Those who have been with Ben Kieren, AKA MuscleCompanion, in Boston... Is he OK to be with?

[qwerby]

I have had my eyes set on having a session with Bostonian bodybuilder Ben Kieren, also known as MuscleCompanion on RM, for the longest time. All the talk I’ve seen about him has been nothing short of praise and rave about his intelligence, muscularity, etc. However, I’ve begun to have second thoughts about getting with him.

 

While Ben himself and others state he is a sane, intelligent guy, the first time I reached out to him a few months ago, things seemed off. I first messaged him with a typical “Hi, my name is _____.” message. He responded back with a typical message, but then abruptly said something along the lines of, “Sorry for being so short.” He was referring to his height.

 

This kind of took me by surprise, as I had just started texting him. I messaged back something along the lines of, “Huh, what do you mean?” Ben then apologized and said he had been having a rough day and needed to go rest for a while. I inferred that someone had made fun of his size, and, seeing as how Ben is a human with feelings too, I politely said it was cool.

 

A few months later, back around May, I reached out to Ben again. This time around he was very accomodating, talking to me about how and when he started bulking up, where we were from, what his rates were, etc. It all seemed good, and we agreed I could message him in the future when I was free to schedule a session with him.

 

I’ve gotten a free schedule lately, and I figured now would be the time to reach out to Ben again. On Wednesday morning, I asked about his availability, telling him to feel free to respond when he could. He didn’t respond that morning or evening. I figured, “OK, Ben has a life, too. He’s probably just out vacationing or something.”

 

Two days passed, and I felt I should message him today... I asked if he had received my messages and to respond whenever a chance was good. Sure enough, Ben responded a couple of hours later, saying he had “a bit of a personal crisis this week” and that he’s needed to “smooth out.” I simply told him that it was OK and to take his time, not wanting to further question him. That would just be nosey, IMO. I don’t know if it was family issues, a mental breakdown, or what.

 

So, with all this in mind, does anyone know if poor Ben has just been having lousy luck whenever I message him, or is he kind of not “all there?” I know Ben has a life and a brain. But with all these comments he’s made to me, I’m starting to wonder whether or not he is safe to have a session with.

 

I’m just hoping the guy is OK, too. It seems life’s throwing curveballs at him and his self-esteem. If anybody could weigh in on this, especially those who’ve had experiences with Ben, and let me know what you think, it would be much appreciated. Thank you.

 

Edited to clarify a statement Ben made.

Edited June 29, 2019 by qwerby

[+ purplekow]

Did he mean short in stature? or short in his reply?

[qwerby]

Did he mean short in stature? or short in his reply?

Based on our texts, it had to have been his stature. His texts weren’t short!

 

I’ve heard people describe him as a “fireplug.” But I could care less about his height! Either way, it was an incredibly odd comment that came out of left field.

Edited June 29, 2019 by qwerby

[Gymowner]

"However, I’ve begun to have second thoughts about getting with him."

 

you have second thoughts? if i were the escort and someone "chatted" with me on 4 separate occasions without setting up a definitive time and date i wouldnt even respond back to him! imagine how many guys just waste an escorts time and never pull the trigger on an appointment. why not just reach out to him the first time when you are ready to see him, ask if "you are available on x day at y time" and get his confidence that you are for real as a client? no need for jibber jabber.

 

if you want to gain an escorts respect then give it to him first.

[BgMstr4u]

Sometimes “short” in the context of a conversation means abrupt, verging on but not quite rude. That would make sense to me given his explanation of a rough day. He may have been apologizing in case you felt offended.

Edited June 29, 2019 by BgMstr4u

[+ azdr0710]

I can't imagine he would apologize for "being short" (of stature) unless you made some comment regarding it initially......I presume he thought he was being "short" in the 'rude' sense of the word with his replies to you and wanted to clarify that......

 

based only on your comments in your first post, I think you may be making an inaccurate leap of judgement about Ben's mental 'stability'.......it's entirely possible he's had a hectic week and is not at all focused on replying to indefinite RM inquiries like yours at this point.......

