Why Don't y'all visit Charlotte NC?

[BicepAddict]

Ever since moving to Charlotte from NYC I have had to fly in escorts to for-fill my muscle worship desires which has become a very expensive lustful expense. I am constantly hearing that Charlotte NC is an up and coming city and with American Airlines having their hub in CLT you would think more escorts would visit No offense to those who advertise on RM and make CLT their home base but none can compare to what I use to be able to choose from whether they were based or visting NYC.

[+ tassojunior]

Ever since moving to Charlotte from NYC I have had to fly in escorts to for-fill my muscle worship desires which has become a very expensive lustful expense. I am constantly hearing that Charlotte NC is an up and coming city and with American Airlines having their hub in CLT you would think more escorts would visit No offense to those who advertise on RM and make CLT their home base but none can compare to what I use to be able to choose from whether they were based or visting NYC.

 

But NC does have that big supply of Camp LeJeune Marines (who kept Active Duty alive) and Fort Bragg soldiers. Find a couple of them and network through them to others. It's lonely on those bases and they don't make much.

[+ FrankR]

Once you cross the Mason Dixon line, all those waffle houses are just too damn distracting! ?

[marylander1940]

Ever since moving to Charlotte from NYC I have had to fly in escorts to for-fill my muscle worship desires which has become a very expensive lustful expense. I am constantly hearing that Charlotte NC is an up and coming city and with American Airlines having their hub in CLT you would think more escorts would visit No offense to those who advertise on RM and make CLT their home base but none can compare to what I use to be able to choose from whether they were based or visting NYC.

 

hotels are surprisingly expensive and the aren't enough potential clients. Even Raleigh-Durham-Chapel Hill can barely maintain their escort supply.

 

At least you're paying a lower mortgage/rent but there are consequences to moving out of NYC.

[MikeBiDude]

But NC does have that big supply of Camp LeJeune Marines (who kept Active Duty alive) and Fort Bragg soldiers. Find a couple of them and network through them to others. It's lonely on those bases and they don't make much.

Good suggestion...and a profile on seeking.com in those areas will generate a lot of traffic your way. In my area Camp Pendleton and SD Navy often on there.

[hypothetically]

none can compare to what I use to be able to choose from whether they were based or visting NYC.

 

Well you ARE comparing two different extremes. No city in the US can rival NYC’s market per the scale of its catalog.

[cany10011]

I’ve only been at the airport... is there a large school or college that is in Charlotte that you can “recruit’ from?

[BicepAddict]

Thanks for all the interesting feedback guys. I was hoping that the post would encourage more "Escorts" to respond and perhaps think about as a minimum, connecting through CLT and inquiring as to possible "Overnight" opportunities with a prospective client(s) via RM or here in the "Escort Travels" section. I for one would be the first in line to respond.

[Mocha]

Well you ARE comparing two different extremes. No city in the US can rival NYC’s market per the scale of its catalog.

 

I was just having a conversation with someone about him wanting to move to NYC. He wasn’t a provider, but he’s young and has the desire to move out to New York...citing having a roommate and a good job could allow someone to make it.

 

I was like...go for it, but I ain’t lol. I just can’t see myself making it in New York. If it’s anything like Chicago and LA, one tends to drown in the sea of availability there are in those markets.

 

I was in Chicago for 1 night over the weekend. Having already familiar with how things go, I got 4 texts/calls the first day I was there...but of course non of them pan out. Then they moan and say “that’s too far” when you say you’re staying 30 miles outside of Chicago. Like yes, because I’m not paying $200 a night for a hotel in Labor Day weekend, with no guarantee of making that money back. I stayed 30 miles outside of town, and had a cheap room and made more than my money back. So going forward I’ll never be pressed to stay in the city of chicago. Just like I wouldn’t be pressed to stay in Washington DC or Manhattan.

