how to scope out escorts on RentMasseur

[+ DrownedBoy]

Hey, I had a question in regards to using RentMasseur.

 

Suppose there's a guy there you want as an escort for, say, BFE or fetishes, not as a masseuse. What's the best way to relay that to a RentMasseur?

 

I noticed they post low rates, since it's technically a massage site, but I'd be willing to pay more if they go beyond a massage.

[KeepItReal]

Text the masseur and ask if they provide "full service". I'm pretty sure they will know what you mean. You should be willing to pay more as you are expecting more.

 

[GTMike]

Hey, I had a question in regards to using RentMasseur.

 

Suppose there's a guy there you want as an escort for, say, BFE or fetishes, not as a masseuse. What's the best way to relay that to a RentMasseur?

 

I noticed they post low rates, since it's technically a massage site, but I'd be willing to pay more if they go beyond a massage.

Yeah, i have the exact same question and dilemna on how to proceed down that line of inquiry without seeming like a disrespectful person to the masseur who specifically made a profile for that. But i realize you never know and for some it can be a wink, wink, nod nod type thing on a case by case basis.

[MiamiLooker]

Just ask if they offer more than just a massage.

[+ Keith30309]

This ambiguity is what prevents me from meeting masseurs I’d otherwise enjoy spending quality time with.

 

After a visit ending in a handj... uhmm. stress release... I asked a guy if he kisses and he was pretty put off with me.

I’ve also had a visit with a masseur ending in me FF’ing him, on the other hand. (sorry)

 

I’ve started asking if the prospective companion is a top or bottom. That question seems to be clarifying.

[Trick]

“I’m not an escort”

 

I’ve gotten this reply from many advertisers on RentMasseur and MF. But with some respectful persistence, I’ve gotten lucky and they agreed to go beyond the massage to something two consenting adults would do. Sometimes it happens during the text exchange. At other times they don’t discuss it until the actual meeting. Bring extra cash.

[Muscle Lover 2]

Drownedboy, love your avatar. If that's you, I might ask, do you do more than massage?!!!!!!

[Shawn Monroe]

The easiest way to see if someone offers more is to see if they have a rentmen profile in addition to Rentmasseur (as many of us do).

 

Also, If you’re looking for more than massage, specify before meeting. Either ask if there’s additional services, or if they’re a top or bottom. Or just say what you’re looking for.

 

One of the most difficult things is trying to not only figure out what these terms mean but figuring out what someone means when they use the terms. “Full service” or “erotic massage” means different things to everyone. Some even use masseurfinder as if it’s rentmen and think “massage” means something sexual (even fully clothed and with a picture of your table in the ad).

 

At this point I try to give what is included with massage when asking about rates.

 

So if you’re looking for more, ask for more, and be prepared to pay more or at least discuss it up front - else you’re coercing and that’s bad, or you’re left with not exactly what you wanted, though the provider may not have known in the first place.

[Trick]

The easiest way to see if someone offers more is to see if they have a rentmen profile in addition to Rentmasseur (as many of us do).

 

Also, If you’re looking for more than massage, specify before meeting. Either ask if there’s additional services, or if they’re a top or bottom. Or just say what you’re looking for.

 

One of the most difficult things is trying to not only figure out what these terms mean but figuring out what someone means when they use the terms. “Full service” or “erotic massage” means different things to everyone. Some even use masseurfinder as if it’s rentmen and think “massage” means something sexual (even fully clothed and with a picture of your table in the ad).

 

At this point I try to give what is included with massage when asking about rates.

 

So if you’re looking for more, ask for more, and be prepared to pay more or at least discuss it up front - else you’re coercing and that’s bad, or you’re left with not exactly what you wanted, though the provider may not have known in the first place.

 

I wish all providers were like you, willing to discuss extra services and upgrades.

