Thoughts on younger clients?

[MidAndy]

How often you see guys in mid 20-30? My sense is that they are usually more demanding than older folks and want more for their buck?

[hypothetically]

How often you see guys in mid 20-30? My sense is that they are usually more demanding than older folks and want more for their buck?

 

Regularly.

From my observations, how demanding a client is has little (if anything at all) to do with age. Individual needs and income play a much bigger role than age.

 

Speaking personally, I tend to avoid “demanding” clients, as I feel there is a way to communicate ones wants without being demanding. If someone is demanding something from me, unfortunately we are not going to get along and thankful for the demanding client, the Rentmen archive is huge. I demand respect, above all. “Good luck.”

Edited June 29, 2019 by hypothetically

[marylander1940]

How often you see guys in mid 20-30? My sense is that they are usually more demanding than older folks and want more for their buck?

 

With the Grindr fatigue syndrome more and more young guys are becoming clients.

 

I don't know how demanding or easygoing they are but I guess that might not be related to age but to other circumstances as expressed on the previous post.

[Quincy_7]

Rentmen almost always has a better selection of hot young guys compared to grindr so if you're looking for a hot fuck and money isn't an issue you're better off going straight to the point with an escort.

[Rod Hagen]

In my 20s most of my clients were in their 40s, the rest were distributed more or less evenly through 50s 60s 70s and 80s, maybe 90s. In my early 30s, most were in their 50s and 60s. However, also for a few years in my early 30s I offered a discount to those 24 and under, just as an experiment. And it worked. I wasn't old enough to be a "daddy" but I was old enough to steer inexperienced men around tight turns. In those years I often saw adult teens and men in their early 20s. Young people bore me, generally, so after awhile I stopped the discount, or at least stopped advertising it.

 

Now, more than a decade later, I rarely see young men. A couple have called me daddy which on the one hand I get. On the other hand, there's nothing about me that seems "daddy". I don't have gray hair yet...yet. Nothing about my personality is "daddy" so much as I'd never respond with that kind of lingo: "son" "boy" etc. But I get it, I'm 46, so there's that.

 

I think escorts my age and a bit younger probably have better "luck" seeing younger guys because they're willing to play the daddy card. That's not me.

[Mocha]

Rentmen almost always has a better selection of hot young guys compared to grindr so if you're looking for a hot fuck and money isn't an issue you're better off going straight to the point with an escort.

 

Sounds good in theory, but the problem is....many of the guys advertising on Rentmen are flakes.

 

It’s really dismaying what I’ve heard. I had a lil young client who was just under 30...had the whole thuggish White boy look to him (which just so happens to be my perfect type) but he was a real client and very professional. He would invite me up to his town about 50 miles from where I lived, get a hotel after work for me to host and let me keep it.

 

But on our first meet, he waited for me to get there first, saying in the past he has gotten hotel for guys off RentMen who said they were coming, and they never showed up.

 

So when these guys are arranging stuff and people don’t come thru, they start trusting the site less...and then it’s like, how do they differentiate the flakes of rentmen from the flakes of Grindr?

 

But generally, I don’t worry about younger guys being demanding, I’m usually the dom top in those situations anyway

 

Also...the ones who hire escorts may do so for any number of reasons, not just simply a hot fuck. I know in any city I’m in, I can easily get a hot fuck, at most any time of day or night, so ain’t no need to be paying for it. Then again, I generally end up hooking up with white and Latino bottoms which is a large makeup of the general gay community. Easy, peasy.

 

However, some people want specific things. I’m sure me and @hypothetically know, it can be hard to find a big dick black top once you get outside of the big player cities (Atlanta, Chicago, Washington DC, New York) especially considering some of the “preferences” people can have.

Edited July 2, 2019 by Mocha

[mike carey]

@Rod Hagen, great post. I like you more and more!

[Youngmilkman]

In my 20s most of my clients were in their 40s, the rest were distributed more or less evenly through 50s 60s 70s and 80s, maybe 90s. In my early 30s, most were in their 50s and 60s. However, also for a few years in my early 30s I offered a discount to those 24 and under, just as an experiment. And it worked. I wasn't old enough to be a "daddy" but I was old enough to steer inexperienced men around tight turns. In those years I often saw adult teens and men in their early 20s. Young people bore me, generally, so after awhile I stopped the discount, or at least stopped advertising it.

 

Now, more than a decade later, I rarely see young men. A couple have called me daddy which on the one hand I get. On the other hand, there's nothing about me that seems "daddy". I don't have gray hair yet...yet. Nothing about my personality is "daddy" so much as I'd never respond with that kind of lingo: "son" "boy" etc. But I get it, I'm 46, so there's that.

 

I think escorts my age and a bit younger probably have better "luck" seeing younger guys because they're willing to play the daddy card. That's not me.

That's very interesting, can I ask what is it that bores you with young clients? In my 20s right now, and the response seems mixed. Some escorts like it, and some have refused to meet as soon as they know my age. But I was particularly gutted when I stumbled upon one of my favourite escorts' Xtube profile, and he said he wrote under-30s were a turn-off ???

[Youngmilkman]

One problem of my own, though, as a young client in my 20s in London - I'm always paranoid that the escort and I actually share mutual friends. Also, I get a little paranoid that younger escorts will judge me, which is why I gravitate towards older escorts, not because I want a daddy.

[marylander1940]

One problem of my own, though, as a young client in my 20s in London - I'm always paranoid that the escort and I actually share mutual friends. Also, I get a little paranoid that younger escorts will judge me, which is why I gravitate towards older escorts, not because I want a daddy.