 

Ben has a fine reputation and lots of regulars......as suggested above, it's usually best to quickly get to specific date-and-time planning.....I'd wait a few more days, then message him with a brief note hoping things are cooled down for him and asking if he's available at xxpm on xx date for xx hours at (insert location here)........as always, be polite, professional, to-the-point, and discreet......

 

https://rentmen.eu/MuscleCompanion

Edited June 29, 2019 by azdr0710

[qwerby]

"However, I’ve begun to have second thoughts about getting with him."

 

you have second thoughts? if i were the escort and someone "chatted" with me on 4 separate occasions without setting up a definitive time and date i wouldnt even respond back to him! imagine how many guys just waste an escorts time and never pull the trigger on an appointment. why not just reach out to him the first time when you are ready to see him, ask if "you are available on x day at y time" and get his confidence that you are for real as a client? no need for jibber jabber.

 

if you want to gain an escorts respect then give it to him first.

 

I don’t think I clarified enough... The first time I contacted Ben and last time on Wednesday I DID want to get to setting up something. I first asked if he was available during a certain date I was, but then the events I described happened, and I let him be like he wanted.

 

BUT for the time in May, you’re right, I should have been more concrete instead of just seeking info about him! As my title under my username implies, I’m pretty much a newbie in this stuff. Once Ben has cooled down, which I guess would be in a few days, I’ll ask what I did on Wednesday about his availability on a certain date I was looking for.

[myophile]

I’ve been with Ben three times now, and he’d be a regular hire if we lived in the same city. EXCELLENT provider in every way (starting with his smoking-hot muscled body, oversized cock, and friendly jock demeanor), but I particularly value his communications skills. He hasn’t always gotten back to me immediately, and I’ve had to follow up once or twice—but he’s a busy guy, with a personal life and a bunch of side-hustles, and in general I’d rate him up there among the most responsive and reliable guys I deal with.

 

Here’s the thing. I don’t know exactly what the OP wrote Ben, but I do know that providers generally don’t like long involved communications—anything as long and involved as this post, for instance!—especially if they don’t boil down to: “Hi Ben—I’m into __, and I’d like to hire you for __ hours on ___ date. Are you available? And what’s your rate? Thanks, big guy!” Anything more lengthy or less direct sent to a busy professional is going to get a (private) sigh of exasperation from said professional, and may delay or jeopardize the point of the exercise, which is to get you laid.

[qwerby]

I can't imagine he would apologize for "being short" (of stature) unless you made some comment regarding it initially......I presume he thought he was being "short" in the 'rude' sense of the word with his replies to you and wanted to clarify that......

 

based only on your comments in your first post, I think you may be making an inaccurate leap of judgement about Ben's mental 'stability'.......it's entirely possible he's had a hectic week and is not at all focused on replying to indefinite RM inquiries like yours at this point.......

 

Ben has a fine reputation and lots of regulars......as suggested above, it's usually best to quickly get to specific date-and-time planning.....I'd wait a few more days, then message him with a brief note hoping things are cooled down for him and asking if he's available at xxpm on xx date for xx hours at (insert location here)........as always, be polite, professional, to-the-point, and discreet......

 

https://rentmen.eu/MuscleCompanion

You’re more than likely right that he was referring to being “short” in that way and I was just being a MORON!

 

Regardless, I plan on doing what you say and, once Ben has no doubt calmed down in a few days, will ask what I did on Wednesday about availability during a time I was looking for. You and other users have assured me I’m just being paranoid about all this and that Ben has just ended up having bad times whenever I try to reach out to him. Thank you.

[qwerby]

I’ve been with Ben three times now, and he’d be a regular hire if we lived in the same city. EXCELLENT provider in every way (starting with his smoking-hot muscled body, oversized cock, and friendly jock demeanor), but I particularly value his communications skills. He hasn’t always gotten back to me immediately, and I’ve had to follow up once or twice—but he’s a busy guy, with a personal life and a bunch of side-hustles, and in general I’d rate him up there among the most responsive and reliable guys I deal with.

