What’s a reasonable price to fly a provider from LA to DC for an overnight?

[Yeahman]

I haven’t done this before, but I am interested in flying a provider from LA to DC for an overnight fun. Not sure how much is considered a reasonable price. What’s your quote?

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Considering you're going to get a wide variety of answers here from non-escorts, why not just discuss this with the guy you're considering seeing?

 

Skip the middleman and have a conversation with the escort. It's the best way to start things off.

[Yeahman]

Considering you're going to get a wide variety of answers here from non-escorts, why not just discuss this with the guy you're considering seeing?

 

Skip the middleman and have a conversation with the escort. It's the best way to start things off.

I agree, but I feel that the provider is reluctant to give me a quote. I asked him but got no response.

[+ OliverSaks]

1000-1500 plus expenses is pretty reasonable, could be higher with a more popular guy

 

might sweeten the deal with a hotel for an extra night or two so that he may work in DC (which has traditionally been a pretty busy city)

 

lots of factors to consider but since you’ve listed little about him, that’s my best guess

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

I agree, but I feel that the provider is reluctant to give me a quote. I asked him but got no response.

 

If he's making it tough to get paid, he's doing it entirely wrong. Sorry you're dealing with that.

 

You could speak plainly and say 'without first settling on a rate, I don't feel comfortable moving forward.'

[+ DERRIK]

I have flown escorts to Vegas and elsewhere. I come up with a ball park for airfare and agree on a rate for his time. Once we come to agreement we confirm the date and I send him airfare. Its his job to make reservations and confirm. This gets me out of the BS of his real name for reservations. It also gives him to option to pocket the cash and use his frequent miles to travel -- it none of my business which he does. Plus is a little too much micro management for me to buy the ticket directly. Once we meet up - the transaction for his time is handled in the usual manner.

 

Obviously i only do this with known providers. I guess I've done this 10 times in last 5 years - not been burned yet.

[big-n-tall]

I've paid as little as 500 and as much as 1600, not including travel. It depends on the escort's rates and how much the travel costs are.

 

As Mr. Nicholas suggested, you should talk to the provider about the trip.

 

I say if the provider is being coy about his rate, maybe it's time to move on.

[+ OliverSaks]

I can understand the impulse to assume the worst about a companion, but maybe it’s just someone without much experience with this sort of an travel arrangement / someone relatively new to the werqin’ world.

 

on the other side, I try to give guys hiring me the benefit of the doubt because it can be a nerve wracking thing for newbies to “take the plunge” - call me naïve maybe, but it’s served me well not always assuming the worst in people

 

 

I've paid as little as 500 and as much as 1600, not including travel. It depends on the escort's rates and how much the travel costs are.

 

As Mr. Nicholas suggested, you should talk to the provider about the trip.

 

I say if the provider is being coy about his rate, maybe it's time to move on.

[big-n-tall]

I can understand the impulse to assume the worst about a companion, but maybe it’s just someone without much experience with this sort of an travel arrangement / someone relatively new to the werqin’ world.

 

on the other side, I try to give guys hiring me the benefit of the doubt because it can be a nerve wracking thing for newbies to “take the plunge” - call me naïve maybe, but it’s served me well not always assuming the worst in people

 

I’m not sure you are talking generally or directing your comments at me but since you responded to my post, I’ll ask... .How am I assuming the worse in someone? That is your particular assumption, not mine.

 

If you’re not getting the answers you want and keep trying, at some point, to me it’s an exercise in futility. You either run around in circles or do something else. It’s not about thinking the worst about the provider. Far from it. However, if someone I'm trying to see is being coy about their rates, no matter how many times I broach the subject... there is only but so much of that I’m going to put up with. I don’t take it personally, but I will start looking elsewhere.

 

I’ve met many wonderful providers that I’ve brought to me from other areas. They all were straight forward in responding and answering basic questions. Not one of them had any issues about their rate or discussing it.

[+ OliverSaks]

Yes, I was directing that at you @big-n-tall

 

I’m just saying that it is possible to misread someone “playing coy” with actual, genuine uncertainty about how to handle a situation like the one stated by the OP. You’re obviously free to move on if you feel like it is a game, I wouldn’t blame you. But just from reading posts from certain people handling experiences with newer talent (@Keith30309 comes to my mind), I would suspect that you’ll miss out on some gems if you “assume the worst.”

