Question - Extended meeting with someone new

[+ Reisr30]

Has anyone ever set up an overnight with a companion they have never met including flying them to a different city? This would be someone with excellent reviews.

 

What are the risks? Is this a bad idea? I know what my gut tells me but wanted to ask others with more experience or who are wiser/smarter than me...

[LaffingBear]

Whether this question, or other rentguy-related questions

 

Go with your gut. There's a high correlation between regrettable decisions and choosing not to go with your gut

[mike carey]

Has anyone ever set up an overnight with a companion they have never met including flying them to a different city?

Your question is ambiguous. Is flying them in a necessary part of the question, or did you mean an overnight OR only an overnight where you flew them in. If it is the former, I did that with Alec Andrews when I visited LA and it was great. I have also hired a guy who was flying into the city (and I was flying in across country to meet him), and that worked too, although not an automatic repeat. From my perspective, I would be the one who flies, not the escort on my dime.

[dfwmassagelover]

I have flown someone into my city for an overnight. Couldn't have been better, have seen him many times since and even made several trips with him. Have also had an overnight with 2 different guys that were visiting my city. Also worked out great, have repeated with one of them. Just read reviews and choice someone that has been around for while. Also, of course, someone you are physically attracted to and sexually.

[alrajee]

I haven't gotten to the point of flying someone to my location but I have done an overnight with someone after just two phone calls. I had such a great time that it became an annual thing.

 

In retrospect, it could also gone south--we could just not have anything in common enough to pass time when we're not playing.

 

Go with what your gut says. It's often right.

[+ Snbrd]

The biggest risk/adventure I took was booking Sherman Mass before traveling to California. I had however, met him at the Daddy’s brunch in DC in January. We also talked a few times afterwards. It was a bet that paid off as I thoroughly enjoyed his company and the sex. I also realize that I may have been lucky. If you want to gamble it’s probably best to go with someone well known and well reviewed.

[KeepItReal]

It really depends on the escort, how far they are being asked to travel (flying him in from Hong Kong; he will be tired), what your expectations are from the overnight and of course chemistry. It is almost always better to meet the individual first - have you seen the movie "The ghost and the darkness"? Never go into battle with an unproven rifle...

[+ oldNbusted]

Since I don't like about 9 out of 10 people, I can't imagine doing this...

[DallasClient]

I have flown guys to stay with me overnights several times. Only had a couple that I wouldn't hire again but they weren't bad times. I would recommend visiting with them on a video call first. I have a couple I continue to fly to Dallas and I love their visits.

[+ Reisr30]

Thanks for all the feedback. Since I had already bought the ticket I decided to move forward with the meeting. Crossing my fingers it goes well...

 

And to answer an earlier question I am flying him into the city I am visiting.

[liubit]

My best wishes for your meeting, @Reisr30. Have fun.

[+ friendofsheila]

Depends

 

Is this a "I saved up all my pennies to make this happen, so it is really important" event? Or a "I spend this amount of money on cable tv every month, so it's not a big deal money wise" event?

[+ friendofsheila]

Thanks for all the feedback. Since I had already bought the ticket I decided to move forward with the meeting. Crossing my fingers it goes well...

 

And to answer an earlier question I am flying him into the city I am visiting.

 

Oops. Saw this too late.

[Strafe13]

My best wishes for your meeting, @Reisr30. Have fun.

 

Ditto. Please report back to us. I'd love to find out how it went. Also, if it's a good experience, please divulge the escort's name, although you may want to do that by private message. I'm excited for you!

[+ Reisr30]

The companion I flew in to meet me left today and I am happy to report I had a great time with him. I should have planned better and had him stay the entire 4 days I am visiting Germany as I’m feeling a bit lonely now. However, I am ok with it since I had never met him and I know I got lucky as it could have been a totally different experience. Thanks everyone for their comments.

[DallasClient]

The companion I flew in to meet me left today and I am happy to report I had a great time with him. I should have planned better and had him stay the entire 4 days I am visiting Germany as I’m feeling a bit lonely now. However, I am ok with it since I had never met him and I know I got lucky as it could have been a totally different experience. Thanks everyone for their comments.

 

I'm really glad you had a great time with him!

[mike carey]

@IronMaus, I'm sure I'll see you for a chat again.

[MassageDrew]

It has to start somewhere. Instead of paying his fees and travel expenses, why don't you travel to him first, get your first experience, and see if you find it worth it to actually want to spend an extended time with him.

[+ dupontversDC]

Who was the escort who did so well for you?

[gallahadesquire]

My first hire was for a weekend. But we'd been talking on AOL (!) for five years, so that wasn't a surprise.