Strange Interaction with HealingHandsDC from Adam4Adam

[niceandthick]

https://www.adam4adam.com/profile/view/HealingHandsDC

 

This guy reached out to me on Adam4Adam:

 

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https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/please-no-posting-reviews-on-the-message-forums.141881/

Edited December 31, 2018 by Cooper

[CMail01]

YOU’RE the one being stalked from the get-go!

[Terpmaniac]

God, he sounds like a nutcase!

[Dmitri]

When you encounter masseurs like this it is better to just stop the communication the MOMENT they start getting weird. I would have just stopped all communication after he blocked you. The guy was weird, so what sense is there in pursuing/engaging him by texting him? You are not going to use his services anyway,and do not need to justify or explain yourself to him. Best in these situations to just move on.

Edited December 31, 2018 by Cooper

[niceandthick]

When you encounter masseurs like this it is better to just stop the communication the MOMENT they start getting weird. I would have just stopped all communication after he blocked you. The guy was weird, so what sense is there in pursuing/engaging him by texting him? You are not going to use his services anyway,and do not need to justify or explain yourself to him. Best in these situations to just move on.

 

Yes. I know that I could have stopped there, but the inquisitive nature in me wanted to know how he would respond. One of my pet peeves online is that guys like him use the Block mechanism like a little school girl after they have gotten their last word in...and you can't respond. Since I had another mechanism to respond, I did.

 

Yeah I know...childish on my part as well. Mine was more out of curiosity at that point than malice or anger.

[ozmaster]

And he claims to be 41 years old? Maybe born 1941. Eeeeeek.

[Ajac]

OK if he is such a legit only masseur why adam4adam there are plenty of sites to advertise out there that are more geared to legit masseurs. I don't even like the phrase "legit masseurs." In my mind a happy ending or sensual elements does not delegitimize anyone.

[Inkdnaija00]

When you encounter masseurs like this it is better to just stop the communication the MOMENT they start getting weird. I would have just stopped all communication after he blocked you. The guy was weird, so what sense is there in pursuing/engaging him by texting him? You are not going to use his services anyway,and do not need to justify or explain yourself to him. Best in these situations to just move on.

 

Exactly! You were blocked and that right there should have ended it!

[niceandthick]

Exactly! You were blocked and that right there should have ended it!

 

Yeah...but that's because you are a part of the Blocker Nation...as you have blocked me on another venue before

(wehave already had that discussion in private).

[Inkdnaija00]

Yeah...but that's because you are a part of the Blocker Nation...as you have blocked me on another venue before

(wehave already had that discussion in private).

 

I was actually agreeing with you..and yes we had conversation in private, for which I apologized but evidently you didnt accept so you will be alright.

[LookingAround]

Yeah...but that's because you are a part of the Blocker Nation...as you have blocked me on another venue before

(wehave already had that discussion in private).

You’re a bit to blame with the masseur too. He wasn’t the only one acting weird. Takes two to tango and you fed the fire....you liked the drama and it seems may have encouraged it. I don’t think it puts you in a good light either. Immature behavior on your part.

[+ FrankR]

I think Mark Twain said it first, but George Carlin made it famous:

Don't engage - 5 minutes of your life you will never get back...rather post a funny meme here on the forum for all of us to enjoy!

[Typical]

Ahhh, social media.

 

Perfect strangers squabbling about absolutely nothing.

[workoutfiend]

Yeah...but that's because you are a part of the Blocker Nation...as you have blocked me on another venue before

(wehave already had that discussion in private).

That is very interesting because the particular masseur you said is part of Blocker Nation also blocked me. I have never been blocked before and have no idea why he would block me. In fact, I was interested in a possible appointment with him. I did not want to post this here in public view, but there is no way to reach this guy. The least I can do is warn others not to be shocked when he decides to block them.

[marylander1940]

I send him an email on adam4adam with a link to this thread...

 

His reply was: "Go fuck yourself and pleas tell all your creepy friends to do the same". After that he blocked me...

 

@niceandthick I know a HE is included in most massages, maybe he's legitimate and won't jerk off the client at the end but the fact that he reacted to me this way when I was only trying to help him makes me wonder if he has some other issues going on.

[Typical]

The guy is unhappy with his job. I'm sorry for him.

 

Time for everyone to just move on.

[marylander1940]

The guy is unhappy with his job. I'm sorry for him.

 

Time for everyone to just move on.

 

Good analysis!

 

I always give masseurs/escorts the benefit of the doubt but in this case he has issues

[+ keroscenefire]

Haha..he just texted me on Adam4Adam...I don't know why he would think I would want a "legitimate therapeutic massage" from someone who lives more than 1,000 miles away. Weird.

[niceandthick]

Haha..he just texted me on Adam4Adam...I don't know why he would think I would want a "legitimate therapeutic massage" from someone who lives more than 1,000 miles away. Weird.

 

I assume that you checked out his profile. He saw that and hit you up. I assume that is how/why he reached out to me.

[niceandthick]

You’re a bit to blame with the masseur too. He wasn’t the only one acting weird. Takes two to tango and you fed the fire....you liked the drama and it seems may have encouraged it. I don’t think it puts you in a good light either. Immature behavior on your part.

 

Yes. I know that I could have stopped there, but the inquisitive nature in me wanted to know how he would respond. One of my pet peeves online is that guys like him use the Block mechanism like a little school girl after they have gotten their last word in...and you can't respond. Since I had another mechanism to respond, I did.

 

Yeah I know...childish on my part as well. Mine was more out of curiosity at that point than malice or anger.

 

I already owned my part in this...and explained why...but ok. However, his weird behavior triggered on it's own...not from my engagement.

 

I was direct with my initial responses of what I was looking for...and then that it wouldn't work for us.

[niceandthick]

I was actually agreeing with you..and yes we had conversation in private, for which I apologized but evidently you didnt accept so you will be alright.

 

I accepted your apology...but does that preclude me from pointing out the behavior? We are alright.

[HealingHandsDC]

Hi ? I see you and you disgruntled Troll Buddies have a nice time on here?

Edited December 31, 2018 by Cooper

[HealingHandsDC]

YOU’RE the one being stalked from the get-go!

Excuse me? Why do they have the "last visits" feature ? So you can see who has shown interest... If you go into a store and they great you is that STALKING?

[HealingHandsDC]

Haha..he just texted me on Adam4Adam...I don't know why he would think I would want a "legitimate therapeutic massage" from someone who lives more than 1,000 miles away. Weird.

[HealingHandsDC]

Why would you leave look at profiles 1000 miles away? I only ever message someone who has been to my profile. Alot of people plan ahead when traveling.