Grindr scams?

[Pd1_jap]

On 2/15/2020 at 8:30 PM, twinkboylover28 said:

What's wrong with wanting to have sex with good looking people only?

One day, every single person on the planet, will fall out of that category. I like to give a pity fuck every once in a while. It really brightens their day! 

Note: never expect some kind of karmic pity fuck from those outside our reach.

 

On 2/23/2020 at 5:39 PM, twinkboylover28 said:

As this is a forum on renting gay men, let me put it this way. .. nobody pays to rent a middle-aged balding obese guy no matter how great a personality he may have.

Factually untrue. I'm middle aged, chubby(technically obese, 30 lbs over my BMI), and I'm bald. And yet every once in a while I'll get propositioned. Not saying it happens all the time but it does happen. Maybe cause I'm 6' tall? 🤷

 

On 7/13/2022 at 10:27 PM, menaughty said:

I almost got scammed on Grindr. Suprisingly it is a popular scam but I had no idea.

A very good looking guy (in the pic) contacted me saying he is arranging an orgy. He asked for my email to send the details and stupid me sent my email. Then he asks you to pay on some cam website and I was like waittt..this seems fishy.

I search on google about this and there are multiple discussions about this on reddit 😅 

I just had this happen to me after recently signing up for Grindr after a three year hiatus. Fortunately I did not fall for it. 

[pubic_assistance]

5 hours ago, Pd1_jap said:

Factually untrue. I'm middle aged, chubby(technically obese, 30 lbs over my BMI), and I'm bald. And yet every once in a while I'll get propositioned

"Proposotioned" by WHAT ?

 

[Pd1_jap]

2 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

"Proposotioned" by WHAT ?

 

Is your ego so fragile that you can't fathom that others don't share the same world view as you? Mostly it's been men in their golden years. A couple of times it's been younger guys, daddy issues maybe. But also, what the ideal body type is, changes over time. 

Don't get mad that you're no longer in fashion. 

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The long and the short of it, I'd rather hire an affable escort with good social skills and no drug/klepto tendencies than a muscle bound shit bag that's gonna steal from me. 

Your insecurity is showing. You may want to talk to a therapist as to why you want to bring everyone down to make yourself feel better.

Tchüss 😘

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[pubic_assistance]

6 hours ago, Pd1_jap said:

Is your ego so fragile that you can't fathom that others don't share the same world view as you ?

I am very well aware.

I don't understand your ranting about "my insecurities"

I simply asked what kind of people are hitting you up.

Inquiring minds want to know.

As I got older, the types of people who would hit me up changed. I can't get just anything I want anymore. That's why I hire from time to time.

Mostly I get Latino twink.boys and 30ish Asian chicks. Neither are interesting to me.

 

 

[Pd1_jap]

1 hour ago, pubic_assistance said:

I am very well aware.

I don't understand your ranting about "my insecurities"

I simply asked what kind of people are hitting you up.

Inquiring minds want to know.

As I got older, the types of people who would hit me up changed. I can't get just anything I want anymore. That's why I hire from time to time.

Mostly I get Latino twink.boys and 30ish Asian chicks. Neither are interesting to me.

 

 

Perhaps this might be a language barrier. Where I'm from calling a person a "what" seems degrading.

[Marc in Calif]

1 hour ago, pubic_assistance said:

I simply asked what kind of people are hitting you up.

Your attempt at spinning is hilarious! 🤣

What you actually wrote is this: "Proposotioned" [sic] by WHAT ?

By using the word what and emphasizing it in all-caps, you literally implied that @Pd1_jap couldn't have been hit on by a human being. Why didn't you ask, "Propositioned by who(m), may I ask?" or, even better, "Propositioned by what types of guys? I'm curious."

Yet you deliberately chose to use WHAT by itself. You didn't ask "what kind of people."

Edited November 20, 2023 by Marc in Calif

[pubic_assistance]

Thanks for the cheap psychoanalysis @Marc in Calif

I recommend you stick to your day job.

@Pd1_jap No..I meant WHAT..as in what kinds of people. Not a list of "who".

Ignore the bizarre interpretation above.

[Pd1_jap]

18 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

Thanks for the cheap psychoanalysis @Marc in Calif

I recommend you stick to your day job.

@Pd1_jap No..I meant WHAT..as in what kinds of people. Not a list of "who".

Ignore the bizarre interpretation above.

I very much read it the way Marc described it. I understand this is an Internet forum and not the library of Congress so I'm not gonna over think it. I would suggest reading a loud to hear what your posts sounds like to others.

On another note:

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Not all of us have an inner monologue. Isn't that fascinating?

 

[pubic_assistance]

1 hour ago, Pd1_jap said:

I very much read it the way Marc described it.

My inner monologue heard it differently when I wrote it and hears it the same way when I read it.

Probably a cultural difference, as you stated.

Sorry if you were offended. It wasn't my intention.

Now let's get to the important business...WHAT "kinds of people" are you attracting as a middle aged, slightly overweight, bald, gay man ?

I am early 50s, fit and not balding and the mere inclusion of "over 50" takes me out of the formula for many younger gay guys and sadly MOST of the gay guys who I, personally am attracted to. Once in a while I get a 🦄 unicorn popping up in my Grindr who's young, fit and genuinely interested in the "dominant daddy" scene.  But most of the real beauties who hit me up on Grindr are definitely trying to  scam me for some cash.

[Pd1_jap]

32 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

Now let's get to the important business...WHAT "kinds of people" are you attracting as a middle aged, slightly overweight, bald, gay man ?

 

On 11/19/2023 at 9:29 AM, Pd1_jap said:

Mostly it's been men in their golden years. A couple of times it's been younger guys, daddy issues maybe. 

 

[pubic_assistance]

1 minute ago, Pd1_jap said:

A couple of times it's been younger guys, daddy issues maybe. 

I get a lot of young Latino twinks.with daddy issues.

Apparently I am the hottest thing on the planet for 30-something Asian chicks.My friends find it hysterical, because every time I am out at a bar with my them and my wife doesn't join us, I end up with some drunk and horny Asian chick telling me I have the most beautiful eyes, and why don't I take her home tonight.

[Pd1_jap]

One last note, back in my younger years I was working out religiously and even had a six pack for a short time. I found that many guys simply wouldn't approach me and because I was in the gym most of the time I never had time to cruise. So maybe workout less and socialize more?

[pubic_assistance]

13 minutes ago, Pd1_jap said:

because I was in the gym most of the time I never had time to cruise.

Jeezus man. When I was younger (and single) I rarely left the gym alone. That was better hunting grounds than a gay bar. Of course thst was pre-Grindr. Now they all have their head buried in their phone.

Chris Evans could be at their gym and they wouldn't notice.

Edited November 21, 2023 by pubic_assistance
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