 

Here’s the thing. I don’t know exactly what the OP wrote Ben, but I do know that providers generally don’t like long involved communications—anything as long and involved as this post, for instance!—especially if they don’t boil down to: “Hi Ben—I’m into __, and I’d like to hire you for __ hours on ___ date. Are you available? And what’s your rate? Thanks, big guy!” Anything more lengthy or less direct sent to a busy professional is going to get a (private) sigh of exasperation from said professional, and may delay or jeopardize the point of the exercise, which is to get you laid.

Hi, this is OP. I’ve already replied to a couple of comments.

 

Thanks for assuring me about Ben being OK. I understand that Ben is a human and obviously has stuff in his life too, but the couple of times I reached out to him about sessions and him admitting to not feeling up to talking at the moment made me think. Rest assured that I did try to get to the point those times.

 

However, like others have said, back in May when I inquired about his services, I could have been more concrete in setting up a time for the future. That’s on me!

 

Thank you for the reassurance that he is OK. I will wait a couple of days and then ask him what I did on Wednesday about availability in a time I was looking for.

 

Also, this got a chuckle out of me: “I do know that providers generally don’t like long involved communications—anything as long and involved as this post, for instance!”

[ScottyTX100]

I have had my eyes set on having a session with Bostonian bodybuilder Ben Kieren, also known as MuscleCompanion on RM, for the longest time. All the talk I’ve seen about him has been nothing short of praise and rave about his intelligence, muscularity, etc. However, I’ve begun to have second thoughts about getting with him.

 

While Ben himself and others state he is a sane, intelligent guy, the first time I reached out to him a few months ago, things seemed off. I first messaged him with a typical “Hi, my name is _____.” message. He responded back with a typical message, but then abruptly said something along the lines of, “Sorry for being so short.” He was referring to his height.

 

This kind of took me by surprise, as I had just started texting him. I messaged back something along the lines of, “Huh, what do you mean?” Ben then apologized and said he had been having a rough day and needed to go rest for a while. I inferred that someone had made fun of his size, and, seeing as how Ben is a human with feelings too, I politely said it was cool.

 

A few months later, back around May, I reached out to Ben again. This time around he was very accomodating, talking to me about how and when he started bulking up, where we were from, what his rates were, etc. It all seemed good, and we agreed I could message him in the future when I was free to schedule a session with him.

 

I’ve gotten a free schedule lately, and I figured now would be the time to reach out to Ben again. On Wednesday morning, I asked about his availability, telling him to feel free to respond when he could. He didn’t respond that morning or evening. I figured, “OK, Ben has a life, too. He’s probably just out vacationing or something.”

 

Two days passed, and I felt I should message him today... I asked if he had received my messages and to respond whenever a chance was good. Sure enough, Ben responded a couple of hours later, saying he had “a bit of a personal crisis this week” and that he’s needed to “smooth out.” I simply told him that it was OK and to take his time, not wanting to further question him. That would just be nosey, IMO. I don’t know if it was family issues, a mental breakdown, or what.

 

So, with all this in mind, does anyone know if poor Ben has just been having lousy luck whenever I message him, or is he kind of not “all there?” I know Ben has a life and a brain. But with all these comments he’s made to me, I’m starting to wonder whether or not he is safe to have a session with.

 

I’m just hoping the guy is OK, too. It seems life’s throwing curveballs at him and his self-esteem. If anybody could weigh in on this, especially those who’ve had experiences with Ben, and let me know what you think, it would be much appreciated. Thank you.

 

Edited to clarify a statement Ben made.

 

You sound needy AF. Are you looking for an escort or a friend?

