Wrong I've been advertising on Adam on and off for many years most of my paying Clients did Not send messages first ? yes if you were not supposed to message someone who looked at your profile they WOULD NOT HAVE MADE IT A SELLING POINT TO US ADVERTISING BTW we all know what this is about...being BLOCKED ? I Block everyone who is not looking for what I offer this avoids any further unwanted contact...usually then you get the stalker texting so I block that too...that leads to the CLASSIC TROLL IN THIS FORUM ?