[bendable2019]

I love the extras...a simultaneous gentle suck on nipples and handjob does wonders ??? sheer bliss

[+ Mplsgymguy]

If I see a masseur on Masseurfinder with whom I might like some “extras,” I first check to see if they also have an ad on Rentmasseur (with an erotic option) or Rentmen. If they do, I ask if the massage is nude on nude or at least tell them I prefer to be undraped for the massage. Sometimes I receive a note of outraged virtue (which has also led to some interesting correspondence) or, more often, the masseur lets me know that he also prefers to be nude or assures me that the massage is “full body,” or something along that line. A few times I’ve been told that they’re fine with me being naked but that they wear shorts or something; however, in every instance I can think of, the masseur was also nude when he got to the HE. In fact, I remember only two massages I’ve ever had for which the masseurs remained completely dressed throughout - and I’m pretty sure one of those was because the guy’s partner arrived home during the masssge.

[MiamiLooker]

Sometimes I receive a note of outraged virtue (which has also led to some interesting correspondence)...

The masseur is "outraged", yet, he advertises on a site that has a TOS of:

Terms Of Use

This site contains sexually explicit text, photographs, videos and links to websites of interest to Adults. Access is only made available to those individuals who agree to the following terms:

1. I am at least 18 years old and I will not allow any minor to access this website.
   
2. Materials of a sexually explicit nature are not illegal to view in my community or locale.
   
3. I wish to receive and I am not offended by sexually explicit adult content.
   
4. The author of this web site cannot be held responsible for my actions and I release them from any and all liability.
   

[rvwnsd]

“I’m not an escort”

 

I’ve gotten this reply from many advertisers on RentMasseur and MF. But with some respectful persistence, I’ve gotten lucky and they agreed to go beyond the massage to something two consenting adults would do. Sometimes it happens during the text exchange. At other times they don’t discuss it until the actual meeting. Bring extra cash.

That's a pretty direct way of saying they do not escort.

 

Before I ask about "extras" I check rent.men for a profile. Also, if they list "Erotic" massage as one of their specialties and they post nudes I feel a little more comfortable asking about "extras."

[woodworker]

I try to keep written communications nonsexual. In person, I am honest and respectful, and even in private I express my requests as something I would enjoy -- never as bald offers of money for sex. I'm a fat 70 y.o. old but I don't get turned down very often. Of course, I tip very well. Be nice!!

[Guy Fawkes]

Quoting from https://www.daddysreviews.com landing page; Daddy's has been around since 2005. One has to wonder which came first the chicken or the egg? It would seem that Daddy has had more of an impact on the community than what you'd expect.

 

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2. Materials of a sexually explicit nature are not illegal to view in my community or locale.
   
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The masseur is "outraged", yet, he advertises on a site that has a TOS of:

Terms Of Use

This site contains sexually explicit text, photographs, videos and links to websites of interest to Adults. Access is only made available to those individuals who agree to the following terms:

1. I am at least 18 years old and I will not allow any minor to access this website.
   
2. Materials of a sexually explicit nature are not illegal to view in my community or locale.
   
3. I wish to receive and I am not offended by sexually explicit adult content.
   
4. The author of this web site cannot be held responsible for my actions and I release them from any and all liability.
   

[marylander1940]

Hey, I had a question in regards to using RentMasseur.

 

Suppose there's a guy there you want as an escort for, say, BFE or fetishes, not as a masseuse. What's the best way to relay that to a RentMasseur?

 

I noticed they post low rates, since it's technically a massage site, but I'd be willing to pay more if they go beyond a massage.

 

Ask him if besides massage he also escorts and what’s the rate for that?

 

Btw some escorts have told me when guys ask “do you do erotic massage” the next question is “how big is your cock?”. At least you’re honest contacting a masseur and asking for sex.

[marylander1940]

“I’m not an escort”

 

I’ve gotten this reply from many advertisers on RentMasseur and MF. But with some respectful persistence, I’ve gotten lucky and they agreed to go beyond the massage to something two consenting adults would do. Sometimes it happens during the text exchange. At other times they don’t discuss it until the actual meeting. Bring extra cash.

 

Bingo!

 

Just like escorts saying I am not a masseur knowing the guy wants a jerk off.

[woodworker]

Don't put people in an uncomfortable situation.

[Trick]

 

That's a pretty direct way of saying they do not escort.

