Which one do you prefer?

[MscleLovr]

Interesting thread, especially the replies from clients.

 

Some years back, I discussed this topic with a provider with whom I’d become friends. He was mid-20s, handsome face with a great physique, and I can vouch for his versatility and uninhibited skill in bed. He was also a nice guy who had been well educated and could converse on a range of topics. He’d become an escort on retiring from being a ballet dancer as he needed to supplement his income.

 

Despite all the advantages he possessed, he lamented to me how many men dated him once but did not repeat. He felt that clients just preferred novelty, to date a new face/new body every time. He expressed his surprise as on entering the business, he’d felt that he could be a high-end provider able to service well a few regular clients.

[Chad Constantine]

As a client, I always seem to be looking for the next great experience. Providers who top the scales I'm def down to repeat, that has been a select few so far however. Where I live there is a limited talent pool, so I an generally relying on traveling providers or when I travel for work which is infrequent. If there was a 10/10 in my area I would be down to have a regular.

 

I wonder what is worse having a limited pool of talent or an vast pool but not attracted to the talent lmao.

[beachboy]

I prefer to build a rapport with one guy & build on the connection. The problem is that a lot of guys don't stay in the business long so you often have to look for someone new.

So far I've been a repeat client of 5 guys who were great but suddenly disappeared. I hope they all moved on to good things in life & I wish them nothing but the best & have great memories of amazing time spent together.

The latest guy I found was excellent on the first meet-just what I was looking for. Just when I was about to book again he texted me to say he was going on a spiritual retreat for the whole month. I have to give him credit for contacting me as I had told him I would book again soon & confirmed that in the complimentary text I sent after the meet but damn !

I guess I'll have to wait until he returns or do I look for someone else for my Christmas present to myself? Hmmm....!

[harlow]

@beachboy I'm in the same boat you are.

[+ JEC]

@beachboy I'm in the same boat you are.

I wonder if it's the same guy :p:p

[harlow]

I wonder if it's the same guy :p:p

Maybe lol

[+ BritSD]

I prefer regular over new. After awhile, you have a connection and they understand what you like. I find it easier to push boundaries but remain in respectful toward each other. I've been seeing one guy for just over 4 years now. he isn't taking new clients and only sees the clients he has had since he stopped running his ad 3 years ago. It's a great chemistry.

 

Hard to find new guys I click with

[harlow]

I prefer regular over new. After awhile, you have a connection and they understand what you like. I find it easier to push boundaries but remain in respectful toward each other. I've been seeing one guy for just over 4 years now. he isn't taking new clients and only sees the clients he has had since he stopped running his ad 3 years ago. It's a great chemistry.

 

Hard to find new guys I click with

Its hard finding a guy you enjoy seeing regularly and can build a good report with. Once you have it its the best thing ever and so disappointing when it ends due to relocation or if they decide to retire.

[Dirks]

I prefer regular over new. After awhile, you have a connection and they understand what you like. I find it easier to push boundaries but remain in respectful toward each other. I've been seeing one guy for just over 4 years now. he isn't taking new clients and only sees the clients he has had since he stopped running his ad 3 years ago. It's a great chemistry.

 

Hard to find new guys I click with

Having just found a provider who I really click with, I am now all in favour of repeats versus new guys each time. So far, neither of us is taking each other for granted and the experience each time gets better and Even more fun. We are learning how to push each other’s boundaries. Whilst that lasts I will keep coming back!

[Ryan Roman]

I wonder you value the closeness that comes with multiple visits or crave the newness of a different face?

 

I prefer repeat clients. You can develop a rapport with them and really get to know them in ways that allow for you to better satisfy their needs.

[+ BlueSky]

I stick with my regulars (when I can). I enjoy the camaraderie. It's also just more exciting. They know what I like and how to deliver the goods. But even the best arrangements end: people move or just move on.

 

My favorite regular moved away this summer because of his job. I've tried a couple of new guys but mostly I've just hired a lot less. If I find the right provider, I'm sure I'll be a frequent client again.

[lonely_john]

With repeats there are more chances to get a « regular client » rate and often works.

[lonely_john]

I would say that is to be expected for any question where any provider that expresses a strong preference runs a risk of turning off potential clients?

 

And then, it's arguable this particular question sets up a false dilemma. Regulars start out as newbies, can't have one without the other, esp. since regulars will fade away, eventually...

So true! The reason why I don’t want to give reviews to my best boy. If I had to give a 5 star review for every time I see him he would have 8 more now. And I can clearly see how that could potentially piss off some potential clients. Never thought of these dynamics up until now

[+ OliverSaks]

Have you asked him? Personally, I much prefer to get reviews from my clients - this gig is competitive

 

just as it could be a turn off to some potential clients, it could also be a boost to his business on the other hand - plenty of people on this forum like to see that people are reviewed, and seeing reviews over a period of time from the same reviewer can establish a provider as reliable and enjoyable

 

 

So true! The reason why I don’t want to give reviews to my best boy. If I had to give a 5 star review for every time I see him he would have 8 more now. And I can clearly see how that could potentially piss off some potential clients. Never thought of these dynamics up until now

[+ sync]

When I was engaging regularly, I always preferred a favorite. It was a real plus for me to be able to skip past that awkward introductory period with a stranger. The tragic downside of having a steady favorite is the possibility of deceiving oneself into a one-way, being in-love fantasy.

[+ VictorPowers]

I have yet to have a repeat. There is something about discovering someone new

Hiring this way comes with its own risks, no? Or is that the thrill of it?

[+ funguy86]

Hiring this way comes with its own risks, no? Or is that the thrill of it?

That is part of the allure but I have also yet to find what I am looking for. I have a specific type and have not found a gentleman who fits my fantasy. As a result I have met with men who were not necessarily my type but figure I might surprise myself and click with someone different. If and when I find a gentleman I click with I may change my mind.

[+ VictorPowers]

That is part of the allure but I have also yet to find what I am looking for. I have a specific type and have not found a gentleman who fits my fantasy. As a result I have met with men who were not necessarily my type but figure I might surprise myself and click with someone different. If and when I find a gentleman I click with I may change my mind.

Interesting. That does make sense though.