. Yeah ..if you're an escort. Like most people, I only have sex with someone I'm attracted to. Screwing anything with a pulse is nasty in my opinion. pubic_assistance and Jeffster 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonely_john Posted February 23, 2020 Share Posted February 23, 2020 Yeah ..if you're an escort. Like most people, I only have sex with someone I'm attracted to. Screwing anything with a pulse is nasty in my opinion. Until you are rated by someone else as that “anything with a pulse”. And that rate could easily come from a Grindr user or an escort who thinks you are not up to his standards for a client. You don’t even sound like a client. When was that common sense, compassion, respect and consideration for others became scarce human qualities? + quoththeraven 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twinkboylover28 Posted February 23, 2020 Share Posted February 23, 2020 Until you are rated by someone else as that “anything with a pulse”. And that rate could easily come from a Grindr user or an escort who thinks you are not up to his standards for a client. You don’t even sound like a client. When was that common sense, compassion, respect and consideration for others became scarce human qualities? What?? If someone doesn't find me attractive and/or doesn't want to have sex with me and/or puts me in the "anything with a pulse category" then I simply MOVE ON to the NEXT!!! There are plenty of twinks in the sea. I'm not going to apologize for the universal concept, and biological basic common sense need, of needing to be attracted to someone before I screw them. That's why bees are attracted to the flower, etc. etc. etc. To bring it down to this level, that's precisely why people on Grindr say "no pic = no chat". You act amazed, and you actually said that most people on Grindr just want to screw "pretty" people." What's wrong with that? In that case, why not just put a paper bag over some ugly person's head in the nursing home, or a barnyard animal for that matter, and have at it? Yes, that's a vivid scenario but I'm making my point. Any thing "warm and with a pulse" is good enough for you? Do you really want to be charity or pity-f***ed>? FewBricksShy, pubic_assistance and Jeffster 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonely_john Posted February 23, 2020 Share Posted February 23, 2020 (edited) What?? If someone doesn't find me attractive and/or doesn't want to have sex with me and/or puts me in the "anything with a pulse category" then I simply MOVE ON to the NEXT!!! There are plenty of twinks in the sea. I'm not going to apologize for the universal concept, and biological basic common sense need, of needing to be attracted to someone before I screw them. That's why bees are attracted to the flower, etc. etc. etc. To bring it down to this level, that's precisely why people on Grindr say "no pic = no chat". You act amazed, and you actually said that most people on Grindr just want to screw "pretty" people." What's wrong with that? In that case, why not just put a paper bag over some ugly person's head in the nursing home, or a barnyard animal for that matter, and have at it? Yes, that's a vivid scenario but I'm making my point. Any thing "warm and with a pulse" is good enough for you? Do you really want to be charity or pity-f***ed>? You are clearly one of those who come here only to antagonize just because you have too much free time. Know that I won’t engage in the stupid games of your twisted mind. You are free to feel miserable yourself, alone. Byeeeeee... Edited February 24, 2020 by lonely_john Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twinkboylover28 Posted February 24, 2020 Share Posted February 24, 2020 (edited) You are clearly one of those who comes here only to antagonize just because you have too much free time. Know that I won’t engage in the stupid games of your twisted mind. You are free to feel miserable yourself, alone. Byeeeeee... I'm not the one with the screen name "Lonely John." As this is a forum on renting gay men, let me put it this way. .. nobody pays to rent a middle-aged balding obese guy no matter how great a personality he may have. If you feel people who disagree with your point of view are "less than" , and only here to "antagonize" you or have a "twisted mind" then you're the sad one. There's a reason people purchase beautiful fantastic pieces of art in art galleries... The same goes for sex and dating. Wars have been fought over sex and love over a beautiful woman...never over a fat chick. Best wishes. Edited February 24, 2020 by twinkboylover28 Pd1_jap, Jeffster and pubic_assistance 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hypothetically Posted February 24, 2020 Share Posted February 24, 2020 nobody pays to rent a middle-aged balding obese guy ...you'd be surprised. "Adonis" isn't everyone's jam, my friend. The ole' average Joe Blos' from around the way are just as profitable/marketable as the meticulously pieced together escort because they are less intimidating and have less attitude. Ask the forum. fedssocr1 and MikeBiDude 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twinkboylover28 Posted February 24, 2020 Share Posted February 24, 2020 ...you'd be surprised. "Adonis" isn't everyone's jam, my friend. The ole' average Joe Blos' from around the way are just as profitable/marketable as the meticulously pieced together escort because they are less intimidating and have less attitude. Ask the forum. Oh please!!!! Yes! Let's ask!! People are lining up to rent John Candy and John Goodman types. Chubby chasers are the exception, not the norm. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hypothetically Posted February 24, 2020 Share Posted February 24, 2020 Oh please!!!! Yes! Let's ask!! People are lining up to rent John Candy and John Goodman types. Chubby chasers are the exception, not the norm. "Sure." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sutherland Posted November 24, 2021 Share Posted November 24, 2021 I just tried grindr for the first time and got stung. I knew to ignore the 20-something bodybuilders (why would they be interested in me?) so I started to communicate with a 57-year old. The morning we were to meet I asked him to please verify that there would be no exchange of cash and we were meeting for mutual pleasure. He wrote back that he did expect payment. I lost interest. OUCH !!!! He threatened me. I would expect this from a young hustler but, come on, a man in his 50s ? Luckily there is no way for him to find me since I did not give my contact info. + Vegas_Millennial, twinkboylover28 and jtwalker 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jtwalker Posted November 24, 2021 Share Posted November 24, 2021 52 minutes ago, sutherland said: I just tried grindr for the first time and got stung. I knew to ignore the 20-something bodybuilders (why would they be interested in me?) so I started to communicate with a 57-year old. The morning we were to meet I asked him to please verify that there would be no exchange of cash and we were meeting for mutual pleasure. He wrote back that he did expect payment. I lost interest. OUCH !!!! He threatened me. I would expect this from a young hustler but, come on, a man in his 50s ? Luckily there is no way for him to find me since I did not give my contact info. This hobby is risky enough without throwing grindr into the mix. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sutherland Posted November 24, 2021 Share Posted November 24, 2021 9 hours ago, jtwalker said: This hobby is risky enough without throwing grindr into the mix. Yes, speaking of grindr in a grindr topic is so gauche. + Coolwave35 and Pd1_jap 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thedanNYC Posted November 24, 2021 Share Posted November 24, 2021 13 hours ago, sutherland said: I just tried grindr for the first time and got stung. I knew to ignore the 20-something bodybuilders (why would they be interested in me?) so I started to communicate with a 57-year old. The morning we were to meet I asked him to please verify that there would be no exchange of cash and we were meeting for mutual pleasure. He wrote back that he did expect payment. I lost interest. OUCH !!!! He threatened me. I would expect this from a young hustler but, come on, a man in his 50s ? Luckily there is no way for him to find me since I did not give my contact info. Did you message someone who was clearly an escort? Or whose profile said he wanted to meed for $ex? Or something along those lines? I'm thinking you might have missed an early warning sign here. I've never met up/come across a non-escort Grindr dude who expected payment for hooking up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sutherland Posted November 24, 2021 Share Posted November 24, 2021 8 hours ago, thedanNYC said: Did you message someone who was clearly an escort? Or whose profile said he wanted to meed for $ex? Or something along those lines? No, there was no indication in his ad that he was an escort. I specifically chose him because, being in his mid-50s, I thought he was past the hustling age Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gadfly22 Posted November 26, 2021 Share Posted November 26, 2021 Is turkey an aphrodisiac or are the scammers out in force? My Grindr is chiming off the hook this morning! 😝 + FrankR 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted November 26, 2021 Share Posted November 26, 2021 9 minutes ago, Gadfly22 said: Is turkey an aphrodisiac or are the scammers out in force? My Grindr is chiming off the hook this morning! 😝 Maybe they aren’t all scammers? I see a local uptick in activity during a holiday weekend - travelers, college students home for the holiday weekend etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DickHunter Posted July 12, 2022 Share Posted July 12, 2022 I've had some luck on Grindr, but mostly when I travel. I seem to live in a sex desert. But the newest scam I'm encountering are these hot Asian guys. They usually have several professional quality photos and one of them is either the guy with a puppy or with a fancy car. Recently, one sent me a message that said, "May the fusion of you and me rub out a thick fragrance." - his profile said "You are like chocolate in my mouth, melted by my enthusiasm." Quite poetic. Too bad he wasn't real. Most of them are looking for love, friendship and a long term relationship. They've never stuck with me long enough to get to the scam they're playing. Usually I tell them I work for the FBI in the Internet Fraud division and they block me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheBx Posted July 14, 2022 Share Posted July 14, 2022 On 2/3/2020 at 6:54 PM, Alfstoria said: I had met twice two cute boys that were traveling and were looking for a Gen. Out of 4 times, two were great (one amazing Welsh pocket man and one Argentinean) So today in midtown, this gorgeous boy sent me a abs pic and this text: " ok man if you are interested.I need you to book me first so I can be sure you wont flake me or waste my time, don't worry for booking your reservation it's only for 1$ and my rate is just 45$ since im just a beginner and still learning, well i'm also looking for pleasure so if youre interested let me know and I'll send you where to book me." Like I was born yesterday, such a shame, he was so hot ; ( PS: He keeps writing me and send me nudes. I dont have the heart to block him, yet ? Enjoy the stream of photos. The pre-clearance scam is rampant on gRindr it’s probably a fat old lady bolstering her ss checks. LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FewBricksShy Posted July 14, 2022 Share Posted July 14, 2022 My. I lead a boring life. No one ever messages me on Grindr. I feel sort of shorted! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
menaughty Posted July 14, 2022 Share Posted July 14, 2022 I almost got scammed on Grindr. Suprisingly it is a popular scam but I had no idea. A very good looking guy (in the pic) contacted me saying he is arranging an orgy. He asked for my email to send the details and stupid me sent my email. Then he asks you to pay on some cam website and I was like waittt..this seems fishy. I search on google about this and there are multiple discussions about this on reddit 😅 Pd1_jap 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exploritor Posted September 29, 2022 Share Posted September 29, 2022 The thing where they're 1-10 feet away, happens to me a lot in hotels. If they're close enough, I sometimes jokingly ask them if they're hiding under my bed. It's a fun icebreaker. For me, I usually block if we've been chatting for a while, and then they spring on me that they charge. There have been a few guys that I thought about offering to pay, to possibly change their minds, but it's otherwise always been free for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted September 29, 2022 Share Posted September 29, 2022 On 11/23/2021 at 7:35 PM, sutherland said: He wrote back that he did expect payment. I lost interest. OUCH !!!! I have always said: "If it weren't for prostitution, ugly people would never get laid". sincitymix 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jtwalker Posted October 2, 2022 Share Posted October 2, 2022 On 7/13/2022 at 11:06 PM, FewBricksShy said: My. I lead a boring life. No one ever messages me on Grindr. I feel sort of shorted! Why not message them? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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