What’s the best sequence?

[+ 7829V]

Assuming the escort bottoms... and the client tops.

 

Do escorts prefer to have dinner first or sex should come first? And if the session is an overnight do escorts feel comfortable bottoming even after dinner?

 

I don’t care about accidents. But I also want to be sensible and know what the escort prefers.

[Kevin Slater]

Probably best to ask the escort in question as I doubt there's a standard answer.

 

Kevin Slater

[+ Steve yabsley]

Assuming the escort bottoms... and the client tops.

 

Do escorts prefer to have dinner first or sex should come first? And if the session is an overnight do escorts feel comfortable bottoming even after dinner?

 

I don’t care about accidents. But I also want to be sensible and know what the escort prefers.

 

Probably best to ask the escort in question as I doubt there's a standard answer.

 

Kevin Slater

 

great question, and great answer. For me (not a provider, but a consumer if services) I like some oral appetizers before dinner and the main course after. A little warm up, time to relax and get to know each other, and then the main event(s). But as @Kevin Slater says, everyone may have different preferences - asking is always wise.

steve

[MscleLovr]

As a top, it’s always sex before dinner. I find the cardio gives me an appetite. The bottoms I’ve dated always preferred it too.

 

With overnight dates, I find some bottoms are happy to be topped again after dinner while a few want to douche first. If the bottom doesn’t want to get topped again, I’m always happy to receive full oral service before sleeping. And on waking, it was pretty much 50:50 whether the bottom wanted to be topped or just to give me oral to completion; either way, I‘m happy.

[+ poolboy48220]

Dan Savage has recommended "Fuck First" for years.

[down_to_business]

The last thing I want to do before bottoming is go out and eat dinner!

[jgoo]

Really interesting question and one I've never really considered before, with regards to what the escort might prefer. For longer appointments I've always suggested that we have dinner first. In all the many years of hiring not one has suggested sex first.

 

For myself, part of the whole experience is the anticipation of what is to come and I really enjoy the build up of anticipation from initial greeting through dinner until back in the room. And quite frankly, I am usually spent after the sex so it works out great for me not having to go out for a dinner.

[+ Steve yabsley]

Maybe I’ll have to go for sex first, dinner second, sex third......that way there’s a rush of the initial encounter, relaxing and talking (with anticipation of more), and then.....well, more ?.

I’ll have to try that pattern next time.......