Escorting on the down low

[topinla]

What do you think of guys escorting on the down low? There are pros and cons on doing it from the guy’s point of view. But if a guy is doing it quite frequently wouldn’t he be better off doing it full time?

[marylander1940]

What do you think of guys escorting on the down low? There are pros and cons on doing it from the guy’s point of view. But if a guy is doing it quite frequently wouldn’t he be better off doing it full time?

 

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/closeted-escorts-and-gaydar.108100/

 

Unfortunately the tittle was changed about an escort who refused to be seen with a client out in public if they would set off the gaydar.

[topinla]

I have not seen that other thread before but I’m more thinking of a guy who is happy to see clients on the side (and quite frequently, almost as if he was doing it full time) than a guy who refuses to be seen with a client out in public. Two different things.

[marylander1940]

I have not seen that other thread before but I’m more thinking of a guy who is happy to see clients on the side (and quite frequently, almost as if he was doing it full time) than a guy who refuses to be seen with a client out in public. Two different things.

 

in that specific case the escort didn't want to be seen with the client in public on or off the clock because he was in the closet.

 

Once while having dinner with an escort on 17th St a young man approached our table and said hello to the him, I was introduced as uncle Shlomo visiting from Boca Raton. That's not my name and I've never been in that place either....

[+ José Soplanucas]

What do you think of guys escorting on the down low? There are pros and cons on doing it from the guy’s point of view. But if a guy is doing it quite frequently wouldn’t he be better off doing it full time?

 

To answer your question, I think, we should assess specific circumstances. The beauty of an unregulated industry is that there are countless business models, what is better for you may not be so good for your next door neighbor.

[maninsoma]

I'm a bit baffled by the suggestion that if someone is escorting frequently then he should do it full time. What's wrong with someone making escorting his second or part-time job? Or, for that matter, if the escort doesn't need to make a lot of money what's wrong with someone choosing to do this frequently but not "full time?"

[marylander1940]

I'm a bit baffled by the suggestion that if someone is escorting frequently then he should do it full time. What's wrong with someone making escorting his second or part-time job? Or, for that matter, if the escort doesn't need to make a lot of money what's wrong with someone choosing to do this frequently but not "full time?"

 

That seems to be the case now a days with so many guys on and off escorting, allowing their ads to expire and creating a new one later with another name.

[realeasymoney]

"Situational G4P" is the best kind. Got an unexpected bill? No problem.

[+ FrankR]

"Situational G4P" is the best kind. Got an unexpected bill? No problem.

I have no problem with choosing to escort on the side or even ongoing. Consenting adults and all that. But I will also admit that I am unlikely to go the G4P route. It is a team sport, both (or more!) of us should have fun and enjoy ourselves. Unless I am convinced the G4P guy will really get into it...