What constitutes Having Sex?

[hypothetically]

To be fair, I’m not sure there is a right or wrong answer to the OP’s question. If you ask 20 different people their answer to the question, I’m sure you will get 20 different answers.

 

There’s not. These threads always unravel exactly how the OP intended them to.

[gilbert]

I have to ask why the notion men can't have sex with each other would even occur to you.

 

Gman

I was throwing an idea out there to get a response. I guess I'm more interested in what has to happen between two men to be considered having sex.

[gilbert]

When I was able to give blood through the Redcross I always had to answer the guestion, "Have you ever had sex with another man or person of the same sex (or something like that)?" I never had anal, but have had oral. So did I have sex or not? I always answered that I hadn't had sex.

[+ Gar1eth]

When I was able to give blood through the Redcross I always had to answer the guestion, "Have you ever had sex with another man or person of the same sex (or something like that)?" I never had anal, but have had oral. So did I have sex or not? I always answered that I hadn't had sex.

 

For purposes of blood donation, you most likely have not had sex.

 

Gman

[+ Gar1eth]

When I was able to give blood through the Redcross I always had to answer the guestion, "Have you ever had sex with another man or person of the same sex (or something like that)?" I never had anal, but have had oral. So did I have sex or not? I always answered that I hadn't had sex.

 

For purposes of blood donation, you most likely have not had sex.

 

Gman

[+ Charlie]

If any part of me is inside any part of you.....we’re having sex.

Even if it is only your tongue in my mouth?

[+ Charlie]

If any part of me is inside any part of you.....we’re having sex.

Even if it is only your tongue in my mouth?

[+ friendofsheila]

Okay, I know this had to be discussed at one time or another, but I can't find it. What constitutes being able to say one man had sex with another man? How far does a man does a man have to go with another man to able to say they had sex? Is oral officially having sex ? Do you have to have anal penetration to officially be able to say you had sex? Or is there no such thing as men having sex with men. Is it all just playing around or being sensual with other men? Just curious.

 

One of my ex's (RIP) said that it only counts as sex if you enjoy yourself.

[+ friendofsheila]

Okay, I know this had to be discussed at one time or another, but I can't find it. What constitutes being able to say one man had sex with another man? How far does a man does a man have to go with another man to able to say they had sex? Is oral officially having sex ? Do you have to have anal penetration to officially be able to say you had sex? Or is there no such thing as men having sex with men. Is it all just playing around or being sensual with other men? Just curious.

 

One of my ex's (RIP) said that it only counts as sex if you enjoy yourself.

[+ nycman]

Even if it is only your tongue in my mouth?

Yep....I don’t kiss my mother that way.

 

It’s sex.

[+ nycman]

Even if it is only your tongue in my mouth?

Yep....I don’t kiss my mother that way.

 

It’s sex.

[mike carey]

For purposes of blood donation, you most likely have not had sex.

The Australian Red Cross specifies in its exclusions from eligibility to donate anyone having had anal or oral male to male sex. (It also specifies having sex with a sex worker as being a disqualification from donating.)

[mike carey]

For purposes of blood donation, you most likely have not had sex.

The Australian Red Cross specifies in its exclusions from eligibility to donate anyone having had anal or oral male to male sex. (It also specifies having sex with a sex worker as being a disqualification from donating.)

[Guest]

Where I’m from oral sex absolutely is not intercourse...

 

All right, Mr. Clinton, you made your point.

http://img.picturequotes.com/2/17/16917/i-did-not-have-sexual-relations-with-that-woman-quote-1.jpg

[Guest]

Where I’m from oral sex absolutely is not intercourse...

 

All right, Mr. Clinton, you made your point.

http://img.picturequotes.com/2/17/16917/i-did-not-have-sexual-relations-with-that-woman-quote-1.jpg

[MassageDrew]

I think to some ther term "sex" itself is somewhat more intimate. That's why some "straight" guys don't want to call it that when doing it with another man. "Fucking" on ther other hand is more acceptable. Don't know why but that's what I've observed over the years.