 

There have been 2 times I’ve been able to meet clients or a good fuck staying well outside of the city of Chicago in the burbs. The options are far less plentiful than in the city, so people tend to appreciate and quickly book ...versus the fucking shenanigans in the city ??‍♂️

 

Thanks for all the interesting feedback guys. I was hoping that the post would encourage more "Escorts" to respond and perhaps think about as a minimum, connecting through CLT and inquiring as to possible "Overnight" opportunities with a prospective client(s) via RM or here in the "Escort Travels" section. I for one would be the first in line to respond.

 

As an update, I can give a prognosis as to why Charlotte isn’t frequented more (even though I feel there’s already plenty of choices to go around already): It just doesn’t seem to be that reliable of a client base there.

 

I was going to travel to Charlotte from Raleigh and spend a night or 2 there last weekend. I ended up cancelling it and continuing west. Non of the people who reached out to me were serious about scheduling, 1 guy was very rude, and I had to post a warning about. Another asked if I fucked bareback, then flaked and didn’t return messages. Then hit me up again as if nothing happened. Others didn’t confirm or follow up.

 

This is going to sound harsh, but after this last trip to North Carolina I won’t be returning. I’ve said before, every since they passed that bill awhile back in North Carolina (almost similar to FOSTA) about registering people who use/sell escorts as sex offenders, the escort business vibe of that state has gone straight to hell.

 

I’m sure it’s some good people here and there, and if someone is local and already has the idiots on block or have regular clients...but my impression is a bunch of ignorant hicks. Both Raleigh and Charlotte. I remembered exactly why I ended up driving halfway there from Florida back in December, and turning back around. The clientele there seem very flaky and shady. I would only go if someone flew me in or a deposit for a session.

Edited September 4, 2019 by Mocha

[+ JEC]

In smaller markets a lot of guys use Grindr looking for Gen-tlemen ?

[Mocha]

In smaller markets a lot of guys use Grindr looking for Gen-tlemen ?

 

I wouldn’t be surprised...but so it’s everywhere else. At the same time, the reason why a lot of us are still in business, is because they know you’re getting prime beef when you go the RentMen Route.

 

I had a client the other day tell me about a guy who’s in his 20s, and meets him for company and occasional sex. According to him, the guy is not a paid provider, but merely likes to come over to get away and be comfortable being “gay” so to speak. The client is like 60 or 70 years old.

 

When clients tell me stories like that, I just be like...that’s great if you found something that works for you. But I let them know I don’t have an interest in casual relationships with guys twice my senior. I’ve done it before in my pre-escorting days...but ultimately realized a lot of those guys never really end up committing to one guy (and usually have a couple they keep around), and it’s unlikely to really “get” anything out of it in the long run.

 

Not saying that one has to be in a situation with an older guy only to “get something”, but if I’m going to be doing any kind of casual relationship, I want it to be with someone who’s relatable to an extent. I don’t have the same level of experience of someone who’s a grandad and has kids who have kids, widowed/divorced, has his mortgage paid off and etc etc.

[marylander1940]

Thanks for all the interesting feedback guys. I was hoping that the post would encourage more "Escorts" to respond and perhaps think about as a minimum, connecting through CLT and inquiring as to possible "Overnight" opportunities with a prospective client(s) via RM or here in the "Escort Travels" section. I for one would be the first in line to respond.

 

 

 

According to what I’ve been told in NC rates are lower and I guess it’s not worth it traveling there and paying hotel to make a profit.

 

I know I guy who ran ad in the Raleigh area for one year collected 50 numbers and when he made plans to go there had to cancel it because only 2 were interested.

 

What if you contact someone you’re interested in an offer to fly him for an overnight to Charlotte.

[Stormy]

Charlotte is called The “Queen City”. Surprised those queeny bankers in that city don’t create a market for escorts.

[JTtorretto]

“Worked” Charlotte once when I happened to be in town to attend a campaign rally (Obama’s first appearance on the campaign trail for Hillary) July 5th 2016 and as mentioned above, hotels were surprisingly pricey for this type of smaller market and I didn’t receive enough calls to motivate me to ever return. I’d much rather return to Columbus, Vancouver, Dallas, etc then Charlotte.