 

I live in DuPont Circle and that has happened... escorts sharing friends or acquaintances with me and escorts who are neighbors.

 

If you're concerned about it maybe you should hire guys who are visiting London.

[Mocha]

I live in DuPont Circle and that has happened... escorts sharing friends or acquaintances with me and escorts who are neighbors.

 

If you're concerned about it maybe you should hire guys who are visiting London.

 

I actually had a client once who was friends with a guy I was dating. And we were all having drinks together. But I think at that point, me and the guy just became on “lets be friends” mode, so there was no tension there.

 

I didn’t end up telling the guy I who I was dating what the deal was, but I did have the conversation later with my client.

[hercules_tamer]

One problem of my own, though, as a young client in my 20s in London - I'm always paranoid that the escort and I actually share mutual friends. Also, I get a little paranoid that younger escorts will judge me, which is why I gravitate towards older escorts, not because I want a daddy.

I wouldn't worry about it. I discovered a few non-client friends in common with escorts (and I'm old enough to be their granddad) but the escorts are always professional and discreet. Bear in mind some escorts have families/girlfriends so have to be discreet!

[dgantzman]

I’m in my 20s and recently hired an escort. I had a great time. There are many reasons why younger men are turning to escorts, busy careers, flakes... for me I was just over Tinder and Grindr and meeting either flaky dudes or dudes who couldn’t really perform well in the bedroom.

[hypothetically]

One problem of my own, though, as a young client in my 20s in London - I'm always paranoid that the escort and I actually share mutual friends. Also, I get a little paranoid that younger escorts will judge me, which is why I gravitate towards older escorts, not because I want a daddy.

 

If you do (have mutual friends), remember the info you hold about the arrangement is just as powerful as the info the other party holds. One should never break the confidentiality code between provider/client, but if you need to feel at ease, remember the other party’s anxieties per discretion are equally if not more challenging to navigate than your own.

[harlow]

I was in my early 20’s when I first started hiring. Mainly because I was closeted and in the military then.

[Guest Calix_K]

I've been hired by younger clients; from my observation they are very similar to some older clients. They are either closeted and don't like going out to clubs/bars, don't like the process of meeting people at those venues and like having control of the meet vs the unpredictability of grindr and offline hookup attempts. I've also been a help to those who had been working on coming out to friends/family and needed some bedroom confidence which consequently translated to outward confidence to be who they are. Some have continued on as clients, others have married turned into friends.

 

And then there a few who want to take selfies in the bedroom and post on social among other things which is a hard no. Only a few of those types, majority of younger clients have been pretty awesome!

[ReidReid]

I have worked with a lot of younger guys who would rather coordinate with me than spend countless hours on grindr or other apps. For them, it seems to be a thing of convenience when visiting manhattan. I have helped a few younger guys discover what they like sexually and have also been hired as a 3rd in a younger relationship. Regarding demand, I don't think it has anything to do with age or maturity in years.

[marylander1940]

I have worked with a lot of younger guys who would rather coordinate with me than spend countless hours on grindr or other apps. For them, it seems to be a thing of convenience when visiting manhattan. I have helped a few younger guys discover what they like sexually and have also been hired as a 3rd in a younger relationship. Regarding demand, I don't think it has anything to do with age or maturity in years.

 

as I said on my previous post "Grindr fatigue" is among us. Get ready for more younger clients specially now that they could pay with an app and not just with cash.

[+ DERRIK]

72 here

 

I have to quote our past president

 

"I will not make age an issue of this campaign. I am not going to exploit, for political purposes, my opponent's youth and inexperience," Ronald Reagan quipped during the 1984 presidential debates when asked if, at 73, he is too old to be President.

[FrancisCA]

I have gotten clients who were in their 20s and 30s and they have a bunch of reasons!

 

They want something specific, dont have to deal with flakes, too busy with work or still coming to terms of who they are as a person! But that doesnt come with age and any of these could apply to anyone!

[Quincy_7]

One problem of my own, though, as a young client in my 20s in London - I'm always paranoid that the escort and I actually share mutual friends. Also, I get a little paranoid that younger escorts will judge me, which is why I gravitate towards older escorts, not because I want a daddy.

 

As a fellow client in his 20s who was hired young guys in London I can assure you that they won't judge one bit.

[rvwnsd]

..there is a way to communicate ones wants without being demanding...

E X A C T L Y ! ! ! !

 

In @MrMattBig's thread about "What are you into?" I mentioned three reasons why I state what I'm into and ask the escort for his feedback. @hypothetically stated a fourth reason.

 

We aren't configuring a computer or customizing our frozen yogurt here.

[Islesguy]

E X A C T L Y ! ! ! !

 

In @MrMattBig's thread about "What are you into?" I mentioned three reasons why I state what I'm into and ask the escort for his feedback. @hypothetically stated a fourth reason.

 

We aren't configuring a computer or customizing our frozen yogurt here.

You are 100% right. It really isn't any simpler than saying, "I like to do x, y, z. Are these things you like to do also?"

[+ DrownedBoy]

In your experience, do younger clients tend to be more into fetishes?

 

That's my thing. I came out in college and never had problems finding partners....but not partners who were willing to do the stuff I was into.

[Chad Constantine]

Regularly.

From my observations, how demanding a client is has little (if anything at all) to do with age. Individual needs and income play a much bigger role than age.

 

Speaking personally, I tend to avoid “demanding” clients, as I feel there is a way to communicate ones wants without being demanding. If someone is demanding something from me, unfortunately we are not going to get along and thankful for the demanding client, the Rentmen archive is huge. I demand respect, above all. “Good luck.”

 

What do you consider demanding?