Very big to me - needs some advices

[supsam90]

I am going to see an escort (for an overnight) who has a huge D (~9in), and this is will be my first time to have such a big one inside me. So I need some help and advices to make my first experience great.... I am very excited about this experience but I am very nervous and worried that it will be very painful and messy. ... My experience was only using two fingers!

So any advice or tip that will help me to relax and enjoy the ride?!

 

Thank you very much for your help

Edited August 30, 2018 by supsam90

[Kenny]

very nervous and worried that it will be very painful and messy

And, that nervous worry will make it even more difficult.

 

Exhale. Now, and every time you think of the impending event, and definitely when he’s slowly sliding it in.

[+ Reisr30]

Go slow, lots of lube and make sure you are in control. I took 9 inches and the guy was really rough and tore me completely up. I ended up with a fissure and a blood clot near my prostate which took months to heal. I haven’t been able to bottom in a few years to be honest. Sorry if this is TMI.

 

Before that I loved taking 6 - 7.5 inchers. I was such a happy bottom. Now I’m trying to learn to top which is harder than I thought it would be

[supsam90]

Go slow, lots of lube and make sure you are in control. I took 9 inches and the guy was really rough and tore me completely up. I ended up with a fissure and a blood clot near my prostate which took months to heal. I haven’t been able to bottom in a few years to be honest. Sorry if this is TMI.

 

Before that I loved taking 6 - 7.5 inchers. I was such a happy bottom. Now I’m trying to learn to top which is harder than I thought it would be

 

 

Oh sorry to read that .... I hope you will get better in the future

[+ Reisr30]

Oh sorry to read that .... I hope you will get better in the future

Thank you! To be honest I have always been fascinated by huge cocks and have always wanted to try some one as big as Tom Chase, Ken Ryker or Jeff Stryker. In fact, in the 90s I had the chance to schedule a meeting with Tom Chase in Boston when he had an add in Bay Windows and didn’t follow through. I kick myself for it. But oh well...

 

Good luck with the 9 inch guy; he sounds fantastic

[+ nycman]

Child....it sounds like you just entered the bottom amusement park.....

 

Why you gotta go jump on the biggest, roughest, roller coaster you can

find as soon as you walk through the gate? Go ride the bumper cars for a

little while. Ride the parachute drop a few times if you need a quick thrill....

then go tackle that monster ride!

 

Heading straight for “The Scream Machine” is only going to end with you

barfing cotton candy and hot dogs on all of us.....trust me!

Edited August 30, 2018 by nycman

[+ Reisr30]

Child....it sounds like you just entered the bottom amusement park.....

 

Why you gotta go jump on the biggest, roughest, roller coaster you can

find as soon as you walk through the gate? Go ride the bumper cars for a

little while. Ride the parachute drop a few times if you need.a quick thrill....

then go tackle that monster ride!

 

Heading straight for “The Scream Machine” is only going to end with you

barfing cotton candy and hot dogs on all of us.....trust me!

Sounds like what happened to me. Should have spent more time with the bumper cars myself lol

[BaronArtz]

You can start practicing with smaller dildos and work your way up ...

[+ tassojunior]

poppers, booze and coke.

[thickornotatall]

I'm very jealous....please report back...maybe some pics...a video?

[LivingnLA]

I am going to see an escort (for an overnight) who has a huge D (~9in), and this is will be my first time to have such a big one inside me. So I need some help and advices to make my first experience great.... I am very excited about this experience but I am very nervous and worried that it will be very painful and messy. ... My experience was only using two fingers!

So any advice or tip that will help me to relax and enjoy the ride?!

 

Thank you very much for your help

 

That's getting into advanced territory. Besides your fingers, have you used dildos? I strongly encourage you to consider carefully what you're about to do, because there are physical health risks if the top isn't patient and skilled. See some other threads and posts for useful advice.

 

https://m4m-forum.org/threads/clients-learning-to-bottom.135459/page-2#post-1494304

 

https://m4m-forum.org/threads/pain-in-anal.127615/#post-1343923

 

About douching to clean yourself...

 

https://m4m-forum.org/threads/douche-too-often.127943/#post-1351077

 

If you have time (at least 3-4 hours to prepare), I vastly prefer glycerin suppositories for gentle cleaning. They don't seem to irritate the delicate tissues and after at least 2 rounds, I'm ready to go. 3 or 4 rounds are only for long powerfucking sessions or very big tops. At least, that's my personal experience, though I eat a good amount of fiber and a balanced diet every day.

[Rudynate]

I love huge dicks

[thickornotatall]

I love huge dicks

Me too! especially the really thick ones. I'm a sucker for a huge cock...

[Rudynate]

It's funny. Its fine if a guy doesn't have a big dick. But god, do I love big dicks.

[LivingnLA]

Me too! especially the really thick ones. I'm a sucker for a huge cock...

 

It's funny. Its fine if a guy doesn't have a big dick. But god, do I love big dicks.

 

Me three.

[supsam90]

Thank you guys for your advices.

Well! I have had second thoughts!

I will wait until I got used to ride normal Ds:) , then I will submit myself to a 9in D to take care of me.

 

Right now, I need to inform the escort about this new update and I need to to search for an expert TOP ((with a normal one)) to take my virginity

[+ Reisr30]

Thank you guys for your advices.

Well! I have had second thoughts!

I will wait until I got used to ride normal Ds:) , then I will submit myself to a 9in D to take care of me.

 

Right now, I need to inform the escort about this new update and I need to to search for an expert TOP ((with a normal one)) to take my virginity

It’s not always about anal. There are many ways to enjoy a huge cock; if you like the gentleman you could still meet and enjoy the time in other ways...

[LivingnLA]

Thank you guys for your advices.

Well! I have had second thoughts!

I will wait until I got used to ride normal Ds:) , then I will submit myself to a 9in D to take care of me.

 

Right now, I need to inform the escort about this new update and I need to to search for an expert TOP ((with a normal one)) to take my virginity

 

If the escort is an expert top, you'd be in good hands. Clean yourself well, be patient, don't be afraid, and enjoy. But, if he isn't, I think you're smart to work your way up to that size. Practice safer sex, condoms and lube are your friends, and have fun!

[Guy Fawkes]

Not recommended.

poppers, booze and coke.

[Inkdnaija00]

I had a client like two weeks ago come over to my place who had the biggest cock I've ever sucked or had in me lol. It was like 9-10 inches at least and thick. I thought It could never get it to go in me. But he was gentle and he told me to ride it so I had full control, which totally helped. He didnt try to jam it in or pound me hard at first, he just let me loosen up my hole at my own pace, and in 5-10 minutes of doing that I was taking down the entire thing lol. So make sure he's gentle with u at first with slow strokes and after awhile it won't hurt as much and u can increase the speed, because if he just immediately jams it in as soon as he sees you it will hurt. A good top will have patience with you especially knowing he has a huge member. Him fingering you and some increased usage of lube helps too. Have fun dear with that monster cock

 

Now that's a great Top!

[Inkdnaija00]

Not recommended.

 

Right

[Inkdnaija00]

If the escort is an expert top, you'd be in good hands. Clean yourself well, be patient, don't be afraid, and enjoy. But, if he isn't, I think you're smart to work your way up to that size. Practice safer sex, condoms and lube are your friends, and have fun!

 

Exactly