[BicepAddict]

Thanks again guys for all the opinions and real life experiences in CLT. Guess I will have to just keep saving up and flying my favorites in as I have done. If anyone in the business is interested hit me up and we can discuss further

[+ OliverSaks]

I plan to make a stop there in the next 2-3 months, but unfortunately I am not a muscle guy and doubt I could help with your bicep addiction

 

Thanks for all the interesting feedback guys. I was hoping that the post would encourage more "Escorts" to respond and perhaps think about as a minimum, connecting through CLT and inquiring as to possible "Overnight" opportunities with a prospective client(s) via RM or here in the "Escort Travels" section. I for one would be the first in line to respond.

[BicepAddict]

I plan to make a stop there in the next 2-3 months, but unfortunately I am not a muscle guy and doubt I could help with your bicep addiction

 

No worries - Thanks for taking the time to respond

[Mocha]

“Worked” Charlotte once when I happened to be in town to attend a campaign rally (Obama’s first appearance on the campaign trail for Hillary) July 5th 2016 and as mentioned above, hotels were surprisingly pricey for this type of smaller market and I didn’t receive enough calls to motivate me to ever return. I’d much rather return to Columbus, Vancouver, Dallas, etc then Charlotte.

 

Good point. But, I wouldn’t bet a city’s success on a political campaign rally. I try to even avoid traveling at all whenever there’s a big political unrest in general: race wars, gun violence, hurricanes, etc.

 

Like right now, I made a pact to stay in the far northern/western states during hurricane season rather than Florida. People will rather spend $250 on bread, gas and water than an hour or so of sheer pleasure. Sad how the media fucks with everyone’s mind. I lived in Florida for 21 years...I already know every hurricane always carves a path right up the coast to North Carolina. That’s why the US shoreline is shaped like it is lol.

 

[Mocha]

Charlotte is called The “Queen City”. Surprised those queeny bankers in that city don’t create a market for escorts.

 

I’ve “heard” of people having success in Charlotte, “before” at “one point in time”. Regardless, I can’t help but think of:

 

 

Certainly doesn’t sound like a hotbed of gay sex workers lol

[Guest MikeThomas]

Thanks again guys for all the opinions and real life experiences in CLT. Guess I will have to just keep saving up and flying my favorites in as I have done. If anyone in the business is interested hit me up and we can discuss further

Instead of flying them in, wouldn’t it make more sense for you to fly to New York or Miami for the weekend? On top of hiring the escort of your choice, you also get to leave Charlotte!

[BicepAddict]

Instead of flying them in, wouldn’t it make more sense for you to fly to New York or Miami for the weekend? On top of hiring the escort of your choice, you also get to leave Charlotte!

 

I have to pay for a plane ticket one way or another so that's a wash, and Hotel costs in NYC are outrageous compared to me hosting in CLT so in the long run it's cheaper to fly them in. In addition my favorites that I have flown here have never been to CLT so it's a treat for them to see the city and spend time with them and enjoying the southern fare. If I could find a local legit hire here obviously the savings would be great and I could have a montly regular hire. Anyway I do appreciate all the attention the thread has gotten guys - thanks

[gallahadesquire]

I was just having a conversation with someone about him wanting to move to NYC. He wasn’t a provider, but he’s young and has the desire to move out to New York...citing having a roommate and a good job could allow someone to make it.

 

I was like...go for it, but I ain’t lol. I just can’t see myself making it in New York. If it’s anything like Chicago and LA, one tends to drown in the sea of availability there are in those markets.

 

I was in Chicago for 1 night over the weekend. Having already familiar with how things go, I got 4 texts/calls the first day I was there...but of course non of them pan out. Then they moan and say “that’s too far” when you say you’re staying 30 miles outside of Chicago. Like yes, because I’m not paying $200 a night for a hotel in Labor Day weekend, with no guarantee of making that money back. I stayed 30 miles outside of town, and had a cheap room and made more than my money back. So going forward I’ll never be pressed to stay in the city of chicago. Just like I wouldn’t be pressed to stay in Washington DC or Manhattan.

