Is He Just Too Hot for Me?

[Merboy]

Are there some on here who feel they are so unattractive that they actually feel weird/uncomfortable with the idea of hiring a particular escort? How do you deal with it when that door opens and there is he looking so gorgeous.

 

I totally understand to them it is a business and they are going to (hopefully) be very professional no matter what you look like, but does anyone feel not worthy of him even if you're paying?

 

Has anyone deliberately chosen an escort that was nice-looking but not their ideal dream hunk just so they'd feel a little more at ease? Or do you just say, "F**k it. I'm paying good money and I deserve this just as much as anyone else!"

[+ FrankR]

Are there some on here who feel they are so unattractive that they actually feel weird/uncomfortable with the idea of hiring a particular escort? How do you deal with it when that door opens and there is he looking so gorgeous.

 

I totally understand to them it is a business and they are going to (hopefully) be very professional no matter what you look like, but does anyone feel not worthy of him even if you're paying?

 

Has anyone deliberately chosen an escort that was nice-looking but not their ideal dream hunk just so they'd feel a little more at ease? Or do you just say, "F**k it. I'm paying good money and I deserve this just as much as anyone else!"

"F**k it. I'm paying good money and I deserve this just as much as anyone else!"

[big-n-tall]

Personally I think I’m cute. I’ve heard everything from some people saying I’m ugly and to others saying I’m very handsome. Beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder.

 

With that said, I’ve hired all types, I don’t always hire for looks alone. So I say fuck it. You find someone attractive to hire, whether they’re plain or devastatingly handsome, have fun. I know it’s not the easiest but don’t worry about your looks or whether you are worthy. A good escort will find a way to make you and the moment feel special and amazing.

Edited September 30, 2019 by big-n-tall

[marylander1940]

Are there some on here who feel they are so unattractive that they actually feel weird/uncomfortable with the idea of hiring a particular escort? How do you deal with it when that door opens and there is he looking so gorgeous.

 

I'm sure some might but usually is the opposite and even clients described themselves to escort a few years younger and a few pounds lighter.

 

A local escort told me if their email says jock they're likely to watch a lot of sports from the sofa... that's it!

 

I totally understand to them it is a business and they are going to (hopefully) be very professional no matter what you look like, but does anyone feel not worthy of him even if you're paying?

 

Not everybody could escort!

 

They work hard for their money.

 

When yinz were young did you ever imagine having sex with a guy twice your age and with a few extra pounds? Even with Viagra some guys just can't do it.

 

Has anyone deliberately chosen an escort that was nice-looking but not their ideal dream hunk just so they'd feel a little more at ease? Or do you just say, "F**k it. I'm paying good money and I deserve this just as much as anyone else!"

 

I only hire guys that I like but I've met some who were a mess (PNP, etc) and even though they were hot I decided to stay away from them.

 

 

Personally I think I’m cute. I’ve heard everything from some people saying I’m ugly and to others saying I’m very handsome. Beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder.

 

With that said, I’ve hired all types, I don’t always hire for looks alone. So I say fuck it. You find someone attractive to hire, whether they’re plain or devastatingly handsome, have fun. I know it’s not the easy but don’t worry about your looks or whether you are worthy. A good escort will find a way to make you and the moment feel special and amazing.

 

I agree with everything you said except one thing, there are guys who walk into a bar or on the street and head turns towards them. There are 10/10 out there. Weather sex with them is wonderful or not depends on their mood, compatibility, what you like to do and many other things.

Edited September 30, 2019 by marylander1940

[+ nycman]

I say fuck it.

 

You never know when the chemistry is going to ignite.

 

I’ve had amazing experiences with men that are miles outside

my league in the “looks alone” category. And I’ve had horrible

evenings with men that should have been paying me.

 

You never know.....so swing for the fence!

[Gymowner]

the only time i would feel like "ok...im at the end of the line hiring" is if i became so old and/or unattractive that the escort no matter who he was would not be able to perform.

 

otherwise....money and adoration for many is their Viagra

[+ sync]

I'm nervous every time. I just hope for the best and gird for possible disappointment.

[myophile]

I say fuck it.

 

You never know when the chemistry is going to ignite.