[bostonman]

but I do know that providers generally don’t like long involved communications

 

Generally, probably. But I will say that I've been with a few escorts who really have seemed interested in detailed conversations beforehand so they can really give me the session I wanted. Which is fun, because the chat beforehand can also serve as a kind of foreplay. But I think that starting with a huge long message without getting a sense for the escort's style can be a turn-off. It'll become obvious if the escort likes to keep communication to just "basic business" or if they have a friendlier, more open conversational style.

[newhudson]

You sound needy AF. Are you looking for an escort or a friend?

Hahaha yes this exactly.

[+ Billsboy4]

I've met Ben....had no problem with communication and had a great time with him in person.

[+ azdr0710]

Arranged to meet, said I would confirm location and time.Texted location and time but he didn't recall arrangement. He later requested location again and was then en route, didn't show nor text back. Texted to see why the no show, said he had been in a car accident.

.

 

was this today, a few days ago, or sometime in the mid-to-distant past??

[ncc1701d]

Met with him very recently. And while his personality is that of a good one, can't say the same about our encounter. Perhaps lately there are personal issues, but who knows

Edited June 30, 2019 by ncc1701d

[RyanDean]

@ncc1701d -- as I read your most recent, I wonder if there's a word or phrase missing?

[ncc1701d]

@ncc1701d -- as I read your most recent, I wonder if there's a word or phrase missing?

 

thanks..fixed

[Guest Grey Bear]

Sounds to me like you are bugging this guy too much. Do you think you are the only one contacting him? You're wasting his time. 2 emails should do it,3 at the most and NOT months apart. He probably thinks you are one of those who will never make a real appointment.IMHO

[Gymowner]

anyone see current pics of ben? i always liked him and by no means am i trying to criticize him but man he is not aging that well. huge as can be but looks bloated in the face and like blood pressure is sky high. i hope he is getting it checked. almost a twin look to tom lord but bens face is much more bloated. i hope he is ok.

 

ben has a big cock like tom did when it was natural. i hope he doesnt go that route with the pumping and silicone like tom did. but thats just my opinion.

[+ Gar1eth]

anyone see current pics of ben? i always liked him and by no means am i trying to criticize him but man he is not aging that well. huge as can be but looks bloated in the face and like blood pressure is sky high. i hope he is getting it checked. almost a twin look to tom lord but bens face is much more bloated. i hope he is ok.

 

ben has a big cock like tom did when it was natural. i hope he doesnt go that route with the pumping and silicone like tom did. but thats just my opinion.

 

I couldn't find an ad for Ben in Boston currently.

 

Gman

[Gymowner]

If you look at his twitter account you will see what I'm talking about. Never met ben and was a fan of his. My bringing this up has more to do with his health. With so many bodybuilders that have and are dropping like flies, I do hope he has his health as a top priority

 

The twitter account I'm referring to is not the one with his name, rather the one with a bodybuilding moniker in the title.

Edited July 13, 2020 by Gymowner

[+ Gar1eth]

If you look at his ig account you will see what I'm talking about. Never met ben and was a fan of his. My bringing this up has more to do with his health. With so many bodybuilders that have and are dropping like flies, I do hope he has his health as a top priority

 

The ig account I'm referring to is not the one with his name, rather the one with a bodybuilding moniker in the title.

 

I'm not on Instagram, and don't usually look for guys there. I can say that from my memory of his ads, that for years Ben often had pictures where he was very red in the face and was puffy looking. I can remember when he first started advertising. He was muscular but over the years he has put on more and more muscle with the accompanying red face and torso.

 

Gman

[Gymowner]

I just corrected. He has a twitter account. My bad. In a recent post he mentions that he was in the hospital for a week. Also some of his pics his muscles look big, hard and full with a tapered midsection. Other pics show a much less muscular physique and a much larger bloated midsection.

 

Geez I really hope everything is ok with ben. in one post he is fucking a chick from behind and refers to her as his wife. for both of their sake again, i hope all is well with ben. a guy i would have loved to have crossed paths with back in the day

Edited July 13, 2020 by Gymowner

[MSCLMAKER]

Didn’t Ben pull his Ad ?