[+ Pensant]

You could take the initiative and simply tell him what your overnight rate is and go from there. If that doesn’t elicit a response, then it’s definitely time to move on.

[+ VictorPowers]

Your guy should give some sort of reply. If not, it doesn’t sound like he’s interested.

[+ peterhung85]

I haven’t done this before, but I am interested in flying a provider from LA to DC for an overnight fun. Not sure how much is considered a reasonable price. What’s your quote?

Did your guy respond?

Edited January 14, 2020 by peterhung85

[+ sniper]

I would think given the lenght of flight even if it's just am overnight with you he should get his 24 hour rate because that's how much of his time is involved. Maybe suggest that -you pay his airfare plus whatever his standard 24 hour rate is.

[BaronArtz]

I agree, but I feel that the provider is reluctant to give me a quote. I asked him but got no response.

 

No response? That is not a good start … Are you sure you want to meet this guy?

 

I would be inclined to think his normal overnight rate, reasonable compensation for his travel time and of course plane ticket.

[Guest davebk]

I've found that flying in for a meeting is sometimes not a common practice for certain guys, and that some might feel it is just a big hassle and not worth it. I'd look for guys that do it more regularly, are comfortable with frequent travel, and have a clear system for flying in for an overnight.

 

Lots of guys specifically post in their ads that they'll travel anywhere, and you can see from their posted travel dates if they are up for the travel grind (or even really enjoy it, with guys like @Benjamin_Nicholas). Those guys are going to be much more likely to have a set, consistent price.

[Shawn Monroe]

I wouldn’t necessarily take no response as not a good sign. Ya may just need to nudge him a bit and show that you’re real and actually serious.

 

A lot of times we get fake requests for weekend trips or overnights from a lot of different sources. Or people think they’re interested in overnight but change their mind when they hear the cost.

 

So for sanity’s sake, we (or at least I) just ignore a lot of these messages.

But last year I DID end up having an overnight / extended trip that DID initially read like one of the fake messages. It wasn’t until we had some actual conversation that I realized he was real and actually serious.

 

And it was a good time!

[Yeahman]

I wouldn’t necessarily take no response as not a good sign. Ya may just need to nudge him a bit and show that you’re real and actually serious.

 

A lot of times we get fake requests for weekend trips or overnights from a lot of different sources. Or people think they’re interested in overnight but change their mind when they hear the cost.

 

So for sanity’s sake, we (or at least I) just ignore a lot of these messages.

But last year I DID end up having an overnight / extended trip that DID initially read like one of the fake messages. It wasn’t until we had some actual conversation that I realized he was real and actually serious.

 

And it was a good time!

 

I agree, not responding does not necessarily mean no interest. What's an overnight like?

 

The client and the provider have some hot actions for a couple of hours then what? Just cuddle and fall asleep until the next morning when the provider leaves? I am seriously trying to figure out (so I can be prepared if I end up having an overnight) as I have never had an overnight.

[liubit]

I agree, not responding does not necessarily mean no interest. What's an overnight like?

 

The client and the provider have some hot actions for a couple of hours then what? Just cuddle and fall asleep until the next morning when the provider leaves? I am seriously trying to figure out (so I can be prepared if I end up having an overnight) as I have never had an overnight.

Overnights come in more flavors than Baskin Robbins, a lot more. There are many threads about them in the forum where you can find some answers, but the bottom line is “communication, communication, communication“. Only you and your escort can set the terms.

[HotWhiteThirties]

I agree, not responding does not necessarily mean no interest. What's an overnight like?

 

The client and the provider have some hot actions for a couple of hours then what? Just cuddle and fall asleep until the next morning when the provider leaves? I am seriously trying to figure out (so I can be prepared if I end up having an overnight) as I have never had an overnight.

 

From personal experience, plenty can happen and it can be wonderful. As someone else said it depends on the parties involved and their communication and interests....and your’s and your partner’s stamina. ? The removal of a “time clock” is one thing I like.

Since my ability to hire is infrequent, overnights are my preferred way to spend time. I can say I’ve never been bored! ?