 

I’ve had amazing experiences with men that are miles outside

my league in the “looks alone” category. And I’ve had horrible

evenings with men that should have been paying me.

 

You never know.....so swing for the fence!

 

Absolutely. My “regular” hire is completely out of my league, so much so that I hesitated a while before I made contact the first time. But amazingly we hit it off right away, sexually and otherwise, so go figure.

[jjkrkwood]

[beachboy]

I'm always nervous when hiring a guy for the first time. I always book guys who are way out of my league in the looks dept. Well if I'm going to pay why not hire the most attractive guy I can find?

 

I've found, as others have said, that if I'm clean & friendly & respect any boundaries previously discussed then things tend to go well. In fact I've often been treated to delights that were not originally on the menu from guys I could only dream about having sex with in the 'real' world.'

 

He then gets a tip & repeat bookings-everybody wins.

 

In the process of setting up a meet with a new guy this week as the hot Italian who rocked my world on several occasions has returned to Italy. Damn! Wish me luck!

[+ Hoover42]

Are there some on here who feel they are so unattractive that they actually feel weird/uncomfortable with the idea of hiring a particular escort? How do you deal with it when that door opens and there is he looking so gorgeous.

 

I totally understand to them it is a business and they are going to (hopefully) be very professional no matter what you look like, but does anyone feel not worthy of him even if you're paying?

 

Has anyone deliberately chosen an escort that was nice-looking but not their ideal dream hunk just so they'd feel a little more at ease? Or do you just say, "F**k it. I'm paying good money and I deserve this just as much as anyone else!"

I have panic attacks just being in the same room with a hot guy. I would run away with my tail between my legs from a super model escort or a celebrity hottie.

 

Thirty years of therapy has helped, but vodka, cranberry juice, and a heavy dose of Xanax is still my preferred treatment.

[Jakeenct]

Interesting topic and I thought of posting something along these lines. When considering a meeting I tend to target those that most would consider average but closer to a guy I would be more likely to meet minus the compensation element. It's been stated here many times, the fact you are "paying" and should "receive" services commensurate with your expectations. Unfortunately there is no regulatory body to assist with meetings that go wrong and the only recourse is the experience of others contributing to this forum (and the advice is priceless). Also, in the interest of full disclosure, I actually prefer and find it very much a turn-on meeting the "average" to perhaps "not so desirable" and the "why" of that is tough for me to phrase but probably makes for a better comfort level.

[mike carey]

I came to this forum at a time when I hadn't been in the US for about 10 years, and of course here, in Daddy's Reviews and wherever else, I saw men that I could never hope to meet as a casual hook up (well, that's how I saw, and for the most part, still see it). The first two guys I contacted were, I thought, so far out of my league it wasn't funny. Both responded favourably and I eventually hired both. One has since retired and one I am in regular contact with and meet. I now take the view that if you don't ask you won't meet them. Some insanely hot guys will meet someone my age because they like that, and some don't care about age. So, both here and in the US I will ask. Because I am not in a major market I say it won't happen straight away and ask if they'd be open to meeting when we are in the same city. Some say yes, some say YES, and some ignore me. Don't assume that a gentleman will dismiss you.

[tenderloin]

I try to gauge the personality from all available evidence : our correspondence, the 'scorts description of himself, and yes the pics. Few things are more of a turn off to me than a hot guy who knows he is hot and wants to make sure you know it and that you appreciate he is generously slumming with you as if it were some duty of the Gods to the less fortunate.

 

I had one very funny encounter with a gymnast who had a spectacular body and significant flexibilty: he kept on striking these incredible poses, with his ass and legs thrown every which way, looking at me expectantly like I was supposed to offer veneration. I finally had to break into the show and say "that's all very hot, but please park your ass on the bed so I can enter it."

Edited October 2, 2019 by tenderloin

[+ JEC]

So I'm a GL HWP guy, but let's face it....all the guys we are meeting with we are meeting with b/c they are HOT and probably otherwise unattainable. I think this is part of the equation - as a provider you need to expect you're meeting with clients of all types, looks, etc. I do think different providers have differing abilities to provide an outstanding experience to all, so worth doing your homework and being clear up front what you want from the experience. You are providing for an outstanding experience, you should expect nothing less.