 

Direct, yes! Some masseurs have stood by it. But from experience, I’ve come to see that response as a smokescreen, maybe to ward off potential stings. With the right and respectful approach, they drop their guards and their pants or whatever it is they have on.

[+ Mplsgymguy]

The masseur is "outraged", yet, he advertises on a site that has a TOS of:

Terms Of Use

This site contains sexually explicit text, photographs, videos and links to websites of interest to Adults. Access is only made available to those individuals who agree to the following terms:etc

 

My bad; I should’ve made clear that I was referring specifically to replies from Masseurfinder ads, for which providers may no longer post sexually explicit photos or text (as used to be the case). About a year ago I contacted a new guy on MF in the area whose ad for a $150 massage included photos of himself in gym shorts and tank top that showed off a well muscled body. After a couple of initial texts to set up an appointment, I wrote him something about us both being nude during the massage. He replied that I could be naked if I wanted, but I would still be draped, and he would be willing to strip to biking shorts but would not be naked and would definitely not allow me to touch him in any way. When I told him that $150 was kind of steep for a clothed, strictly therapeutic massage, he responded that his training and massage skills made the price worth it. As he would’ve been a bit of a drive for me, anyway, I just canceled the whole thing. But I cautioned him that he might be receiving more requests similar to mine, due to his fee and the photos he’d posted. A few months later he inserted new photos of himself, with less skin showing and looking rather drab.

[Cliff]

“I’m not an escort”

 

I’ve gotten this reply from many advertisers on RentMasseur and MF. But with some respectful persistence, I’ve gotten lucky and they agreed to go beyond the massage to something two consenting adults would do. Sometimes it happens during the text exchange. At other times they don’t discuss it until the actual meeting. Bring extra cash.

Bingo

[+ DrownedBoy]

Drownedboy, love your avatar. If that's you, I might ask, do you do more than massage?!!!!!!

Sorry, this is the kind of guy I'm after...

[KenzoNYC]

Bingo

 

The thing is... most of the time you might not want to say “yes, I provide full service “ or “yes I’ll fuck you” because even though you are a sexual person and you do get horny during massage, you can’t guarantee that you’ll want to actually fuck or be fucked... an escort will say yes because he can actually agree to sex before even knowing who you are or what you’re into because that is what he is offering.

I like to keep it open, I just wouldn’t engage in full on sex with someone I am not attracted to just for the money... so agreeing to it beforehand just doesn’t work with me and that’s why I don’t advertise as an escort.

I have had amazing times, but I have never done anything I don’t want to do... my erotic massage is already quite hot to begin with, so even if there’s no intercourse, in most cases, it’s still a hell of a good time.

Edited August 17, 2019 by KenzoNYC

[DDad4ynger]

The thing is... most of the time you might not want to say “yes, I provide full service “ or “yes I’ll fuck you” because even though you are a sexual person and you do get horny during massage, you can’t guarantee that you’ll want to actually fuck or be fucked... an escort will say yes because he can actually agree to sex before even knowing who you are or what you’re into because that is what he is offering.

I like to keep it open, I just wouldn’t engage in full on sex with someone I am not attracted to just for the money... so agreeing to it beforehand just doesn’t work with me and that’s why I don’t advertise as an escort.

I have had amazing times, but I have never done anything I don’t want to do... my erotic massage is already quite hot to begin with, so even if there’s no intercourse, in most cases, it’s still a hell of a good time.

Well said! Hope I get to see u in DC!

[Ronin512]

The thing is... most of the time you might not want to say “yes, I provide full service “ or “yes I’ll fuck you” because even though you are a sexual person and you do get horny during massage, you can’t guarantee that you’ll want to actually fuck or be fucked... an escort will say yes because he can actually agree to sex before even knowing who you are or what you’re into because that is what he is offering.

I like to keep it open, I just wouldn’t engage in full on sex with someone I am not attracted to just for the money... so agreeing to it beforehand just doesn’t work with me and that’s why I don’t advertise as an escort.

I have had amazing times, but I have never done anything I don’t want to do... my erotic massage is already quite hot to begin with, so even if there’s no intercourse, in most cases, it’s still a hell of a good time.

Looking forward to new meeting soon