 

There have been 2 times I’ve been able to meet clients or a good fuck staying well outside of the city of Chicago in the burbs. The options are far less plentiful than in the city, so people tend to appreciate and quickly book ...versus the fucking shenanigans in the city ??‍♂️

 

 

 

As an update, I can give a prognosis as to why Charlotte isn’t frequented more (even though I feel there’s already plenty of choices to go around already): It just doesn’t seem to be that reliable of a client base there.

 

I was going to travel to Charlotte from Raleigh and spend a night or 2 there last weekend. I ended up cancelling it and continuing west. Non of the people who reached out to me were serious about scheduling, 1 guy was very rude, and I had to post a warning about. Another asked if I fucked bareback, then flaked and didn’t return messages. Then hit me up again as if nothing happened. Others didn’t confirm or follow up.

 

This is going to sound harsh, but after this last trip to North Carolina I won’t be returning. I’ve said before, every since they passed that bill awhile back in North Carolina (almost similar to FOSTA) about registering people who use/sell escorts as sex offenders, the escort business vibe of that state has gone straight to hell.

 

I’m sure it’s some good people here and there, and if someone is local and already has the idiots on block or have regular clients...but my impression is a bunch of ignorant hicks. Both Raleigh and Charlotte. I remembered exactly why I ended up driving halfway there from Florida back in December, and turning back around. The clientele there seem very flaky and shady. I would only go if someone flew me in or a deposit for a session.

In 2007 (when my stepfather died), the trip 15 miles west of downtown Chicago, at 3:00 in the afternoon, was an hour and fifteen minutes. By train, 32 minutes. (I grew up a 22 minute ride from downtown).

 

THATS WHY if you’re “out west” you’re not going to have any business.

[Mocha]

In 2007 (when my stepfather died), the trip 15 miles west of downtown Chicago, at 3:00 in the afternoon, was an hour and fifteen minutes. By train, 32 minutes. (I grew up a 22 minute ride from downtown).

 

THATS WHY if you’re “out west” you’re not going to have any business.

 

Well during the time I was there, I stayed far north. Like almost to Milwaukee lol. Earlier this year I did stay close to Jackhammer, but even then. In a car, it’s kinda hard to really tell what’s “far” in a city like Chicago that just spans and spans.

 

I think cities like Chicago and LA, (and maybe even Charlotte) it’s not required to be in the central areas to catch some clients. Obviously there’s going to be people who won’t want to travel more than 2 miles outside of their neighborhood, but in a place as expansive and dense as Chicago (and the Bay Area), you can pretty much pick up a client anywhere you choose to be. I can save money and stay in Mateo and work the SFO crowd, or spend a little extra and work the Castro/Folsom crowd. Only difference to me is whether I feel like being in the city or the suburbs.

 

But I feel business in the center of cities are drying up because you’re competing with other providers, phone apps, and all the available gay resources that are generally available in the city (Midtown spa, Steamworks, “the clubs”, etc.)

 

So for me, it rarely seems to be required to get a higher priced hotel downtown, when most of the biz seems to be on the outskirts. At least for me in most cities. Even my latest trip to DC, I only met 1 actual DC resident, the rest were from Maryland and NOVA.

 

But in some cities, the traffic is so bad and the suburbs so conservative, you almost have to stay close to or in downtown to see anyone (Denver, Philadelphia, Boston)

[JackCasey]

sadly I ended up cutting my CLT trip short. Hotels in decent areas (clients are particular which area you book) are surprisingly expensive and everyone wants half of my normal rate. Decided to leave it for the local escorts.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

I wouldn't visit Charlotte for the simple fact that CLT has some of the worst Admiral's Clubs in the system