Are You Disappointed When You Find Out That Someone Is Straight?

[+ Avalon]

I am. I was disappointed to find out that Rupert Graves of "Maurice" was straight and Gale Harold of "QAF" was straight and now today that Josh of Corbin Fisher was straight.

 

One thing that I especially like about Belami is finding out that some of the models are in a relationship with one another like Helmut and Jerome.

[+ nycman]

99.99% of the time....not even a little.

 

But the 0.01%....more than makes up for it.

Edited September 27, 2018 by nycman

[Rudynate]

I'm always a little let down. Someone who had seemed interesting suddenly becomes boring.

[caramelsub]

I would say I tend to be more attracted to the straight guys anyway, or atleast straight acting. They tend to be more naturally dominant and aggressive, which I like.

[Guest]

I would say I tend to be more attracted to the straight guys anyway, or atleast straight acting. They tend to be more naturally dominant and aggressive, which I like.

If they're dominant and aggressive (in a sexual way), they're probably not straight. I've disliked my few intimate interactions with straight men. No passion, not hot. And yes, it does upset me when I hear that there isn't a gay man talented enough to play a gay character--and Gale Harold of QAF comes immediately to mind. Or does someone have to be straight to be hot? No, I don't think so. Hearing someone is straight is a big turn-off for me.

[caramelsub]

Not that gay men can’t be dominant and aggressive.

[Guest]

Someone who had seemed interesting suddenly becomes boring.

Really? Do you mean boring in a romantic sense or in general?

[Inkdnaija00]

I'm always a little let down. Someone who had seemed interesting suddenly becomes boring.

Because they are straight?

[+ sync]

I'm not judgemental of anyone's sexual orientation in general, but I do not knowingly engage straight escorts/masseurs.

[Rudynate]

Because they are straight?[/QUOte]

 

 

Yes. I acknowledge it may not necessarily be true, but, to me, gay men are inherently interesting and straight men a lot less so.

[Rudynate]

Really? Do you mean boring in a romantic sense or in general?

 

In general. I'm not, for the most part, interested in romance. There are some straight men who particularly enjoy gay men, and I find them extra interesting.

[Chuckball]

Why do we continue to think in binary terms. It has been shown that the number of people who are exclusively straight are as few as the number of guys who are exclusively gay. The rest of us fall somewhere on a continuum somewhere between the two extremes.

When someone identifies as totally straight, first of all I am skeptical. Usually the proclamation of straightness is based on societal pressures based on homophobia or because of strict religious doctrines. In such cases I believe such people are not only boring but misguided as well.

[Inkdnaija00]

Yes. I acknowledge it may not necessarily be true, but, to me, gay men are inherently interesting and straight men a lot less so.

...ok

[Rudynate]

Why do we continue to think in binary terms. It has been shown that the number of people who are exclusively straight are as few as the number of guys who are exclusively gay. The rest of us fall somewhere on a continuum somewhere between the two extremes.

When someone identifies as totally straight, first of all I am skeptical. Usually the proclamation of straightness is based on societal pressures based on homophobia or because of strict religious doctrines. In such cases I believe such people are not only boring but misguided as well.

 

 

That may be so. But, for me, it is simplest to take people at face value. If somebody says they're straight, then they're straight. If they say they are bi, they they are bi. If they say they are gay, they're gay.

[+ VictorPowers]

Bisexual is the new “Black”

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Disappointed? No.

 

They're actors. They act. If they are convincing in the role, that's all that matters to me.

[marylander1940]

I am. I was disappointed to find out that Rupert Graves of "Maurice" was straight and Gale Harold of "QAF" was straight and now today that Josh of Corbin Fisher was straight.

 

One thing that I especially like about Belami is finding out that some of the models are in a relationship with one another like Helmut and Jerome.

 

No, plenty of hot gay men out there.

 

I don't bother to know if a gay pornstar is gay or straight, the important thing is that they do gay porno.

[Guest]

Why do we continue to think in binary terms. It has been shown that the number of people who are exclusively straight are as few as the number of guys who are exclusively gay. The rest of us fall somewhere on a continuum somewhere between the two extremes.

When someone identifies as totally straight, first of all I am skeptical. Usually the proclamation of straightness is based on societal pressures based on homophobia or because of strict religious doctrines. In such cases I believe such people are not only boring but misguided as well.

 

I'm not questioning the existence of bisexuality, but speaking from my experience, I have zero interest in intimacy with women. If a person can be 100% gay (such as myself), it's certainly the case that someone can be 100% straight.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I could not care less. I am disappointed when someone I find attractive does not reciprocate, gay or not gay.

[caramelsub]

I'm not questioning the existence of bisexuality, but speaking from my experience, I have zero interest in intimacy with women. If a person can be 100% gay (such as myself), it's certainly the case that someone can be 100% straight.

 

Agreed. I think most “straight” men would not be interested in doing anything sexual with another man. But, I do think there is a spectrum. Because I know many “straight” men, and escorts with wives and kids, who are strictly into receiving oral or topping.

[+ WilliamM]

I am. I was disappointed to find out that Rupert Graves of "Maurice" was straight and Gale Harold of "QAF" was straight and now today that Josh of Corbin Fisher was straight.

 

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Very early in QAF, Gale Harold played a straight role off-Broadway in a play called "Uncle Bob." I don't remember, Mr. Harold talking to audience members after the play.

 

Rupert Graves has appeared on Broadway several times. Mr. Graves is usually quite willing to chat with fans after performances.

[+ Avalon]

Very early in QAF, Gale Harold played a straight role off-Broadway in a play called "Uncle Bob." I don't remember, Mr. Harold talking to audience members after the play.

 

Rupert Graves has appeared on Broadway several times. Mr. Graves is usually quite willing to chat with fans after performances.

 

I remember back then hearing about "Uncle Bob". I thought it was one of the most wretched disgusting things I had ever heard of. Gale Harold played the nephew. The uncle has AIDS and the nephew wants to have sex with his uncle but the uncle refuses. So the nephew goes out and has unsafe sex so he can be infected and thus can have sex with his uncle. How sick is that!

[+ WilliamM]

I remember back then hearing about "Uncle Bob". I thought it was one of the most wretched disgusting things I had ever heard of. Gale Harold played the nephew. The uncle has AIDS and the nephew wants to have sex with his uncle but the uncle refuses. So the nephew goes out and has unsafe sex so he can be infected and thus can have sex with his uncle. How sick is that!

 

I do not remember the plot of "Uncle Bob," but you have it mixed up with some other play. I saw "Uncle Bob," in New York.

[+ Avalon]

I do not remember the plot of "Uncle Bob," but you have it mixed up with some other play. I saw "Uncle Bob," in New York.

 

This link tells a little about the "Uncle Bob" play I seem to remember

 

https://variety.com/2001/legit/reviews/uncle-bob-2-1200467699/

[+ WilliamM]

The brief description of the play is very different from what you wrote above.